johnny1102 Posted August 3, 2008 Share Posted August 3, 2008 i am terrible at meeting new girl's. i have no faith in my self after what happend in my last relation ship. i just think i am not good enough any more. can anyone give me some tips. Link to post Share on other sites
ManWithQuestions Posted August 3, 2008 Share Posted August 3, 2008 how are you "terrible"? do you just not have the drive to go up to somebody and talk to her? or you just dont know how to move the relationship further? maybe some insight on what happened in your last relationship would help not the whole story, just the general idea Link to post Share on other sites
Suiyobi Posted August 3, 2008 Share Posted August 3, 2008 i am terrible at meeting new girl's. i have no faith in my self after what happend in my last relation ship. i just think i am not good enough any more. can anyone give me some tips. Whatever happened with your past relationship is in the past. Move on but continue to be yourself since you apparently were good enough to even have a relationship with a girl. Link to post Share on other sites
SilkLeaves Posted August 3, 2008 Share Posted August 3, 2008 Only you have the power to change your life. Chances are the girl of your dreams isn't just going to appear magically. You have to make an active effort to meet and get on with new girls. People in happy relationships have usually been assertive and actively tried to go on dates and move on with their lives after past relationships. Once a relationship is failed, you feel bad for a while, then you get off your ass, pull yourself together and use the life that you have. Go to your mirror, take a good look, get cleaned up, look your best, then think about how many girls there are out there, and how many chances for a relationship you have! There are tons of single girls! Sitting moping around will not make you any happier. You may feel like you don't have the confidence because of the fear of rejection but you have it in you somewhere. Sure, there might be a few dates that don't work out but at least you'd be TRYING. Eventually you'll find the right person. You could try online dating, or just go somewhere that's very social with a few friends and get talking to girls there! Either way, something will work out as long as you try. Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
Author johnny1102 Posted August 3, 2008 Author Share Posted August 3, 2008 how are you "terrible"? do you just not have the drive to go up to somebody and talk to her? or you just dont know how to move the relationship further? maybe some insight on what happened in your last relationship would help not the whole story, just the general idea He is the link to what happend in my last relationship http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t160330/ Link to post Share on other sites
Riley Freeman Posted August 4, 2008 Share Posted August 4, 2008 i am terrible at meeting new girl's. i have no faith in my self after what happend in my last relation ship. i just think i am not good enough any more. can anyone give me some tips. well 1st you need to be confident in yourself. if your not, no girl is going to waste time on you. you just need to approach her with that swagger and just start a conversation with her and see where it leads too. if it goes ok then you got her the only person making this hard is yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
ManWithQuestions Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 He is the link to what happend in my last relationship http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t160330/ as ^^^ said, you need confidence in yourself no girl is going to like someone with no confidence thats why the "lower" guys in school dont have any girlfriends, because they lack confidence in themselves another thing, i dont know if your the "nice guy" time, but i surely am and i get put in the friend zone with everybody ... so dont be the "nice guy" dont treat them like crap either, but just dont fall into the horrible pit i am in and remember, you want to be confident, not cocky a girl can sense the difference a mile away if she does like cocky, then shes not for you girls who like cocky guys = bad Link to post Share on other sites
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