Lizzie60 Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 Well that's just ew. I picture your cougar bar filled with older women with blonde hair, black roots walking around in high wasited jeans, black bar tops and cowboy boots with smeared red lipstick. Of course there is leapord print happening somewhere in that ensemble. I'm not one of those cougars- although, technically given my age, I am a cougar. Me too.. I had the same 'picture'... plus the tan (leather skin face) drunks... Link to post Share on other sites
grogster Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 Me too.. I had the same 'picture'... plus the tan (leather skin face) drunks... A "cougar bar"? That sounds like soft-core porn fiction. If "cougars" didn't already exist, narcissistic young men would have invented them. Finally, as for the "cougars" I know, it takes much more than "youth" to get and hold their attention. Much more. Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 Older women have this perception that younger men are less sexist and more full of energy and younger have this perception that older women play less games and aren't caught up on petty crap like younger women. I am married to a woman older than myself but I think her age is coincidental to the fact that I feel I made a good choice. You also have the cougars who are just trying to relive their youth and are pretty much the female versions of men who buy a sportscar and try to hit on younger women. Many of them try and look young but just look gross and disgusting. Link to post Share on other sites
Jersey Shortie Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 :lmao::lmao:well, 9 out of 10 denstists think 3 out of 10 cougars have a 60% chance of being taken out in public 20% of the time. That made me laugh out loud. It was clever. Many of the older women on here offer excellent advice, and have great ideas They just don't deserve respect or a man's love from your perspective. Some of my buddies had sex with women in the parking lot Then your buddies are pretty disgusting. Funny how you think your buddies are "better" then the women they had sex with. The truth is, they aren't. You know that saying..like attract like. Yes, people pay big money to see young girls acting like that because 1. it is hot 2. it is rare "Big money" is 14 dollars a pop now? If a guy wants to spend his time watching girls gone wild, I can't say he is a man I would respect. I actually don't think he is a man that any woman would truly respect. All young guys know if they want to get laid they go to the bar with the older women. I can't prove it to you, but maybe you can take my word for it. Why should anyone take your word about anything? You aren't objective when it comes to women. You are actually rather cruel not only to older women, but women in general. You clearly have little respect for the female gender. You seem to quite a bit of hositlity to older women in particular for some reason which leads me to believe you have mother issues. I'm younger then you and I find your attitude about women completely unattractive. No woman wants to be saddled with a man that thinks so little of women. Good luck with that. Link to post Share on other sites
Balthazar Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 I'm not one of those cougars- although, technically given my age, I am a cougar. At what age do you start being a cougar? I always thought 40 was the turning point. Link to post Share on other sites
almost famous Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 It's slang, not a technical term. Duh. Link to post Share on other sites
nopainnogain Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 Damn,I need to find myself a bar full of cougers lol:D Link to post Share on other sites
Shygirl15 Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 You let me know how it goes for you as you get older, Shygirl, and who it is that is or isn't attracted to you. You are in no position to have a real opinion about this right now, just your biases that come from who knows where--either a lot of insecurity, or you're a man pretending to be a female on this site. Not even the 40 year old men I know are looking for women in their 20s--it is more the exception than the rule. Most people are comfortable within their own age group. So don't worry, us old gals don't want your young men, though sometimes we get them anyway. I already explained in one of my posts that I know as I grow older, the situation is likely to reverse and I will be open to dating younger men, but as of know, let me just have fun and enjoy teasing you older gals! Link to post Share on other sites
Rooster_DAR Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 Damn,I need to find myself a bar full of cougers lol:D LOL :laugh: Link to post Share on other sites
Cherry Blossom 35 Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 I already explained in one of my posts that I know as I grow older, the situation is likely to reverse and I will be open to dating younger men, but as of know, let me just have fun and enjoy teasing you older gals! It doesn't come across as teasing, Shygirl. You sound very condescending towards older women. You also sound like you enjoy cutting them down. You will grow older too, one day, remember. It may be hard to imagine right now, but it will happen. Link to post Share on other sites
nopainnogain Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 How old are you shygirl? Link to post Share on other sites
Shygirl15 Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 It doesn't come across as teasing, Shygirl. You sound very condescending towards older women. You also sound like you enjoy cutting them down. You will grow older too, one day, remember. It may be hard to imagine right now, but it will happen. No, I don't enjoy that. I seriously meant to tease a little, but heck, I'm sorry I never meant to offend anyone. But really, guys, we shouldn't take everything so seriously, let's just lighten up a bit. Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 A "cougar bar"? That sounds like soft-core porn fiction. If "cougars" didn't already exist, narcissistic young men would have invented them. Finally, as for the "cougars" I know, it takes much more than "youth" to get and hold their attention. Much more. hahaha.. you're soooo right.. Lish and I were talking about Von's cougar's bar.. from what I could understand.. it was a 'low class' cheap bar.. where older women (like the ones we described) were hanging out in order to grab just about any 'young losers' who were wasting their time in those stinky bars.. Link to post Share on other sites
