confuzzled12 Posted July 30, 2008 Share Posted July 30, 2008 so i just graduated from high school and i met this guy whos gonna be in my freshman class in college. lemme describe him real quick: hes really friendly and nice but girls usually arent interested because he gets put in the "friend-zone" alot since hes such a nice guy. here are the signs im seeing: *he texts me EVERYDAY. and usually first. like, if i dont text or contact him i can usually anticipate him contactin me first *he IMs me everyday and usually seems really excited to talk to me *he always wants to hang out *he facebook "pokes" me and says im the only person he "pokes" *he told me that hes been shy everytime weve hung out *he always asks me questions about myself *when we hang out (other friends are around usually), hes usually really quiet and a lot more serious (hes really dorky and silly otherwise) Link to post Share on other sites
Keridan Posted July 30, 2008 Share Posted July 30, 2008 He likes you. If yer into him, give him a chance to make a move. Get him alone and just hang out for a while. Or just ask him ... blunt works well sometimes. Link to post Share on other sites
Author confuzzled12 Posted August 3, 2008 Author Share Posted August 3, 2008 ok i just hung out at his house with a bunch of his friends. *when we were playing video games on the floor, he wud be laying really close to the point where our arms and shoulders wud be touching but he wudnt move away *while all his friends were playin a board game, he and i sat together on his couch on his computer and he was kinda flirting with me (he wud mssg me on facebook with lil smiley faces even tho i was sitting next to him and he wud look at my pix while we sat together) *when he was dropping off a bunch of us after we hung out, he dropped me off last so we were alone (even tho i think it wudve been easier to drop me off earlier) *when he talks to me, his voice is really soft and he compliments me sometimes also, i filled out this romantic survey on myspace and he mssged me later all like "i just read ur survey. im gonna fill it out now too." and his answers were nearly identical to mine in the sense that it said that we both like somone but arent completely sure yet cuz we arent sure how that person feels Link to post Share on other sites
SilkLeaves Posted August 3, 2008 Share Posted August 3, 2008 Yes, he's definately interested. Be careful with the myspace/facebook stuff. Try and base your opinion on him by more actual contact. We can make believe people are anything over the internet. You need to avoid trying to squeeze him into some kind of ideal that you have in your head. It will only lead to disappointment. So, yeah, make sure you go out loads and don't place too much of your feelings for him on what he's like over the internet. Maybe you could ask him out and go somewhere just the two of you? Or you could just ask him out, if he's as shy as you say it may be frustrating waiting for him to make a move. I doubt he'd say no so I don't think you have anything to worry about by asking him. Have fun, and remember - myspace and facebook aren't that serious! Take them lightly. Good luck! I hope things go well. Post back with any new news! Link to post Share on other sites
Riley Freeman Posted August 4, 2008 Share Posted August 4, 2008 sounds like hes pretty much interested in you. i'd say go for it Link to post Share on other sites
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