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Met her today...Attraction present...What now ??????????????????


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Heey guyz I think that I am in a good position right now with this girl, I met her only today in a restaurant when I asked a former female friend to get 3 of her friends to go out with me to a restaurant...so I got a friend of mine..dressed up nice and went...we sat...4 girls and 2 guyz..during the whole convo...I was hyper with that girl we ate the table talking we spoke untill our throats hurt and we had SOOOOOOOOOO many things in common including ex-workplace, family business, education...things were cracking hard between us and she seemed to like me....after we went home i logged on to msn and told my old femae friend to invite them to a convo where I noticed alot of messages from her...some of which are shown below:

 

 

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1-"***** we are ment to be"

 

 

2-After I tell them I was going to sum up the meeting..she wrote the following before I summed it up

 

"UMMM 1. LISA HAS NICE TOES 2. JAMES AND MARY ARE SILENT 3. ME AND ***** ARE ENEMIES THOUGH WE WILL FALL IN LOVE EVENTUALY 3. LISA HAS NICE TOES4. THE FOOD WAS GOOOD 5. SAFO HAD STEAK THAT COSTED HIM 250 6. I LOVE BOOOOBZ 7. I LOVE MARY AND LISA 8. IM GNA HAVE MY ASS KICKED REAL BAD TOMORROW ( ***** COME SAVE ME)!!!!!"

 

***** is me...

 

 

3-"AND END UP KILLED FOR THE NAME OF LOVE BABYYYYYY"(talking to me)

 

 

4-When i told her to give me her number...she told me to come to her work place and take it...I told her ok but not tomorrow !!!

 

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Well u have it...What i can see now is that she's going to start a vicious war with me where she will play hard to get with me and I am obliged to do the same...I don't want to do this but for plan A i have the following:

 

 

 

1-IF we go out in a group again...ISOLATE...her by telling her "hey wanna go talk over there ?" then we talk abt everything but our relationship...this is to show her that me and her are special and i found this method after experiencing it with a newly met friend 2 years ago...worked well...

 

-my question here is that shud I talk to her about "us" or sould I just make general talk in an effort to make her feel comfortable around me talking about anything???

 

2-Try to find a problem she has and be concerned about it...it will make her feel protected and valuable...

 

3-Let my female friend gather intel about her feelings and alter her mind subliminally so that she builds attraction towards me...(they are good friends) the female friend was my best friends ex too so I got good access...

 

4-Build Physical comfort (don't get me wrong - no sex involved)...but i have to make her comforrtable around me physically in terms of holding hands...patting her...cheek kissing...pulling her or pushing her etc....

 

-My question here is: how shud I build the physical comfort ??? to what extent ?????

 

 

 

 

 

*Finally how do I fight her game of hard to get ???? Should I make a killer move which is a swift K.O. or in other words...sweep her off her feet ????(if yes then HOW????)....I know that u guyz have a 3rd eye on this so any ideas and suggestions would be great...

 

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