I can't miss him anymore...

[Jordane]

it's only 13 days until he moves but I was NOT cut out to do this. Work I get through but I cannot concentrate on school and I can't even get my frustrations out. All I want to do is scream and yell and cry but my body won't let me. WHAT DO I DO!?

[Rollercoasterr]

Yes you are cut out for this.

 

Remember what we told the person who was unsure about going to visit their girlfriend? It's just the jitters. You've been waiting so long to get to the two week point, and now you're there. 13 more days to go.

 

I find that sticking my head in the freezer sometimes helps. Of course I dont close it, but all of that cool air knocks the breath out of me, and I feel a bit better. Other than that, go to the tallest building and scream to the top of your lungs. I assure you, you'll feel better.

 

But there's only 13 more to go and then he's yours permanently! You KNOW you're excited!!!

[Jordane]

Deep down, I know you are 100% right but I can't get a handle on it. I can't even place what my emotions are and I think I'm taking it out on him.

[Rollercoasterr]

Well with it getting down to the wire like it is, you're expected to go a little crazy. I'm sure he expects this, and doesn't really think that you're taking it out on HIM.

 

I mean, really. This isn't like a normal visit that you're counting down to. This is a MOVE. This is permanent. So you're going to feel a little bit different about it, and that's okay. You'll start to feel better just as soon as you figure out how you're feeling.

 

I suggest a talk with him. See if he's feeling the same way about things. Sometimes when I'm feeling the way that you are about things like that, just talking to him makes me feel better. And trust me, he does his fair share of freaking out. He's worried that I'll suddenly just not want to be with him anymore or something if I see him more often. So maybe you really should talk things out with him. Maybe it'll calm both of your fears.