daisyprincess188 Posted August 10, 2003 Share Posted August 10, 2003 ok, i used to be a bit slutty and have always been a massive flirt! after a 2 years of different lads every wk, i finally settled down, this was 5 months ago. now, i would never cheat on him, i love himto bits, but when im out, and pissed up, sometimes guys touch me up, but i sort of dont notice. and i cant stop flirting. my boyfriends getting pissed off and 'sorry' is startin 2 wear a bit thin. do i have to stop drinking? or an other suggestions? cheers Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted August 10, 2003 Share Posted August 10, 2003 "Touching up" a girl in public, especially without her permission, is against the law. You start drinking less liquor so you keep your wits about you and are able to report these guys who touch you to bouncers, management or legal authorities. There are very few men on this planet who want to be with a lady who would tolerate this sort of thing...and, even worse, play into it. I think it's time for you to make even more changes in your life. You CAN stop flirting. If you simply have no control over yourself after drinking less, get immediate medical and/or psychiatric attention. What benefit is the alcohol giving you? Save the money from drinking less booze and send a check each month to help feed starving children around the world. Several young people could live because you drank less and got ahold of yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
2SidestoStories Posted August 10, 2003 Share Posted August 10, 2003 Sounds like your choice to "settle" may be awfully half-hearted. I agree with Tony...cut down on the booze. And don't let yourself think that men touching you is OK when you're not offering, and even if you just don't want that contact. My suggestion is to really consider what you want. If you want to stay "settled" then you've got a whole lot of life changes to make. Flirting and being felt up consistently are two entirely different things. Link to post Share on other sites
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