working on the relationship

[DayDreamer75]

it's been a while since I last posted. As a recap from my previous posts, me and my fiancee have been together for quite some time now and living together for the past 7 years . Several months back I came too close to leaving him because I felt totally unloved and unsatisfied due to the fact that he never helped around, spent all of his time watching TV and so on.

 

Well, things have changed a lot during the past several months. He's become very affectionate. I don't even have to ask him now to help me out. Takes initiatives himself. Every time I have to do something he accompanies me. Not only! Now he does everything possible for my mom as well . It's amazing how things can change so quickly. Now we even spend our weekends doing lots of walking, biking and other stuff together. He's been very selfless and unconditional. I am now the center of his world .

 

Having said all these good things, being myself very "greedy" (I acknowledge this and sorry ), I am trying to think to set up more romantic dates for us during the week days. I know that he's very tired usually during the weekdays and does not have much desire to go out after work, but if I ask him to, he does. The thing is I could do a lot of things alone. Sure, but they just don't have the same value for me as if I were doing them with him, my man. So, question, am I being too pushy this time? Maybe, it's my time now to accept him for his tiredness during the weekdays?

 

Thanks

[Enema]

This is more of a question you should be posing to him as everyone is different with the amount of things they'll accept.

 

I couldn't be with someone like you as you're too needy for me to handle. Hopefully your guy is different and is able to keep you happy without burning himself out or getting bitter.

 

What are his needs and are you meeting them? That may help him want to jump on your additional need for mid-week dates. Do you have any friends or hobbies you can do alone so there's not so much pressure on him?