Lizzie60 Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 on playgrounds Oh come on Jack Azz.. don't be silly.. Link to post Share on other sites
vonerik012 Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 Everywhere.. at work, from people I know, on the bus (transit), Internet, vacations (resorts) in the last 4 years, on three occasions (vacation)... I had a 'fling' .. they came to me.. they were all in their 20s.. (23, 25 and 27)... and I don't know if you've been down south, on those beaches, there are tons of hot young girls in bikinis.. I was the lucky one I guess.. So with all of these younger guys you just go have sex right away? I mean you only gave your number out 2 times... Link to post Share on other sites
OpenBook Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 I don't doubt the bar exists, but aren't cougars better off hunting in regular clubs which have a regular supply of young dudes? The competition may be stiff(young chicks), but there are a lot of horny guys in regular clubs out there.... This is so odd. We don't hunt. We are THE HUNTED. We get hit on wherever we go - grocery store, post office, gym, work, etc., etc. We don't have to do anything. We're not even TRYING to do anything. It just keeps happening to us!! I can't prove it to you, but maybe you can take my word for it.:D Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 For the most part I'm into younger women because they look alot better. But some older women are still attractive and comunicate alot better leaving out the flake factor. Older women who date younger men specificaly for that reason either don't find men their age attractive, arn't looking for anything serious, or fell in love or some combination Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 So with all of these younger guys you just go have sex right away? I mean you only gave your number out 2 times... With some exceptions.. yes I had sex right away.. I gave my number 2 times.. one I never heard from.. the other one called.. but it turned out he was living with his gf.. but we exchanged hot phone sex and emails.. he was sent at his army 'camp' for 6 months just a few weeks after we exchanged... then from there he sent me a few emails... I didn't answer his last email.. he's back but he moved.. I'm not interested anymore...he was kinda 'weird' (weird fetishes, not my cup of tea ).. Young, old, married, single.. I just don't want any relationship for now.. I just want to have fun.. but I am extremely 'picky'... Link to post Share on other sites
nopainnogain Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 Damn.Too bad your in canada. Link to post Share on other sites
Lovelybird Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 ok, this is about everybody gets their needs met, every one happy I still think in a long term sense the emotional needs won't be met by younger guys If without commitment and genuine love exist, I would feel like being used, is that better being used by younger guys than older guys? If without commitment and serious relationship, I'd rather have none, because I know I would grow more feelings towards that guy expecially when sex involves, and after all vulnerabilities exposed, you just say 'it is physical connection and satisfaction', it's like 'slap in face', increase pain not lessen it maybe some women can seperate sex with feelings, I doubt it, it is a mystery, maybe they just deny that Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 For the most part I'm into younger women because they look alot better. But some older women are still attractive and comunicate alot better leaving out the flake factor. Older women who date younger men specificaly for that reason either don't find men their age attractive, arn't looking for anything serious, or fell in love or some combination Yep.. in my case, I don't find men my age or older very exciting.. there are some exceptions though.. AND I'm NOT looking for anything serious AND I never fell in love with any of them.. Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 ok, this is about everybody gets their needs met, every one happy I still think in a long term sense the emotional needs won't be met by younger guys If without commitment and genuine love exist, I would feel like being used, is that better being used by younger guys than older guys? If without commitment and serious relationship, I'd rather have none, because I know I would grow more feelings towards that guy expecially when sex involves, and after all vulnerabilities exposed, you just say 'it is physical connection and satisfaction', it's like 'slap in face', increase pain not lessen it maybe some women can seperate sex with feelings, I doubt it, it is a mystery, maybe they just deny that I find this sooo odd... of course some women CAN separate sex and emotions.. geezzz... why would that be a MAN ONLY domain... I just don't get it.. that people just can't get that. A few younger guys have fallen for me.. but I had to end it.. I do NOT want a relationship.. No one is being used.. we both enjoy what we're having.. it's all good, we're both 'mature' (legal age )... so it's all good.. It's not JUST about sex.. some much younger guys come just for a visit, there is not sex every time.. we just enjoy each other's company.... in some cases, there are a nice connection, but I can't call it love. Link to post Share on other sites
