what should i do, my girlfriend just left me

[bhadresh88]

hi, i have been reall problem here. my girlfriend just broke with me, and i got hurt so badly. we have been in love since january 2003 at first time when i meet her i was like " not bad" its ok for to play with her. but after she told me that she dont have her father, he died 3 yaers ago , then i reallise that i cant play with this girl, if i play with this girl may be god will never fergive me,

she is indian and me too. she always askin me for to merry with her, but i told her i will tell u after i got sure from my home ( means if my mom and dad ready ) then i will merry with her, and day after day i like her and and then i love her, we had sex many times and she never said no to me for taht. i having sex with her becuase i think sex is helping us to not forget each other, and i think i am right. but last 25 days ago i got mad on her bz she didnt call me bz we mad plane to go out, she said she called me but i didnt pick up but i m sure that there was no call or no mess! ege, after taht day we just met one time and i felt like she s changing , i got tears on my eyes , i told her dont chang huney, she was like she s not changing it just i think taht way. but after taht day the way she talkt to me is completly

change, i realliz that she must be like someone else then me, i ask her do u like someone else she said, she dont know . it means yes she likes someone else. (the guy from her store wher she works. ) after two three days she told mtha

she likes taht guy, i told her its happends sometimes to attrect with someone, but its not love , she said is not taht its different then i m taling her.

i got hurt so badly, i couldnt sleep for one week, i just think whole whole night that how come this happends, she loves me so much and it not just for saying i saw that love in her eyes. if i did this with her she must be die. and i cant belive tht what she done with me now its 25 days to happands. i told her friend

thta i wan go out with her for last tim!e, she came with her friend and her friend 's boyfriend , we went for go out, on taht day she told me that she if i had understand her she never leave me. now she likes that guy and her mother also happy with that. and she also happy with him. but she didnt told him bout me and our relationship, the guy told her taht he will think bout her and give her answer later. now i think the guy give

her answer positive. she dont come online or nothing, and i dont call her home becuase i think its nothing worth, may be if do this thatn she will go away from me.i want to do something that she must think bout me, and come back, i dont

wan go with onother girl and i told her taht manytimes. i dont know what to do.

should i in touch with her, or let it go watever way it going. but one think i want to tell you is i want to get her back, i dotn want to lose her forver. i still love her, i never get true love in my life, this time i though that this is different then other girl. but i got ro!

ng. need ur really halp on this, may be u can make someone,s life, please reply me what i have to do. tahnx

[greeneyes]

Give her some time. If you two were meant to be together it will happen. What seems like a misunderstanding (the missed phone call) turned into an assumption and you acted like it was done on purpose. And having sex with someone makes you feel like it brings you closer? Two people have sex with each other because they want to not because they feel like they have to. And how can you tell her how she feels about this other person? You can't control her feelings. I hate to be so negative but it is hard not to be. Maybe I am reading everything wrong. I would feel a little smothered by your actions. Take care.

[Clancy]

Since you love her so much and want her back even though she's hurt you then I'd suggest seeing or calling, or writing her one last time just to tell her (without tears or blame) that you love her and because of that you want her to be happy, that you accept her choice and that you will get on with your life BUT, if she ever thinks that she might like to see you again to call you and if you are free you'll be happy to see her again.

 

You have to act with self-discipline, strength, self-respect, and maturity. Even though you love her madly, she has made a choice and you are not it. Let her go.

 

Good luck.

[bhadresh88]

thanx clancy,

this days i really need something good idia or formula or watever u can say, i really love her, and i dont want to do anything so she will go away from me. i want to get her back. as u read b4 , she loves me so much and when we go out last time, she told me that she want to be my friend , but i dont want to be her friend, its just becuase ur lover cant be ur friend, i cant see her with someone else. and i think every girl say to her x boyfriend, and the reason for that is she will have chance for comeback if the guy she likes may be he will leave her in future. and for me its very hard to be her friend. i try to call her home sometime but somebody else pick up the phone. i write her email two days ago, i wrote that i want to go out with her on saterday , but she didnt reply me yet, thats y i called her today but i caouldnt talk wtih her. i cant see her, i dont have car , i using public transportation. and she lives 3 miles away from me. should i go to meet her or let her go, i m afread that if i go to meet her may be she dont like it. and one thing is i want to tell u, i have been flurting with many girls. but girl i never seen like this. its completly different, and i though that this is the girl that i was lokin for. for me beauty is not important then nature. i didnt get true love in my life. so i decided that i will love the girl who will love me truely. and that s the girl i seen, and i fall in love with her.

i felt like she has used me becuase, we meet online and then personally and we fall in love. but at one or two months ago, her x boyfriend left her, and he told her taht he has many girlfrind, just ferget him wat hever happands, and then we meet. she told me bout him everythng, and i belived her. then i never ask her bout him. but she told me that she likes this new guys from last 3 months and she broke me last months. but during this two months i never felt like she likes someone else. now the guy she likes who likes her, so she trying to leave me without hurt me. so i think she just used me. however she also told me that she was loved me. i dont know wat to do, but i belive in god that what ever he do , he will do good for me. and he will do watever is like b4. he will do allright. give me some idia so i can get her back , need some formulas. i can do anything for her, just give tell me that and i will do, i promise. thanx bye

[ADUN]

Ok my indian buddy, I think I know some of your culture because I know some people from your area in school.

 

Your girl wants to get married... she wants a house, husband and kids (that's why her mother agrees with her so far). now YOU weren't assuring her enough that this specific need of hers will be satisfied any sooner. Hence, she just screwed!!! The other guy was smart enough to tell her what she and her mother wanted to hear.

 

You say you still love her and every blabla you wanna tell; it will stay this way as long as you keep saying it!!! Stop saying you "love her" and that she's "perfect" because trust me, she's not -> the proof, look what she did to you dude !!!!

 

You know why you're still running after her, it's because you're afraid of the loneliness and the single life!! Face it!!! If Salma Hayek was around you now and telling you that she's crazy about you you'd still think about your ex, I don't believe so

 

Be a man and be tough cuz the more you loosen up and cry-baby, the more she feels in the clouds...