Work Relationship Gone Bad: Should I Seek Revenge?

[Angel1111]

Hahaha, so do I have an update for you all!

 

Apparently, none of this is his fault: all of the jealous women who I work with were trying to ruin things, stick their noses in our business, etc. So, he had to save his own ass, and tell them that nothing was going on, and it was all just me having a crush on him. He swears he never meant to hurt me, and it is everyone else's fault, but not his. LOL! Seriously? I mean, I can believe that some of these women did stick their noses in our business; however, he could have told them to f-off. He didn't have to throw me under the bus.

 

Ha! That is really funny how you confronted him. Good for you. Boy, do I know about that jealousy thing. Not to say that what your married guy did was right but I have been on the receiving end of that jealousy and it can get really ugly. But the guy involved never threw me under the bus like that but in some ways he couldn't protect me from the maliciousness that went on. It was really a nightmare for me. And after it was all over with, I realized that it had nothing to do with nothing except plain old jealousy. People can be so stupid.

 

I'm glad things are better and particularly loved your comment about 'things are as ok as they'll ever be'. hee! hee!

[Virgo1982]

Good job so far, but I think you should ignore him. He likes to play these games and is probably attracted to your feistiness.

 

Act as if he doesn't exist.