You WILL get fed up one day...

[bamagrl75]

[FONT=BernhardFashionHmk][sIZE=3]You’ll get fed up one day… [/sIZE][/FONT]

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[FONT=BernhardFashionHmk][sIZE=3]You WILL get fed up one day. This seems to be the reoccurring statement made by best friends and family, when searching for answers as to why you keep putting up with the same @!#% and going back to… “The Bad For You Relationship”… [/sIZE][/FONT]

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[sIZE=3][FONT=BernhardFashionHmk]They were right. It took me 4 1/2 years, but I did get fed up. It took a nice hard kick of humility to make me see the light ;-) He loves me better than anyone ever has, but he hurts me better than anyone ever has. After he had broken things off with me several months ago… I was totally crushed. In a bad way!! Couldn’t eat, couldn’t sleep, couldn’t function… I was pitiful. Then I realized regardless of how bad I felt… I was still alive and breathing. What didn’t kill me… was definitely making me stronger!!! After my mini-breakdown I felt like a complete fool for letting him see me crushed like that… but it helped me. We tried to work things out and things were wonderful for a while, but in the end… he was back to being cold, hurtful and mean. He told me he didn’t want to be with me (he’d rather break it off ove the phone than have a rational conversation face to face)… this time… I agreed ;-) I didn’t know what was happening to me, but for the first time… I was able to let him go. [/FONT][/sIZE]

[FONT=BernhardFashionHmk][sIZE=3]There are things about him I will miss forever and a part of me will always love him, but you finally come to a time when you realize… it’s just not going to work. In the end… I guess we all get fed up ;-)[/sIZE][/FONT]

[sIZE=3][FONT=BernhardFashionHmk] [/FONT][/sIZE][FONT=BernhardFashionHmk]Thanks to all of you guys for your great post! I can sit and read for hours, this site has been a major eye opener for me! For all of you going through a break up… I’m sorry that you’re hurting… but it really does get better. I honestly believe that if it weren’t for my friends I’d be crazy!! I have a few very close friends (male and female) going through the same thing… breaking up and divorce. They have all been there for me and I for them. It’s one of the hardest things you’ll ever go through… you don’t have to do it alone.[/FONT]

[bamagrl75]

You’ll get fed up one day… You WILL get fed up one day. This seems to be the reoccurring statement made by best friends and family, when searching for answers as to why you keep putting up with the same @!#% and going back to… “The Bad For You Relationship”…

 

They were right. It took me 4 1/2 years, but I did get fed up. It took a nice hard kick of humility to make me see the light ;-) He loves me better than anyone ever has, but he hurts me better than anyone ever has. After he had broken things off with me several months ago… I was totally crushed. In a bad way!! Couldn’t eat, couldn’t sleep, couldn’t function… I was pitiful. Then I realized regardless of how bad I felt… I was still alive and breathing. What didn’t kill me… was definitely making me stronger!!! After my mini-breakdown I felt like a complete fool for letting him see me crushed like that… but it helped me. We tried to work things out and things were wonderful for a while, but in the end… he was back to being cold, hurtful and mean. He told me he didn’t want to be with me (he’d rather break it off ove the phone than have a rational conversation face to face)… this time… I agreed ;-) I didn’t know what was happening to me, but for the first time… I was able to let him go. There are things about him I will miss forever and a part of me will always love him, but you finally come to a time when you realize… it’s just not going to work. In the end… I guess we all get fed up

 

Thanks to all of you guys for your great post! I can sit and read for hours, this site has been a major eye opener for me! For all of you going through a break up… I’m sorry that you’re hurting… but it really does get better. I honestly believe that if it weren’t for my friends I’d be crazy!! I have a few very close friends (male and female) going through the same thing… breaking up and divorce. They have all been there for me and I for them. It’s one of the hardest things you’ll ever go through… you don’t have to do it alone.