midnight Posted October 24, 1998 Share Posted October 24, 1998 I am saddened by a relationship filled with ambiguios messages. A man I could fall in love with says that there is no way he can ever be in a relationship yet he always calls me wants me over, calls me pet names etc. It was fine at first but I am growing bored and tired of the frustration I feel. I just am so busy that to go out and meet others requires to much energy right now. I'm in graduate school. I am very attratctive and am used to dating a lot of attractive men and am used to having a fun social like but the demands on school have made me feel so isolated and deppressed. HELP! Link to post Share on other sites
Ryan Posted October 24, 1998 Share Posted October 24, 1998 Well....if he's not looking for a relationship with you...then he's not interested. Asking you over and using pet names doesn't convince me any differently either. If you ask him for a romantic connection and he says no...then that's it. Saying you are "too busy" to meet people is not any sort of reason to cling to something you are imagining as a relationship between you two. You also shouldn't let him try to get any sexual activity out of you without committing to a relationship, because that would simply be using you. In this case, if he says no it means no. Link to post Share on other sites
JUSTAGUY Posted October 26, 1998 Share Posted October 26, 1998 Midnight, Remember this: While you are spending time with the guy you mentioned, there is someone else out there looking for YOU. (Hint: he will light up your life!) Help him find you. Get out there so he knows you're available. No excuses! Right now, the only thing standing between you and a great relationship is simply isolation. Try a personal ad (newspaper or online)...I've met some wonderful people that way. Or just get out and circulate. Make yourself visible. See what happens! Hugs for you JUSTAGUY Link to post Share on other sites
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