More than a friend? Or simply just a good buddy?

[overanedge]

Heh, I guess this is another one of *those* threads.

 

So there's this girl I've known for about 6 months or so at uni. We hang out, always within our group of friends, which just is usually her, another girl and a bunch of us guys.

 

Now a few months ago, I started getting signs that she might like me more than a friend, sometimes we went out as a group, she'd sit close to me, sometimes even pressed next to me (this didn't happen all the time though).

 

Then there was that one time when we went out to a pub after exams and she was basically pressed up against me for the whole thing. Apparently, (can't remember much myself) we were just sitting outside together for a good few minutes really close together afterwards.

 

And then there was that other time when we went clubbing as a group and again apparently we were dancing really close to each other, reports from friends are we were REALLY close. Unfortunately, we were both drunk at both these times so I don't know how to take this..

 

But here comes the kicker, she's never more than a friend whenever I see her at uni, and not even a particularly close one, just someone I'd talk to but not closely.

 

I'm not sure what to do, should I take the initiative and ask her on a date? Or is she simply putting me in the friend zone here?

 

(yes, I realise this makes me sound like an alcoholic, I'm not, I just have a really low tolerance level )

[Suiyobi]

Let me ask you something: Do you like this girl?

[carhill]

No, I think he's looking for advice on how to get her to stop pressing against him

 

And the answer is.....

 

Ask her out