Neo Posted August 10, 2003 Share Posted August 10, 2003 If you've done something bad to someone, and you try to make up for it but get accused of feeling sorry for yourself, how can you fix it so it doesn't seem this way? I've apologized to a woman for bad things I've said in the past, told her to take all the time she needs, told her I never meant any of the bad things/etc yet I am still being accused of feeling sorry for myself Please help me with this... Link to post Share on other sites
longlegzs80 Posted August 18, 2003 Share Posted August 18, 2003 If you say stuff that you did not mean, why would you say them? It is really hard to forgive someone for what they say that could be hurtful etc. I know I remember things that I have been told in the past by guys that I have met and my last and only boyfriend. Been told that, "no guy is going to ever like me because of the way I am." Sure that is hurtful and I have heard the same thing come out of this one guys mouth, but it is because I am a different kind of women. Anywho, whether it is out of anger or whatever, you have to realize that it is not easy to accept an appology from someone who says hurtful things. I know I would not accept it. I don't know how you are being accused of feeling sorry for yourself. I just don't see how it ties in. If you can explain it more, maybe I can help you. Link to post Share on other sites
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