daveross Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 I see these advertised alot on the net that garentee to get your ex back. Do they work? Anyone ever tried them>? Link to post Share on other sites
movingonandon Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 where do i start... these are not different than any of the get rich wuick schemes; use your head and peer knowledge instead; screw the exes; Link to post Share on other sites
CaliGuy Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 I see these advertised alot on the net that garentee to get your ex back. Do they work? Anyone ever tried them>? Waste of time and money. You can not force anyone to love you and you can't force them to come back. That is something they have to do on their own. You know the best way to make an ex miss you? Move on with your life (in reality, not faking it). That's most often when they want to come back. Why? Because when you move on with your life, you restore your confidence and self-esteem and OTHER women will find you attractive and you'll date new people. Drives ex's nuts. But the good part is, when they want to come back, by that time you will have already moved on and not want them anymore. I promise Link to post Share on other sites
BCCA Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 Im embarrased to admit this, but I would like to save you some money, so I can tell you right now that Ive bought about 3-4 of them. Basically, the steps they preach are NC, work on yourself (exercise, confidence, appearance), and get your ex to meet you for friendly encounters before dating. I'll let you in on a secret, though. Part of what theyre saying is just move on, and be prepared to live without the ex. I think thats very important, because while you may be able to get them back, chances are that you wont. I know that totally sucks, but its the truth. Save your money, trust me. Link to post Share on other sites
shadowplay Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 But the good part is, when they want to come back, by that time you will have already moved on and not want them anymore. I promise That's the best part. Revenge is sweet. Link to post Share on other sites
shadowplay Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 If all else fails: 1) Kidnap them and make them a hostage in your house, Kathy Bates style. Break their legs if they try to escape. 2) Get plastic surgery and a new identity and woo them all over again. 3) Put them in a life or death situation and then pretend to be their savior so they feel guilt tripped into taking you back. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 Getting most exes back isn't difficult if you sit back and seriously think about it. If anyone knows an ex and how they think, what their triggers are, you should be able to do it. Having said that, why would you bother? Most second chances fail for the exact same reason as the first go-around, except the second time around includes the baggage of trust and respect issues. Forget the books. Focus on self, healing, letting go and moving on. Link to post Share on other sites
Melrapuo Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 If all else fails: 1) Kidnap them and make them a hostage in your house, Kathy Bates style. Break their legs if they try to escape. 2) Get plastic surgery and a new identity and woo them all over again. 3) Put them in a life or death situation and then pretend to be their savior so they feel guilt tripped into taking you back. Well this just made my day lmao Link to post Share on other sites
nopainnogain Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 Waste of time and money. You can not force anyone to love you and you can't force them to come back. That is something they have to do on their own. You know the best way to make an ex miss you? Move on with your life (in reality, not faking it). That's most often when they want to come back. Why? Because when you move on with your life, you restore your confidence and self-esteem and OTHER women will find you attractive and you'll date new people. Drives ex's nuts. But the good part is, when they want to come back, by that time you will have already moved on and not want them anymore. I promise Screw DR phil. lol......Its all about DR. Cali. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted August 29, 2008 Share Posted August 29, 2008 I see these advertised alot on the net that garentee to get your ex back. Do they work? Anyone ever tried them>? It's absolutely insane to want somebody back who doesn't want to be around you. If they care enough to be with you and they actually left, they need serious psychological counseling and you don't want that either. This is nutty stuff! Link to post Share on other sites
ahhhchooo Posted August 29, 2008 Share Posted August 29, 2008 Jealousy - how to get your ex back - haha. i'm such a jerk, but I was thinking about somewhere down the line putting up pictures of me with other girls on my facebook to get her to notice I'd moved on. I was actually considering hiring someone to do this with me, since I know that I could never find someone as physically attractive as her (or even close). The circumstances in which we met and why she fell for me (I'm kinda average looking, a little above average, I guess) are just impossible to re-live. Screw it though, I can feel myself beginning to move on anyway. Yesterday and today it feels like a weight has been removed from inside me (hmm, that could be literal though) and though she's still on my mind all day, the thoughts haven't been as negative toward myself, rather negative toward her. I did contact her by SMS but I wasn't upset to not receive a reply, especially since the questions were not related to our relationship and just making sure she's okay. If she can't be bothered to reply to those, I guess she doesn't care at all. Okay I'm rambling again. Link to post Share on other sites
CaliGuy Posted August 29, 2008 Share Posted August 29, 2008 Screw DR phil. lol......Its all about DR. Cali. Now only if I had his bank account Link to post Share on other sites
