ashley_lopez96 Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 is it cheating on ur bf when ur sending pictures of you on the computer to one of ur crushes...?? idk if im cheating please help me Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 is it cheating on ur bf when ur sending pictures of you on the computer to one of ur crushes...?? idk if im cheating please help me Huh... how old are you? twelve? Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 She's 15 Lizzie. I won't touch the cheating thing, but it is incredibly stupid to send naked photos to this, or any other guy, no matter how nicely he may ask. Who knows where they will end up. Link to post Share on other sites
Beaches Posted August 6, 2008 Share Posted August 6, 2008 Sending pics to a crush...It' obvious you're feelings aren't pure for him and you desire for someone else. That's not healthy. I would NEVER send any pics of myself to anyone. It wouldn't even cross my mind. So I guess to answer your question...it some way it is! Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted August 6, 2008 Share Posted August 6, 2008 The best person to ask whether you're cheating or not is your b/f. You can show him the pics and mention your crush. He'll most definitely give you his input. Are you sure you're ready for an exclusive relationship? Something tells me you're not. Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted August 6, 2008 Share Posted August 6, 2008 The best person to ask whether you're cheating or not is your b/f. You can show him the pics and mention your crush. He'll most definitely give you his input. Wonder how that conversation will end... Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted August 6, 2008 Share Posted August 6, 2008 end...Optimum word! Cheating is a strange beast where different people have different boundaries. It's up to both parties to sit down and define what they consider cheating. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ashley_lopez96 Posted August 6, 2008 Author Share Posted August 6, 2008 thanx ur really helping me Link to post Share on other sites
lovestruck818 Posted August 6, 2008 Share Posted August 6, 2008 it's never really a good idea to send any kind of pictures to anyone at all...with the way the world is today and all the crazies out there... Link to post Share on other sites
silverbunny Posted August 6, 2008 Share Posted August 6, 2008 yea i think it is. i think if your bf was to find out (either you telling him about what you're doing or someone telling him about the pics) its like you're trying to get yourself into another relationship. i'd stop Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted August 6, 2008 Share Posted August 6, 2008 is it cheating on ur bf when ur sending pictures of you on the computer to one of ur crushes...?? idk if im cheating please help me Yes. You are crossing the line big time by flirting and sending photo's to someone you have a crush on. It opens the door to other things, and eventually you'll cheat physically. If you are interested in someone else, break up with your boyfriend or fix things WITH your boyfriend, stop flirting and sending pictures to your crush. Link to post Share on other sites
bish Posted August 6, 2008 Share Posted August 6, 2008 is it cheating on ur bf when ur sending pictures of you on the computer to one of ur crushes...?? idk if im cheating please help me Yes, you are engaging in emotional cheating since you crave the attention of another guy. Break up with your bf if you are hung up on a crush. Link to post Share on other sites
bish Posted August 6, 2008 Share Posted August 6, 2008 She's 15 Lizzie. I won't touch the cheating thing, but it is incredibly stupid to send naked photos to this, or any other guy, no matter how nicely he may ask. Who knows where they will end up. I didn't see where she said they were nude photos. Either way, I think she is cheating emotionally. At the very least, she isn't true to her boyfriend. Link to post Share on other sites
Grrlish Posted August 6, 2008 Share Posted August 6, 2008 is it cheating on ur bf when ur sending pictures of you on the computer to one of ur crushes...?? idk if im cheating please help me It's a bit of a grey area but at the very least, you're headed down a slippery slope. 1. How would you feel if you found out that your boyfriend were sending pictures of himself to someone that he has a crush on? 2. Even if it wouldn't bother you, that doesn't mean that it won't bother him for you to be doing it. Different people can have different definitions of what cheating is. 3. Do you know what your definition of cheating is? If yours doesn't jibe with his, there could be trouble. 4. One of your crushes? How many do you have? If you have crushes that you're attracted to enough to be sending photos to, you're not with the right guy/boyfriend. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ashley_lopez96 Posted August 7, 2008 Author Share Posted August 7, 2008 so is it okay to flirt when you have a bf? Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 ashley, here's my rule of thumb. If you do anything you're afraid or ashamed to show or do in front of your b/f, you know you're either toeing the line of bad behaviour or have crossed it. Link to post Share on other sites
twice_shy Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 so is it okay to flirt when you have a bf? Not in my opinion. Because what is the purpose of flirting? To gain the attention of someone of the opposite sex. Flirting is never harmless in my opinion when one has a bf/gf/w/h. Link to post Share on other sites
Riley Freeman Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 is it cheating on ur bf when ur sending pictures of you on the computer to one of ur crushes...?? idk if im cheating please help me if you have a bf why do you have a crush on someone else? Link to post Share on other sites
Untouchable_Fire Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 so is it okay to flirt when you have a bf? Not really. It's kind of disrespectful. Actually the fact that your crushing on another guy... that's emotional cheating. You don't want to do that. Trust me! Link to post Share on other sites
Author ashley_lopez96 Posted August 8, 2008 Author Share Posted August 8, 2008 well can me and "the crush" stll be friends Link to post Share on other sites
Untouchable_Fire Posted August 8, 2008 Share Posted August 8, 2008 well can me and "the crush" stll be friends No. For the simple reason you have a crush on him. You can learn this now or you can learn this later in life. Your on this site because you feel guilty. You need to realize that when you feel guilty... It means your doing something wrong. How would you feel if your BF was crushing on another girl? Link to post Share on other sites
mental_traveller Posted August 9, 2008 Share Posted August 9, 2008 so is it okay to flirt when you have a bf? The rule of thumb is - if it's not cheating, then you should be happy to tell your bf about it. Link to post Share on other sites
WiseOne1 Posted August 11, 2008 Share Posted August 11, 2008 Well sending photos is emotionally cheating. Look at is this way" Would you be hurt or mad if he was sending photos to another female? Its cheating. Fliriting can go either way, it depends on rather its for attention or for other purpose, all depends on the purpose. Link to post Share on other sites
bish Posted August 11, 2008 Share Posted August 11, 2008 well can me and "the crush" stll be friends absolutely not. Link to post Share on other sites
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