cougars and cubs - how young is too young?

[Alma Mobley]

Oh that thread sounds tasty -- I haven't seen it yet!

[Lizzie60]

Yes we do. But if he isn't dating people his age and is jumping to woman in their 30's... there might be a problem there.

 

Why.. what would be his problem.. maybe he prefers women older than him.. for intellectual chemistry.. who knows..

 

some men DO prefer older women.. my last date was 36, 20 years younger... and he ONLY dates older women... he said he tried once more last year with a woman his age.. (twice so far) and it confirmed his preference.. he absolutely loves older women. He said this time he wanted to be serious with me.. (we dated a few years back)... but it's 'dead' for me now... I broke up 2 weeks ago..

[Jilly Bean]

Oh that thread sounds tasty -- I haven't seen it yet!

 

It's in the Personal Rants section. Enjoy! I know we did while we were playing Fantasy Island!

[Lizzie60]

I am a proud "she" and I am even in the so-called hated demographic of the 30th decade variety. Shame on me for aging!

 

 

Oh my.... then I must be in the highest hated demographic, I'm 56... booo hooooo..

[Alma Mobley]

LOL Jilly, that reminds me of something one of my exes said. I was only nine years older. He said I "ruined' things for him and he could never, ever date a younger woman again. Aww, sweet.

[Jilly Bean]

LOL Jilly, that reminds me of something one of my exes said. I was only nine years older. He said I "ruined' things for him and he could never, ever date a younger woman again. Aww, sweet.

 

You go girl!

[Alma Mobley]

Oh my.... then I must be in the highest hated demographic, I'm 56... booo hooooo..

 

What, Lizzie? Did you NOT not know you are thoroughly unattractive and should hide yourself under a burka or something? If you're 30+ you have to hide as to not offend young eyes, and god forbid they judge your age as younger and find out the truth later!

 

I'm surprised you didn't get the memo!

[Alma Mobley]

You go girl!

 

Hehe, the next guy (11 years younger!) who told me that asked me to marry him.

[Lizzie60]

Hehe, the next guy (11 years younger!) who told me that asked me to marry him.

 

My last ex.. asked me to marry him.. he was 12 years younger.. we lived together for 5 years..

 

I still see him from time to time.. they get addicted to older women... they never leave..

[Alma Mobley]

My last ex.. asked me to marry him.. he was 12 years younger.. we lived together for 5 years..

 

I still see him from time to time.. they get addicted to older women... they never leave..

Yep yep yep! Hard to explain to, ahem, some of our younger members.

 

I did feel really bad breaking up with some of those guys though.

[Melrapuo]

I'm attracted to older women. And I'm 21. But I think its more because my ex was very immature, and so far I've only seen older women to have the maturity and stability I desire. Dunno how high in age I'd go though. But I was at a bar the other night and the bartender was in her 30s. She's attractive to me, but obviously she's a bartender and they get hit on all the friggin' time.

[Lizzie60]

I'm attracted to older women. And I'm 21. But I think its more because my ex was very immature, and so far I've only seen older women to have the maturity and stability I desire. Dunno how high in age I'd go though. But I was at a bar the other night and the bartender was in her 30s. She's attractive to me, but obviously she's a bartender and they get hit on all the friggin' time.

 

That you might never know.. this young guy hit on me 2 years ago.. I was 54... he was 23.. he had no clue how old I was... he said he didn't want to know.. hehehe.. I didn't tell him.. we had 'monkey sex' in my hotel room on 3 occasions in 24 hours.. he was leaving the next day.. shoot.. too bad I hooked up with him the day before he left.. it would have been nice to hang out for the whole week.. oh well..

 

Age is NOT important.. chemistry is..

[vonerik012]

it's just so silly...

 

If a man was on here bragging about banging young girls, women would say he was a pig, they were sluts, gold diggers, easy etc.

 

If a woman does it, it is like she should receive an award. "You go girl!"

 

Why? Any older woman can have sex with young guys. What is the big deal, or what is to be proud of?

[Lizzie60]

it's just so silly...

 

If a man was on here bragging about banging young girls, women would say he was a pig, they were sluts, gold diggers, easy etc.

 

If a woman does it, it is like she should receive an award. "You go girl!"

 

Why? Any older woman can have sex with young guys. What is the big deal, or what is to be proud of?

 

Von..you are probably very young.. but when you get older.. like over 50... you will be proud that much much younger people are still hitting on you.. trust me.. you will..

[Angel1111]

Von..you are probably very young.. but when you get older.. like over 50... you will be proud that much much younger people are still hitting on you.. trust me.. you will..

 

I keep saying it but everyone still keeps getting sucked in. This guy lives and breathes so that he can put women down and belittle them. At just a glance, it looks like this thread has gone on for pages just because of his comments. Do you see the game?

 

Speaking to all - not just you, Lizzie - just ignore this woman-hater and stop letting him get to you. When I see posts with his name on them, I don't even waste my time reading them because he's predictably venoumous. The more you let him stir you up, the more he enjoys it. Let him say what he wants, it's a free forum, but stop the madness by not taking the bait.

[geekinthepink]

I think that after a person has reached the age of 23 or 24 that the age of their significant other becomes less of a "problem". People make the association with those 21 and younger as being children, so if a 40 year old dated a 20 eyar old its thought of as kind of gross, but if the same 40 year old dated someone who was 25, its not as bad.

[nowhereman82]

Von..you are probably very young.. but when you get older.. like over 50... you will be proud that much much younger people are still hitting on you.. trust me.. you will..

 

 

Lizzie here is packing the goods. You have a nice figure, should share your face!

