Jim82 Posted August 24, 2008 Share Posted August 24, 2008 I have been hanging out with this girl for about two weeks and she has been all over me...So last night we go to a friends house and this other kid I know likes her to, and is trying to make moves, so she gets all over him. I leave with some friends for a little while to do get something I had left at my house and we left her, that kid and maybe ten other people at the kids house why we were gone. So she calls me and asks if I am coming back soon and I just say yeah and why does it matter, she just says no reason, so we finally get back, then she starts getting all over me again, then all over him. I need some help. Is she just really immature or am I doing something wrong. I really don't know what to do and I am so depressed. I will not lose her to this douche bag. Link to post Share on other sites
Tyra Posted August 24, 2008 Share Posted August 24, 2008 Don't get depressed over this chick.I mean, she's hopping from here to here.This is an eye-opener already. You have to ask yourself if you really want to deal with an individual who is like this.It's not too late to step away from her.It's just been two weeks. Link to post Share on other sites
SilkLeaves Posted August 24, 2008 Share Posted August 24, 2008 Honestly I don't think she's interested much. She probably just likes the ego-boost that comes from needy guys all around her. Don't be one of those guys. Find yourself a girl who likes you back 100% and don't settle for anything less. Good luck x Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jim82 Posted August 25, 2008 Author Share Posted August 25, 2008 thanks for the replys...Its kind of hard to find a descent girl since I am in highschool in a little town...but I just basically said screw you....im going on Link to post Share on other sites
nopainnogain Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 that chick is drama Link to post Share on other sites
JohnnyBlaze Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 thanks for the replys...Its kind of hard to find a descent girl since I am in highschool in a little town...but I just basically said screw you....im going on Good call, Jim. Even if you did get something going with her, she sounds like she'd still be trouble. Every time the two of you went out, you'd never be able to fully relax - you'd always have to keep your guard up and have one eye on her at all times. No chick's worth that kind of headache. Link to post Share on other sites
CommitmentPhobe Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 You know what I'm in an evil mood today so drama her back. Next time she's all over you push her off. Next time she calls pick up for a bit then say you gotta go. Start talking about how hot someone else is. If she asks you if you're going somewhere say yeah and don't show up. Then when she starts to get the message go over and tell her not to give up on you. It will work like a charm. Link to post Share on other sites
nopainnogain Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 i agree,fight fire with fire in this scenerio. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jim82 Posted August 26, 2008 Author Share Posted August 26, 2008 It is harder than I thought to just let the whole thing go...texting me and stuff, asked me to do something, I just said I was going to be busy. Link to post Share on other sites
Lucasarts Posted August 27, 2008 Share Posted August 27, 2008 hmm interesting situation She's been all over you for two weeks, so what the hell were you doing for those weeks? Holding your dick in your hand and waiting for a solution to drop out of thing air? I mean if you're really interested in her, then why don't you actually commit to it and make her yours? She's probably all over that other kid because you and she both know that the kid likes her, so she's using him to get to you. . .It's called jealousy and she's playing her cards to piss you off. . . she wants to see what your reaction will be. Newsflash to the other posters: THE GIRL IS SINGLE. THE GIRL DESPERATELY WANTS THIS GUY IT APPEARS. THE GIRL IS USING EVERY TRICK IN THE BOOK TO GET HIM. So stop labeling this girl as a needy slutty attention whore. What girl isn't an attention whore in high school? It's pretty obvious she's just trying to get your attention. . .hence why would she call you when u left? and why does she always want to hang out with you? stop over analyzing and just go with it. . .see where it leads and stop making excuses. Link to post Share on other sites
rod_in_gtown Posted August 27, 2008 Share Posted August 27, 2008 I say this girl is a poster child for a "cock tease", I say lose her, she is T R O U B L E. But if you're really into her, make your move, don't pussy-foot your way around her. Put your hand on the small of her back slightly and get close. Don't look or be scared, if she's into you, she won't move away. Then, just look into her eyes and move a little closer, but not all the way. Wait a second or two and if she stays still then go for the kill! If she moves away, then she's just in for the thrill of the ego boost. Kick her to the curb then. Link to post Share on other sites
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