Habibti Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 Well, my story has certainly taken some twists and turns. So, I posted about being confused because my ex had put up pics of me/held onto pics of me on two different websites, I found out he wasn't acknowledging that we broke up, he posted our old love song on his site also. He ended things with me, I told a lie about something and came clean to him; he said he couldn't trust me anymore and I was insecure so the best thing was to move on. We split almost 3 months ago, and the picture posting,etc was still going on. So I wrote him a letter, tonight I finally got a response. He said he feels that moving on from this situation is the best policy in our situation. However, he found out I was re locating in a few years to the area he just moved too and he told me that he would love to meet back up with me then and see what happens. I realise now why he has all that stuff, I do believe he sincerely does love me and care for me a lot but because we have both hurt eachother he knows that going back would open up wounds and just taint things and they'd never work out anyway. I agree with him, we'd have to move on before we could ever really start over IF that happens. I don't know, 2 years is a long time either one of us or both could move on with other people. It's going to be one of those if it's meant to be it will, I realise that there is still a lot of love between the two of us. If we were to get back in eachothers presence, I know that the reason we got together is still there and always would be if we were to re kindle. So I thought I was being jerked around, guess I wasn't. He just still loves me but realises we can't be together without crash and burn so he didn't want to ruin things Link to post Share on other sites
0hpenelope Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 Wow... That's quite an ending, indeed. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Habibti Posted August 19, 2008 Author Share Posted August 19, 2008 I thought I was being toyed with and messed about in the head with. Now I have a lot of respect for him because I can only imagine how hard it is for him to walk away from someone he's in love with and cares so much for because he knows that it would only fail under these circumstances and at this time. That takes a lot of heart and it shows me he is looking out for the both of us. Awww Link to post Share on other sites
m00nstone Posted August 21, 2008 Share Posted August 21, 2008 Wow that's absolutely amazing! My situation is different from yours, but yours gives me a better perspective on how to handle mine. There is hope! I do have a question... will there be NC or are you two planning on staying friends/acquaintances? Link to post Share on other sites
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