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so i was playing with my gfs phone in front of her. were in a ldr so we see eachother every other week for a weekend or 3-4 days at at time. weve been together for about a little past 3 months. she is a very open and honest person and has told me about every guy shes been and details to the point where i put the pieces and together and figure out who it is.

 

so i was going through her phone and come across "*******" as a contact.

ask her and she says it was the last guy she was with. they were not together and only had sex twice so she says. she says she never liked him

and that he was horrible but he liked her and thought they were dating.

she was the one that stopped talking to him.

 

the fact she is so hateful, does it seem that she had feelings for him and he was the one that really ended it with her ? this is really bothering me and i dont know what else i can do.

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so i was playing with my gfs phone in front of her. were in a ldr so we see eachother every other week for a weekend or 3-4 days at at time. weve been together for about a little past 3 months. she is a very open and honest person and has told me about every guy shes been and details to the point where i put the pieces and together and figure out who it is.

 

so i was going through her phone and come across "*******" as a contact.

ask her and she says it was the last guy she was with. they were not together and only had sex twice so she says. she says she never liked him

and that he was horrible but he liked her and thought they were dating.

she was the one that stopped talking to him.

 

the fact she is so hateful, does it seem that she had feelings for him and he was the one that really ended it with her ? this is really bothering me and i dont know what else i can do.

 

If it's not in her recent calls list, then it's not a problem.

 

If she deletes, 'recent calls' then he could very well be an issue. I would watch her and see if she empties her contact list frequently. If she deletes old contacts, but leaves him in there, then something could be up...

 

I'm digging deep though, most people just forget certain people are in their phone.

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she is a very open and honest person

 

the fact she is so hateful, does it seem that she had feelings for him and he was the one that really ended it with her ? this is really bothering me and i dont know what else i can do.

 

If you know she's open and honest, why do you doubt her?

 

Just because she doesn't like him, doesn't mean she has feelings for him. And not liking someone is a really good reason to end things with him.

 

Why is this bothering you so much? The PAST is the PAST.

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