huggable Posted August 12, 2003 Share Posted August 12, 2003 I had a boyfriend before who is the same age with me.We parted our ways last year 2002.With all my boyfriends his the very sincere,loving,caring and God fearing person.The only reason why i broke with him is that,he did not finish his Education his undergradute.I don't want my friends would tease me then that my boyfriend is not professional.In summary we parted our ways.After breaking him up February of this year i got involved in another relationship a man 16 years senior than me and his attitude is opposite to my ex-boyfriend.We parted our ways just this April that was a traumatic experienced i once had.Now,it came to my realization that i can't find a man like my ex-boyfriend that possess a God fearing character.I don't know what to do.Do i need to talk to him afterall his still single.But, i am ashame if i'll be the one to make a move .Advice please.Thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
Leikela Posted August 12, 2003 Share Posted August 12, 2003 To be completely honest with you, he deserves better then you. You broke up with him because your friends made fun of the fact that he didn't have his BA? That's ridiculous and childish. What kind of friends do you have anyway? What right do they have to judge your ex-boyfriend that way? And what gall you have to let them influence you that way. I wouldn't bother contacting him again and let him find a girl that will appreciate him for who he is and not what "degrees" he has. Learn from this experience and in the future, love someone for who they are. Your love for him shouldn't be contingent on what level of education he upholds. When you're mature enough to fully understand and abide by this, then you'll find the right one for you. Live and learn... Link to post Share on other sites
NEONINK Posted August 12, 2003 Share Posted August 12, 2003 You broke up with him because basically you felt that he wasn't good enough. It seem about a pridely manner in which you just told this. What's changed now? Did he get a doctorate or are you just lonely and willing lower your standards now? Only contact him if you've thrown that evil pride away. Link to post Share on other sites
Author huggable Posted August 12, 2003 Author Share Posted August 12, 2003 I think you are all right.Truly its my mistake.If only i could turn back the time.Well, as to now i keep praying that he will find somebody that he deserves.I heard from my sister that he once visited telling my sister that his still love.I lift it up to God whatever his decision if we're meant to be then i'll gladly accept it.In God's time.Thanks for your quickadvice. Link to post Share on other sites
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