JustinWolf Posted August 11, 2008 Share Posted August 11, 2008 You think you're ready to look at her myspace account after 10 months of NC? WRONG! And I was doing so good after 2 months! Why the hell did I go there... why in poo-perfect hell!?!?!? I need a kleenex tissue now. Link to post Share on other sites
nowhereman82 Posted August 11, 2008 Share Posted August 11, 2008 Anything in particular hit you the most or was it just seeing her? My ex saved me the trouble and has her profile set to private. Link to post Share on other sites
roghornio Posted August 11, 2008 Share Posted August 11, 2008 aaggg. I think i am actually sacared to even log into facebook incase i see something. I dont think it would bother me but i dont fancy finding out thank you very much. Link to post Share on other sites
sultry33 Posted August 11, 2008 Share Posted August 11, 2008 im at the stage where i dont really care... he is prob flirting with all the girls lol but then again as said before exs want you to see the good stuff/pics i have a few new guys on mine and yea friendly flirt and banter is good so i dont sweat it... Link to post Share on other sites
SweetTux Posted August 11, 2008 Share Posted August 11, 2008 yea what did u see that bothered you?? Because my ex... Her page was private but than she deleted me off her friend list and made her page public... she keeps putting stuff on about got her eye on boo and stuff like that. I think shes tryin to make me mad and she also has some **** talkin about me on there... sigh... (and she is with someone new already..) I am trying not to read her myspace anymore but we'll see how that goes haha.. So what was it? just seeing her or something she has on it? Link to post Share on other sites
Mr Biscuits Posted August 11, 2008 Share Posted August 11, 2008 It's been 2 months for me, I've been avoiding her public facebook account because the last time I looked, it was just a load of pictures of her and new b/f, all loved up. Killed me at the time. Found myself wondering if I'd ever be able to look again. I guess you've answered my question. I'm also guessing you've discovered something similar. If so, I can assure you that although the initial shock is truly awful, things will calm back down again in a couple of days or so. Don't torture yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
Author JustinWolf Posted August 11, 2008 Author Share Posted August 11, 2008 Well after 2 months of our breakup I was doing good and I found out that she had a new bf, then I was down again. 5 months later I was doing perfect until now when I saw a picture of her and it reminded me of all the things. She had left to go to holidays for the summer so I knew it would be impossible for me to come across her. Now she's back and I saw a picture of her and her man together for the first time. Holding each other and I remembered that it used to be me holding her ... Link to post Share on other sites
Peter_pan Posted August 11, 2008 Share Posted August 11, 2008 god that is horrible. i think i wont look at hers now hearing that Link to post Share on other sites
Author JustinWolf Posted August 11, 2008 Author Share Posted August 11, 2008 god that is horrible. i think i wont look at hers now hearing that I'm a sucker for love, if it's not the case for you, then it's okay but i'd still suggest you avoid going to look there. Link to post Share on other sites
sunshinegirl Posted August 11, 2008 Share Posted August 11, 2008 It's a great example of how even the smallest news or info about an ex can throw us off. I have a thread going about how I merely received a real estate listing in my inbox for my ex's condo - he's selling it. It reopened a lot of emotions for me even though there's been no contact with him. Link to post Share on other sites
wareagle Posted August 11, 2008 Share Posted August 11, 2008 I haven't viewed my ex's page since I did it by accident shortly after she dumped me, and man did I regret it! I am no where near ready to jump that fence yet! She hit's mine up at least twice a day though, lol! I have a tracker on it, I guess she thinks I don't know where she is living or her IP address, but little does she know hahahahah! It kinda bothers me though that she still feels the need to check up on me everyday, even though I wasn't good enough to have around! Oh well what are ya gonna do? Link to post Share on other sites
0hpenelope Posted August 11, 2008 Share Posted August 11, 2008 Oooh yeah. Everytime I see someone I think may be him, I freak out still. In public places, I calm myself down. But there was this time when I thought I saw him on Flickr at a camping trip - but the trip was at the East coast (Atlantic Ocean side of the U.S. for the non-Americans on this board. Hi all!). I was so relieved when I knew it wasn't him for sure. It's just so unfortunate that the guy looked like Lawrence. It felt like my heart was in the back of my throat! Not a good feeling at all. I needed to go on AIM for the first time in a long time because I needed to talk to a friend. Don't go looking for trouble. That's what Facebook/MySpace/whatever are for the brokenhearted who are trying to move on: trouble! Link to post Share on other sites
