CharlesFarley Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 Ok I would like to thank everyone at LoveShack that originally gave me advice on my prior relationship issues regarding my seperation which ended up being temporary as she finally came to her senses about how she feels about me. But now we have another problem... It would seem that while she was angry with me she has decided to enlighten some of her friends (possibly all of them) on the fine details of our relationship and it's flaws. A few of these friends of hers will no longer acknowledge me and have been putting pressure on her about why she decided to get back together with me. Can't say I know these girls too well as I only met them once or twice and never really got a chance to get to know them. She only sees them once in a blue moon anyway. But I'm both angry at her for telling them the details of our relationship and angry at her friends for judging me without actually "knowing" me as a person. Now she's defending her actions and stating that she doesn't see any problem with exposing my life with her to these people that literally have nothing to do with our intimacy/relationship. Put simply it bothers me because I'm a private person and I would rather keep my private life, well, private. Is this normal for her (or any other women) to do things like that, knowing that it could cause social damage between the "Man" and "Her Friends" ? Why is it I feel betrayed..? Link to post Share on other sites
Melrapuo Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 Did you tell your friends about flaws that you had in the relationship with her? I think it goes both ways. I told my friends about the problems I had in my relationship with my ex, and most of them have told me that if she asks for a second chance I should blow her off. In all honesty, its not what your friends say, or what her friends say. It's really between you and her. You can tell her (calmly and maturely) that you are upset with her telling her friends these things about the two of you. But at the same time, make it clear to her that the opinions of her friends and yours should not affect how the two of you feel about each other. And if they DO, then maybe you two shouldn't see each other. Advice is one thing; taking the opinions of others as your own course of action is another. It boils down to what she wants, not what they want. Link to post Share on other sites
CaliGuy Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 Why should you care? You don't need the approval of her friends... Link to post Share on other sites
nopainnogain Posted August 20, 2008 Share Posted August 20, 2008 Why should you care? You don't need the approval of her friends... I agree and also,why would you want to be with someone that is easily influenced by her friends Link to post Share on other sites
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