Kaka Posted August 22, 2008 Share Posted August 22, 2008 I didn't know who to get advice off so I decided maybe the best advice will come from people who don't know me. I have just broken up with my boyfried of 5 yrs. We have a house and discussed marriage etc. My boyfried loves his happy pills and in five years I've never stopped him from doing anything. Maybe this is where I went wrong. He always got what he wanted cos I just wanted to make him happy. However, in the last year it got really bad. I ended up on double dates on my own, he'd leave me in a pub and not say anything. He took me for granted and all I asked was every now and again for him to do something nice. Its the small things that count with me. Even the bedroom life was gone. I told him I wanted to break up cos I thought it would spur him now. It has back fired. We are selling the house and he has slept with someone else. I know I should be angry but I'm not. I've never felt pain like this before and I'm having panic attacks, thinking about him. I want him back but don't know how to do it. He says he doesn't know how he feels anymore. Everyone says I am better off without him but I love him so much. Will he eventually come back to me? Do I try with him? Do I try move on? Link to post Share on other sites
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