tealeafbud Posted August 11, 2008 Share Posted August 11, 2008 You think you're ready to look at her myspace account after 10 months of NC? WRONG! And I was doing so good after 2 months! Why the hell did I go there... why in poo-perfect hell!?!?!? I need a kleenex tissue now. I hear ya Justin. Don't bust yourself up over it. I stayed away from myspace for a while, but wanted to log in recently. big mistake. Because I also ended up checking her profile. Oh well. it's not like I talked to her or something. Link to post Share on other sites
0hpenelope Posted August 11, 2008 Share Posted August 11, 2008 I hear ya Justin. Don't bust yourself up over it. I stayed away from myspace for a while, but wanted to log in recently. big mistake. Because I also ended up checking her profile. Oh well. it's not like I talked to her or something. Aaaah! TLB! You too?! When the Beijing Olympics went on, I made the mistake of looking up Lawrence on Facebook because the event reminded me of him! Messed my brain up for a whiiiile on afterwards! Lesson learned again. Link to post Share on other sites
BackonTrack Posted August 11, 2008 Share Posted August 11, 2008 forget those bitches and who they are with. my ex was so stupid, i had to show her everything. she didn't know nothing and she eventually slept with someone else, she felt so guilty, but then started to blame me "we are not together" blah blah, eventually she left me for him but didn't tell me. anyways, i found out & broke upwith her, then iwanted her back & she told me **** off. hasn't seen her in 5 months. sometimes i wonder if i truely loved her, sometimes i wonder if she's happy. actually i don't really care anymore, that girl was little bitch, a young whore who tricked me for months, **** that bitch i don't hate or love or even care anymore, i honestly don't. all i'm saying is forget about who your ex is with, in time your heart will heal and you will finda nother and one day sooner or later, when their relationship fails the'll come back & when they do, you can tell them to **** off. as long as you were nice to them, they always return. Link to post Share on other sites
sultry33 Posted August 12, 2008 Share Posted August 12, 2008 forget those bitches and who they are with. my ex was so stupid, i had to show her everything. she didn't know nothing and she eventually slept with someone else, she felt so guilty, but then started to blame me "we are not together" blah blah, eventually she left me for him but didn't tell me. anyways, i found out & broke upwith her, then iwanted her back & she told me **** off. hasn't seen her in 5 months. sometimes i wonder if i truely loved her, sometimes i wonder if she's happy. actually i don't really care anymore, that girl was little bitch, a young whore who tricked me for months, **** that bitch i don't hate or love or even care anymore, i honestly don't. all i'm saying is forget about who your ex is with, in time your heart will heal and you will finda nother and one day sooner or later, when their relationship fails the'll come back & when they do, you can tell them to **** off. as long as you were nice to them, they always return. yep damn right there in my case anyway.. went to club on friday and an old ex was there.. was a short fling really about 3 months.. not love or anything.. he was like "how did i let you go".. err because i never chased you ever!! he said i was the best gf he had ever had and i always smiled.. rooms lit up when i walk in.. im so happy and a true diamond.. he said i dont have a bad bone in my body.. im hot and was dynamite in bed.. oh yeah;) got on great with his mates.. they all loved me.. blar blar blar... i went home alone:bunny: felt good to hear though and i was never ever mean to him or my current ex.. he picked me up from club on the sat.. but i just kissed him on the cheek and said.. im not looking for anyone or any rs atm... im enjoying having "me" time.. he wants to take me out this week... think im going to opt out though as with him.. its trully over for me.. was just fun at the time, but it did feel good to hear he had regrets and thought so highly of me:love: so yes they do return.. but you may not want them when they do.. hopefully the dumpers will learn by this;) Link to post Share on other sites
roghornio Posted August 12, 2008 Share Posted August 12, 2008 as long as you were nice to them, they always return. Not sure about that one… never had anyone return! Link to post Share on other sites
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