Jersey Shortie Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 Anytime I sat down at the bar a "cougar" would tell me she was not wearing panties after a short convo, buy me drinks, grab my ass, etc. Thats the type of place it is. Drunk horny older women on a rare night out who want to have a lot of fun That sounds like a bad scene out of a movie. Usually the guy in the movie that happens to is some wussed up winey dog. Not some alpha male. For a guy that dislikes older women so much, you love talking about them. Could this be a little reverse physcolgy where you are trying to deny your feelings for the Golden Girl growd. Ahhh Amore. I already explained in one of my posts that I know as I grow older, the situation is likely to reverse and I will be open to dating younger men, but as of know, let me just have fun and enjoy teasing you older gals! Yes one day you too will be older. Just as I will. And remember this Shygirl. Because when you are 40 and some 20 year old brat wants to "tease you older gal", I hardly doubt you will find it as amusing. Link to post Share on other sites
grogster Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 Yep.. in my case, I don't find men my age or older very exciting.. there are some exceptions though.. AND I'm NOT looking for anything serious AND I never fell in love with any of them.. So true, Lizzie. Most middle-aged men are either boring couch potatoes or whiny wimps. Inertia is their mistress; HDTV their opium. If low libido layabouts is your thing, check out middle-aged men. Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 So true, Lizzie. Most middle-aged men are either boring couch potatoes or whiny wimps. Inertia is their mistress; HDTV their opium. If low libido layabouts is your thing, check out middle-aged men. I'm not there yet.. but one day I assume I will... then I will start to check them out.. With the few experiences I had with men my age were their lack of 'stamina'... the one who was my age.. I'm sure he was taking viagra sometimes.. Plus men my age look older... I just can't... Link to post Share on other sites
grogster Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 I'm not there yet.. but one day I assume I will... then I will start to check them out.. With the few experiences I had with men my age were their lack of 'stamina'... the one who was my age.. I'm sure he was taking viagra sometimes.. Plus men my age look older... I just can't... Take your time, Lizzie. Once sex declines in relative importance, expand the pool of available men. Till then, play on my dear. Play on. Link to post Share on other sites
almost famous Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 I don't know, I know a lot of guys in their 40's and 50's who are pretty active and love to go out and do stuff and aren't at all "couch potatoes." Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 I don't know, I know a lot of guys in their 40's and 50's who are pretty active and love to go out and do stuff and aren't at all "couch potatoes." I agree.. my best lovers aren't the youngest ones.. Young ones have lots of energy but they aren't as experienced with a woman's body... they get sooo freaken excited sometimes.. they come as soon as we touch them.. On the other hand, I find that my best lovers are men in their late to mid 40s... who are/have been married... Link to post Share on other sites
Kamille Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 I skidded through the whole thread and didn't see anyone post my two top reasons for dating younger men (sorry if someone has): They're single. They're all over the place. (They're easy to meet.) Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 please there are plenty 30 year old single guys all over the place Link to post Share on other sites
Kamille Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 please there are plenty 30 year old single guys all over the place But there are way more 25 year old single guys all over the place. Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 please there are plenty 30 year old single guys all over the place 30 yr old single guys are the 'quite younger' in my case.. the 20 yr old are my 'much much' younger ones. Link to post Share on other sites
almost famous Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 A lot of men mid-30's and up are divorced, and many with kids. I am not lacking in my age group for dateable men. Link to post Share on other sites
Kamille Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 I'm not lacking men in my age group, but I get approached/hit on proportionally more by 20 years old then 30 years old. I always though it was because there were simply more 20 years old single guys. Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 But there are way more 25 year old single guys all over the place. well think of it from my perspective, lots of girls have fake wedding rings on (regardless of age) and a good percantage of girls always have a bf. So when a girl has a ring on or I know she has a bf does that stop me... NO of course not, I wouldn't want to do anything with a married woman per se but I don't mind stealing a girl away from her loser bf Link to post Share on other sites
Cherry Blossom 35 Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 I skidded through the whole thread and didn't see anyone post my two top reasons for dating younger men (sorry if someone has): They're single. They're all over the place. (They're easy to meet.) Yep, very true. I find it a lot harder to meet men in their mid to late 30's. They may be out there, divorced or single or whatever, but I don't meet them. Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 Yep, very true. I find it a lot harder to meet men in their mid to late 30's. They may be out there, divorced or single or whatever, but I don't meet them. ahhh shoot.. you'll have to settle for a hawwwtttt 25 yr old hunk... Link to post Share on other sites
Cherry Blossom 35 Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 ahhh shoot.. you'll have to settle for a hawwwtttt 25 yr old hunk... Yeah, I can deal with that Link to post Share on other sites
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