nopainnogain Posted August 21, 2008 Share Posted August 21, 2008 Awsome .I love when these spontanious situations happen.Its the best. Another time I went to venice beach to get something and I saw this hot girl walking alone next to me. I said "your hotta then steam,wheres your man?" She replied " no english" Luckily I speak spanish . I got her some kettle corn and she invited me to her pad . She lived a few block away. On the way we stopped and got some drinks ,got to her pad and she dropped my drawers:D Link to post Share on other sites
4dviceJunki3 Posted August 21, 2008 Share Posted August 21, 2008 I have know people that have done this and it has actually worked. Has anyone here ever tried it? I mean i would like to ask this girl i have known for years but i feel sooo awkward. You're seriously better off going out with her a few times, taking her to dinner, then get her drunk and have it work that way than to just ask her. I mean, you know that "not so famous" saying that goes like "If you ask 100 girls to have sex with you, 1 of them is bound to say yes!"? Well, you can research that; lol. But I mean, regardless of the fact that you want to have sex with her, you need to know what type of a person is she. I mean, is she the type of person that will give it up easily because she simply doesn't care? Or, do you need to take out a couple of times? Or, does she need to be drunk? Does she need to trust you? They all add up! In your case, figure it out, and make the right move; it's really not that hard. Link to post Share on other sites
cutegirl Posted August 22, 2008 Share Posted August 22, 2008 Guys who got game don't need to "ask for sex", it just happens if the chemistry there. One thing leads to another. If the girl is really into the guy she might even seduce HIM for sex. It's lame to verbally ask if you can have sex. If you need to ask that means you got no game. Link to post Share on other sites
4dviceJunki3 Posted August 22, 2008 Share Posted August 22, 2008 True that. I mean I don't even remember the last time I heard someone just ask another person to have sex with them. Although, If a girl asks a guy, it's an immediate yes! LOL Just get your game together, talk to her properly, and if she's interested and is the type that doesn't mind having a one night stand or whatever, then everything will go through just fine. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted August 22, 2008 Share Posted August 22, 2008 Although, If a girl asks a guy, it's an immediate yes! I know we like to joke about those things but in reality men do also discriminate who they have sex with.. at least I do.. I certainly would not sleep with a woman if she came up and ask me to have sex.. Aids, Herpes and other STD's and basically living as well as my own self respect are more of a concern to me that dropping my load... A woman who did that would be no different than a man who did it.. Red Flag City... Link to post Share on other sites
Lights Posted August 24, 2008 Share Posted August 24, 2008 I'm reading some of these posts. I'm interested in this subject matter as well, although I am not in the original poster's position. What is game in this context? I'm seeing the repetition of the use "got game" in this thread but it is not apparent what it means. One thing is for certain; "chemistry" (gotta love yet another of those meaningless jargon words) isn't always reliable, and I can attest that "one thing leads to another" is a bunch of b.s. in real life. In real life, nothing necessarily leads anywhere. As for the concept of taking the woman in question to dinner and getting her drunk, I'm curious why that even comes up; I'm assuming that the original poster's goal isn't to subsidize anyone's food, alcohol, or entertainment budgets, nor to perform social rituals in dating them. It's to seduce someone directly. Link to post Share on other sites
KravJeff Posted August 24, 2008 Share Posted August 24, 2008 Even Brad would have trouble with that one. "Uh, hey babe, can I have sex with you?" I mean, how does one actually say that without making a woman feel like she can expect financial compensation at the end of the night? You'd be surprised ... Sometimes (apparently) the directness is a turn on - Of course, the experience I have is from days of being a professional musician (Rock Star in my own zip code...) Made it a bit easier - Worked many a time. Then there was the times that women would ask me (or others in the band) directly ... I ***** you not. Sheesh -- To be 20 and stupid again Link to post Share on other sites
changchewsoon Posted August 24, 2008 Share Posted August 24, 2008 Well, it worked for me at least. I was hanging out with a friend of mine whom I've not seen for 10 years and we recently got back in touch, she's quite endowed on the top and really curvy behind and I must admit that I was turned on the whole night with her. So, what happened was that I asked her back to my place and I took the bold and direct approach with her by complimenting her curves and telling her it turns me on like hell and I would seriously like to bone her. I'm not too sure whether its because she was feeling for some action too but right after what I said to her, she basically got turned on and needless to say I got laid that very night. I think, it all boils down to the chemistry between you and the person. Being bold has its advantages but I guess you need the timing has to be right and being with the right person as well. There's isn't a sure way to guarantee that it'll work every time on everyone. Link to post Share on other sites
rod_in_gtown Posted August 27, 2008 Share Posted August 27, 2008 Yeah, timing... deifinitely "pass the ketchup... want to have sex?" is not the way to go Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted August 27, 2008 Share Posted August 27, 2008 Yeah, timing... deifinitely "pass the ketchup... want to have sex?" is not the way to go ................... 'oh by the way'... Link to post Share on other sites
Kenyth Posted August 27, 2008 Share Posted August 27, 2008 Huh??? I tried it before and it worked for me.. OP: you can always ask... and see how it works.. Lizzie, you're probably an exception. For one, you're a girl. Secondly, from what I can see of your pictures, you shouldn't need to ask at all. You would merely have to snap your fingers, point at the wall, and pick the best candidate or two from the line that forms. Link to post Share on other sites
Kenyth Posted August 27, 2008 Share Posted August 27, 2008 Yeah, timing... deifinitely "pass the ketchup... want to have sex?" is not the way to go On the other hand a phrase like, "Want to have sex? Pass the chocolate syrup!" seems to work. Link to post Share on other sites
nopainnogain Posted August 27, 2008 Share Posted August 27, 2008 I know............. Tell her you want to take her to see a movie called the "one eyed monster" Or Invite her to your place so you can show her your "pet snake" :lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted August 27, 2008 Share Posted August 27, 2008 Lizzie, you're probably an exception. For one, you're a girl. Secondly, from what I can see of your pictures, you shouldn't need to ask at all. You would merely have to snap your fingers, point at the wall, and pick the best candidate or two from the line that forms. Hahaha.. I wish it was that easy.. but I can't complain too much.. Link to post Share on other sites
yongyong Posted August 29, 2008 Share Posted August 29, 2008 Unless she is a fcxxin whore on street. think about it. when you even get a one night stand from a slut, you would say 'hey you wanna watch movie at my house?' Both of you guys know exactly what would happen but you guys never say it. Link to post Share on other sites
KinAZ Posted August 30, 2008 Share Posted August 30, 2008 Let's F* usually never goes over well with any self respecting lady, not even the ones who are open for casual fun. There are those who don't mind the crudeness, and there are others who would at least appreciate a little seduction first, or something! And if you're scared to ask, I'm not sure how well you would work the seduction process. Trying to look cool when you're nervous usually just makes you look creepy or strung out on something. I wouldn't be blunt about it because it could be very insulting. Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted August 30, 2008 Share Posted August 30, 2008 Lets f*ck goes over well with the more confident better looking women, but if you really want to get their water boiling go find two girls and say lets f9ck both of u same time... manage o three Link to post Share on other sites
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