vonerik012 Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 Actually the "cougar" bar is very real, and in the most affluent part of my city. What it is a dance club for men and women 40-60. Most of the bars and clubs by me cater to the 21-35 crowd. So this one is for people a little older. It is not a place to hang out often, but many young men hear about it, and go just to see if the rumors are true. Anytime I sat down at the bar a "cougar" would tell me she was not wearing panties after a short convo, buy me drinks, grab my ass, etc. Thats the type of place it is. Drunk horny older women on a rare night out who want to have a lot of fun. Lizzie, what are you talking about?? You are trying to get hooked up with a young black kid who you never even met, and don't even know, or even know what he looks like, just because he is young and black.. Such high standards:rolleyes:.. You really proved me wrong, and made older women look really choosy.. Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 Actually the "cougar" bar is very real, and in the most affluent part of my city. What it is a dance club for men and women 40-60. Most of the bars and clubs by me cater to the 21-35 crowd. So this one is for people a little older. It is not a place to hang out often, but many young men hear about it, and go just to see if the rumors are true. Anytime I sat down at the bar a "cougar" would tell me she was not wearing panties after a short convo, buy me drinks, grab my ass, etc. Thats the type of place it is. Drunk horny older women on a rare night out who want to have a lot of fun. Lizzie, what are you talking about?? You are trying to get hooked up with a young black kid who you never even met, and don't even know, or even know what he looks like, just because he is young and black.. Such high standards:rolleyes:.. You really proved me wrong, and made older women look really choosy.. I am NOT trying to get hooked with this young guy.. my friend 'proposed' this guy.. I have no clue if I will like him and vice versa... I only ask my friend if he had a black guy in mind that he could introduce me to.. since he is black.. and he knows me very well.. I have never been in a bar and hit on young men.. geezz.. I know the kind of bar you're talking about it's 'low class' cheap bars... eeewwwww... where drunks like to hang out... those bars are found everywhere. Young men hit on me.. (I think I gave my phone no. to 2 young guys in all my life)... I never had to lift a finger.. they come to me and if there is 'chemistry' then fine.. I don't just sleep with younger men just because they are young 'fresh' piece of azz.. We enjoy each other's company... first. Link to post Share on other sites
Balthazar Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 Actually the "cougar" bar is very real, and in the most affluent part of my city. What it is a dance club for men and women 40-60. Most of the bars and clubs by me cater to the 21-35 crowd. So this one is for people a little older. It is not a place to hang out often, but many young men hear about it, and go just to see if the rumors are true. Anytime I sat down at the bar a "cougar" would tell me she was not wearing panties after a short convo, buy me drinks, grab my ass, etc. Thats the type of place it is. Drunk horny older women on a rare night out who want to have a lot of fun. Lizzie, what are you talking about?? You are trying to get hooked up with a young black kid who you never even met, and don't even know, or even know what he looks like, just because he is young and black.. Such high standards:rolleyes:.. You really proved me wrong, and made older women look really choosy.. I don't doubt the bar exists, but aren't cougars better off hunting in regular clubs which have a regular supply of young dudes? The competition may be stiff(young chicks), but there are a lot of horny guys in regular clubs out there.... Link to post Share on other sites
nopainnogain Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 Anytime I sat down at the bar a "cougar" would tell me she was not wearing panties after a short convo, buy me drinks, grab my ass, etc. .. Thats awsome. I really need to hit up a couger bar! Link to post Share on other sites
vonerik012 Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 I am sure they would feel out of place in a regular bar.. And Lizzie... Just because you meet men off the internet for sex, you feel all high and mighty? Many people think that is far worse.. Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 I don't doubt the bar exists, but aren't cougars better off hunting in regular clubs which have a regular supply of young dudes? The competition may be stiff(young chicks), but there are a lot of horny guys in regular clubs out there.... Of course these bars exist.. even the 'cougars' he's talking about.. Today I had one of those 'typical' cougars who hang out in cheap bars (the ones you're talking about).. sitting next to me in the bus... she was in her late 40s I would think.. long jet black hair, lots of 'blue' eyeshadow.. too much 'foundation' (leather face) a piercing on her eyebrow.. too many cheap bling bling.. waaaay too tight black jeans.. wide gold belt.. she was really skinny, obviously a smoker... and she was half drunk.. she asks me something, I could hardly hear her.. tatoos on her arm... eewwwww.... Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 I am sure they would feel out of place in a regular bar.. And Lizzie... Just because you meet men off the internet for sex, you feel all high and mighty? Many people think that is far worse.. For your information, I don't just meet them on the Internet.. I meet them everywhere.. and I don't hang out with 'losers' ... Link to post Share on other sites
nopainnogain Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 Ugh,thats a nasty couger you described lol I like the soccer moms, teacher, office type of cougers. Link to post Share on other sites
vonerik012 Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 Trust me, I don't find the old women there hot...Although I would not say they are some completely different species of older women.. Younger men go, then typically regret what happened the night before.. But it all makes for some good times, teasing, and laughs. LIZZIE... So you don't use the net to meet them.. Gave your number to only 2 younger guys in your life.. Never lift a finger to meet them.. How do you meet them? Link to post Share on other sites
Jake Barnes Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 How do you meet them?on playgrounds Link to post Share on other sites
nopainnogain Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 lmao:laugh: Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 Trust me, I don't find the old women there hot...Although I would not say they are some completely different species of older women.. Younger men go, then typically regret what happened the night before.. But it all makes for some good times, teasing, and laughs. LIZZIE... So you don't use the net to meet them.. I didn't say that.. I said I don't JUST use the Internet.. Gave your number to only 2 younger guys in your life.. Yeah... twice.. one I thought was older... but he was still in his 20s... Never lift a finger to meet them.. Not at all.. I never hit on a younger guy.. How do you meet them? Everywhere.. at work, from people I know, on the bus (transit), Internet, vacations (resorts) in the last 4 years, on three occasions (vacation)... I had a 'fling' .. they came to me.. they were all in their 20s.. (23, 25 and 27)... and I don't know if you've been down south, on those beaches, there are tons of hot young girls in bikinis.. I was the lucky one I guess.. Link to post Share on other sites
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