 

Don't mind saying I wouldn't mind being her cub lol

 

On a more serious note....now that I am single I have actually thought about pursuing random flings with older women.

 

Any tips on how to feel out an older women to see if she is into younger men? I connect well with people older than me but I don't know about anything long term (cause of age) but an older companion might be nice!

[Lizzie60]

I keep saying it but everyone still keeps getting sucked in. This guy lives and breathes so that he can put women down and belittle them. At just a glance, it looks like this thread has gone on for pages just because of his comments. Do you see the game?

 

Speaking to all - not just you, Lizzie - just ignore this woman-hater and stop letting him get to you. When I see posts with his name on them, I don't even waste my time reading them because he's predictably venoumous. The more you let him stir you up, the more he enjoys it. Let him say what he wants, it's a free forum, but stop the madness by not taking the bait.

 

Yes I know.. I didn't contribute much on HIS thread.. but I agree with you.. I think he gets some kind of 'evil' pleasure to demean women..

[Lizzie60]

Lizzie here is packing the goods. You have a nice figure, should share your face!

 

Don't mind saying I wouldn't mind being her cub lol

 

On a more serious note....now that I am single I have actually thought about pursuing random flings with older women.

 

Any tips on how to feel out an older women to see if she is into younger men? I connect well with people older than me but I don't know about anything long term (cause of age) but an older companion might be nice!

 

I'll post my face if you post yours..

 

What is great about this forum is that it is anonymous..

 

If you're not sure if the older woman that you like is into younger men.. you just need to approach her and talk to her.. simple.. just like any other women... they don't bite.. if she's not interested.. she'll let you know in a nice polite way.. no big deal..

 

But I am warning you: this could be DANGEROUS!!!!! you might never ever want to date a younger girl after her... they are addictive..

 

So you ARE warned.. sweetie..

[Yamaha]

Age is NOT important.. chemistry is..

 

Age is important if your looking for a relationship. If it's just sex and your attracted, go for it.

 

If your in your thirties people in their twenties will still be attracted to you but the aging process accelerates in your 40's, 50's. If you have a much younger partner they will start seeing you differently and usually it is the older person that gets hurt in these relationships because the older person gets more attached than the younger person.

[Jilly Bean]

Yes I know.. I didn't contribute much on HIS thread.. but I agree with you.. I think he gets some kind of 'evil' pleasure to demean women..

 

Yes, but it's become comical, since no one takes him seriously or really pays attention and just makes fun of him now.

 

Angel, though I appreciate your comment and sentiment - please know that NO ONE is genuinely hurt or offended by his comments. He's become the LS plaything and the ladies are just enjoying playing with him now.

 

It's like the cat who has already maimed the mouse, and is just batting it around for sport until it finally expires.

[Lizzie60]

Age is important if your looking for a relationship. If it's just sex and your attracted, go for it.

 

If your in your thirties people in their twenties will still be attracted to you but the aging process accelerates in your 40's, 50's. If you have a much younger partner they will start seeing you differently and usually it is the older person that gets hurt in these relationships because the older person gets more attached than the younger person.

 

Are you saying, right at this moment Yam.. that two people same age is a guarantee that they will have an ever-ending 'till death do us part' relationship...

 

You know me.. I don't believe in those.. so why not have it if the chemistry is there.. who cares about the future.. we should always live as if it was our last day.. enjoying every moment.. one day at a time..

 

There is NO guarantee for longevity.. not even same-age relationships..

[Angel1111]

Yes, but it's become comical, since no one takes him seriously or really pays attention and just makes fun of him now.

 

Angel, though I appreciate your comment and sentiment - please know that NO ONE is genuinely hurt or offended by his comments. He's become the LS plaything and the ladies are just enjoying playing with him now.

 

It's like the cat who has already maimed the mouse, and is just batting it around for sport until it finally expires.

 

I don't find him amusing at all and I quit reading his crap long ago. But whatever makes you happy. I do think that if everyone would stop taking the bait he would get bored with talking to himself. Just my thoughts.

[vonerik012]

Ladies, why don't you listen to the gist of what every man is saying?

 

Basically it is ok for fun, but not for long term.. Why are you so insistent that younger men must want to marry older women? They don't. So? Have fun with them.

 

"I want to pursue random flings with older women"

 

"Age is important in a relationship"

 

The cruel reality is younger men will look at you as just for sex, and some company. if you want to settle for that, then go ahead.

[Angel1111]

Age is important if your looking for a relationship. If it's just sex and your attracted, go for it.

 

If your in your thirties people in their twenties will still be attracted to you but the aging process accelerates in your 40's, 50's. If you have a much younger partner they will start seeing you differently and usually it is the older person that gets hurt in these relationships because the older person gets more attached than the younger person.

 

For myself, I prefer to be younger than the guy I'm with. But I used to work with a guy who was 30 and married a woman who was 40. He was completely nuts about her and she got pregnant shortly after they were married - they had twins. The thing about him, though, was that he was very mature for his age (or any age) and didn't care about the age thing at all. I mean, for her, 40 was not old but I could tell that age wouldn't be an issue 20 or 40 yrs down the road - he had already thought it through. I really admired them as a couple and fully expect them to be together for the rest of their lives.

 

But on the other hand, I have a friend who's married to someone who's 7 yrs younger than her and they met when he was about 21. It has been a disaster for a long time because he is so immature and has been with her for the past 15 yrs or so. This is not a good scenario and the relationship has been nothing but a constant struggle. They're separated now and personally I'm breathing a sign of relief. I think the biggest problem is that he never had a chance to grow up, never experienced different relationships, and never really matured. My friend always said being with him was like being with a child.