GrnEyedGemini Posted August 29, 2008 Share Posted August 29, 2008 Am I the only one that just reads blah blah blah blah when this guy posts? You've been spouting this crap for how long on here? No one gives a flying rats arse what you think Woggle. Me too...but the first one I responded to earlier I thought wow...maybe this guy has some women issues that need to be worked on...maybe he was royally screwed by a woman....I thought perhaps he could possibly have a break through....guess I was wrong. So much for wanting to help someone so bitter. Woggle....the world is not such a bad place. Not all people (women) are evil. There are good acts going on everyday....you just gotta open your eyes to see it. Link to post Share on other sites
GrnEyedGemini Posted August 29, 2008 Share Posted August 29, 2008 It's because they saw you as a challenge. they pushed as far as they could to see how you could handle. you txted back to them all the time? and maybe said the same thing back they said to you? like I miss u, thinking of u, things like that. you should've gave them mixed signals. you can complain that you got the wrong girl but the thing is every girl could be that way (you treat them nice and become attached to them. they will dump you) So not true. Hello people!! Not everyone you date you will have CHEMISTRY with! It why its called DATING, not an instant relationship! CHEMISTRY is REQUIRED for a REAL relationship! Actually, very few people you date you will actually have that chemistry with. Dating is very very much like trial and error. Hardly anyone gets it right on the first or second try....hell, or even the third or fourth or fifth. THAT is why it is special when you find someone you DO have that spark with. Otherwise....why would anyone place any special feeling on meeting the one? Damn people...quit being so "woe is me" and wallowing in self pity and loathing and get back out there and put your best foot forward...you WILL eventually meet a good person. They are out there. You just gotta drop the "all women are evil" vibe and the good ones will come. Its very easy to spot a guy that has that attitude. And that, my friends, is most likely the reason you have so much problem finding a good woman. Link to post Share on other sites
Exavion Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 Well to me, they just sound like your typical attractive girl: indecisive, insecure, and easily bored. Unfortunately for you, your the type of person every girl says they want, but not necessarily at the age they are. You're too nice, too polite, and at your age: too boring. You're predictable, and that's why these girls lose interest in you fast. They pursued you, and once they had you, they found out that you're no different than the other nice guys that they've met in their lives. If you don't want to make the same mistake again, just don't be so willing and docile. Learn to be a bit rude, to be a bit arrogant, learn to tease them but not too harshly. At the same time, be nice as well, so they'll never really know what to make of your constant shifts in behavior. Girls like jerks because they don't know what to expect, but they also love a sweetheart at times to appreciate them for who they are. Having too much of one or the other leads to boredom or tiredness of dealing with it. Learn to balance your good and bad sides and you'll be a lot more successful and happy with your future potentials. Appreciate them for who they are? How do you appreciate a girl who likes to be mistreated... Woggle...that is a horrible thing to say. Thats like if I were to say most men are inconsiderate, egotistical, sexist a55holes so its ok for us women to use them for their money then leave when it all dries up. Men are just as screwed up as women. Actually, from my entire life experience, everyone is screwed up. Just others have more grace and class to behave as decent human beings in the face of trials instead of using every bad thing that has happened to them as an excuse to behave horribly. The majority of the world is filled with people like that. Players just trying to get a girl into bed because they know it's the only way that works, and girls trying to get back at the world because of what happened to them when they dated a jerk. Meh. I'm not "screwed up". I honestly, sincerely, genuinely want a nice girl to be with. I'm a romantic at heart. It just doesn't workout for guys like me... Oh yea, and PS. Women make no sense. And if they did, the game wouldn't be interesting. Would you keep playing poker if you knew when to bet it all and when to fold all the time? Would you appreciate the winnings at all? The point I think is to keep playing, and you'll find that one special person. Because without the shade, how can you appreciate depth? The honest difference, is that dating shouldn't be a game. Love isn't a game. You're playing with feelings, not cold money. But the reason I think she was attracted to me was for several reasons, one, I wasn't looking for a relationship, two, when she and I got involved at first I simply only saw it as us just hooking up and treated it so, and three, from the start of the relationship, I could be myself. All these aspects affected my attitude and my outwardly appearance and created a guy who was much more attractive and confident. Oh, that's so romantic! No offense to you, bro. I just think that I'm screwed because of my desires. I want a relationship. I want romance. I'm not just in it for sex. I don't treat women like sex objects. So, I'll never actually get a girl. I hate women. It's just plain ridiculous if you ask me... Guess what? My ex husband got his hands on a percentage of my trust fund.... also got half the profits from the sale of the house that my parents bought for us. Stop being so single minded about this stuff. When I turn 42- I inherit a great chunk of cash from the sale of lands my granparents bought 50 years ago---- they are prime vineyard locations in the Niagara Region that my grandparents paid pennies for. Now- this region is premium grape growing soil for wine. I'm not close to getting that money- not old enough yet- but my ex husband still wants a piece of it..... even though we divorced 6 years ago. It's still in the courts.... I doubt anyone here would say that guys can't be brutal *******s too, because we can be. What we're saying, is that the guys who are so, usually are the ones with all the girls, which makes us go "WTF"? This is why any man that doesn't get a prenup is a damn fool. No woman is getting her hands on what I worked for. I completely agree, though I take it a step further... I'd never get married, simply because of the legal loopholes a good lawyer can sneak in, even with an ironclad prenuptial agreement... some states are wacky. Oh and before you say it, I never considered marriage romantic, to be honest. Spending a load of cash on one party for what? I don't need to declare my love to the world. The only person it has any effect on is my partner. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
beautiful_stranger Posted September 13, 2008 Share Posted September 13, 2008 I believe that whoever play games will eventually get burnt themselves.. and that's when they will stop... Learning things the hard way is just a part of human nature. Link to post Share on other sites
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