my partner says she is not in love with me any more after 18 years

[TrustInYourself]

Patience and time will tell.

[glynnroy]

Ok so i am getting confused now ,she has just texted me ,its my turn to have the kids ,she said she is ill and she is not going into work ,she also said can i fetch some bread ham and crisps for her ,i did this the other week for her regarding food,she has had all weekend to do this ,she wants to go out on the piss but not take her responsibilities at home serious ,what is going on

[Ronni_W]

she also said can i fetch some bread ham and crisps for her...what is going on

My guess is that, what's going on for her is that she's realized she has a very willing and capable grocery delivery boy.

The thing is, she can hold you hostage by saying that the bread and ham is (mostly) for the kids. If I suspected that there is plenty enough other stuff for the kids to eat, I'd not take any of it. But I'd definitely not take the crisps.