BCCA Posted August 29, 2008 Share Posted August 29, 2008 Jealousy - how to get your ex back - haha. i'm such a jerk, but I was thinking about somewhere down the line putting up pictures of me with other girls on my facebook to get her to notice I'd moved on. I was actually considering hiring someone to do this with me, since I know that I could never find someone as physically attractive as her (or even close). The circumstances in which we met and why she fell for me (I'm kinda average looking, a little above average, I guess) are just impossible to re-live. Screw it though, I can feel myself beginning to move on anyway. Yesterday and today it feels like a weight has been removed from inside me (hmm, that could be literal though) and though she's still on my mind all day, the thoughts haven't been as negative toward myself, rather negative toward her. I did contact her by SMS but I wasn't upset to not receive a reply, especially since the questions were not related to our relationship and just making sure she's okay. If she can't be bothered to reply to those, I guess she doesn't care at all. Okay I'm rambling again. Dont sell yourself so short man. How many times do you see two people together and said "they are exactly the same level of attractive"? Never right? Trust me, women get enough good looking jerks to realize that beauty is a lot more than a cute smile. I know its easy to feel that way now because you just got rejected, but women, even the prettiest ones, are just people. Theyre not going to tell you to kick rocks because you arent Brad Pitt (and the ones that do, screw em!), and being a good person will go a long way. Just be confident in yourself, youre a good person and you deserve good things to happen. I have no doubt youll find some one just as beautiful who treats you good. As for the text, let me tell you a little secret: consider yourself lucky she didnt reply. She could have been a complete b***h or worse, she have just said 'Im fine'. Would either of those make you feel better? No. Honestly, them leaving you alone and ignoring you is the best thing that could happen. Dont dwell on that crap anymore, move on. You dont need her to respond to your text to feel good about yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
changchewsoon Posted August 29, 2008 Share Posted August 29, 2008 Don't waste your time bro, there's a reason why she's your ex now. I say slap her with NC, and you'll be a better person. Save the money for your next date. Link to post Share on other sites
yongyong Posted August 29, 2008 Share Posted August 29, 2008 I know that I could never find someone as physically attractive as her (or even close). --------------------------------------- you think Only you knew that? she knew it too. that's why she left you When you think she is the only one, she will leave you. when you meet next woman, give her impression of 'you think you are the only one I can find? hell no' Link to post Share on other sites
sultry33 Posted August 29, 2008 Share Posted August 29, 2008 I know that I could never find someone as physically attractive as her (or even close). --------------------------------------- you think Only you knew that? she knew it too. that's why she left you When you think she is the only one, she will leave you. when you meet next woman, give her impression of 'you think you are the only one I can find? hell no' great advice:bunny: Link to post Share on other sites
CaliGuy Posted August 29, 2008 Share Posted August 29, 2008 If you think that you'll never find someone as attractive as her, then you're crazy. That is a self-defeatist attitude. Beauty to me is much more than skin deep. So what if she is HOT?! Like I said before, someone out there is tired of her crap! To me, hot is much more than what she looks like physically. What's she like on the inside?! There are BILLIONS of women in the world. Chances are you will find someone who is beautiful inside and out and to you, she WILL be the most beautiful girl in the world. My ex was hot. Smoking hot to be exact. In fact, a lot of the women I have dated are extremely good looking. The problem is NONE of them were beautiful inside. I'm learning exactly what I am telling you now. Stop looking at the skin and look at the heart. Because for me at least, that is what has stopped me from finding someone TRULY beautiful. I have two dates this weekend and I don't think anyone would say they are smoking hot. But I don't care. What I've learned about them as PEOPLE has attracted me to them. And in the end, that is all that matters. Link to post Share on other sites
me007 Posted August 30, 2008 Share Posted August 30, 2008 They are the most beautiful person to you because when you are love, isn't that what you are supposed to think? I have read a few of the "get your ex back" guides. If their was some doubt on your ex's part breaking up with you, they might help. Like someone already said, most recommend going NC for a few weeks and walking away from the breakup calm. You improve yourself during that time. Then when you call and meet up with your ex you have to remain happy and positive and no talking about the past or saying how much you miss them or love them. Calling them and text messaging a million times saying how you'll change and how much you want to be with them won't work. You can't appear needy or pushy or but pressure on them by talking about the relationship right away. One book I read recommends going along with whatever they say, like agreeing to the break up "I agree breaking up is the best thing for the both of us" but that can come back and bite you because your ex can say it was a mutual agreement. They are good guides if you are going to go after your ex and how you should act and what to do to give you the best chance of a positive outcome. This is something they really can't but a guarantee on...ads can promise to make cooking easier, make you lose weight in 1 week, or how to speak a foreign language in 3 days... but this is one thing beyond anyones control so it's funny how they put a guarantee on something like this. Link to post Share on other sites
Jackee Posted September 26, 2008 Share Posted September 26, 2008 If you really need a relationship advice then Don’t panic when situations go bad. Just set a right frame of mind, assess where you are in your ex's heart and mind.website Magic of making up helps you to know the techniques like how to convince your are the love of their life, how to apologize promise how to change for good, etc and get your ex back. Link to post Share on other sites
RecordProducer Posted September 26, 2008 Share Posted September 26, 2008 I see these advertised alot on the net that garentee to get your ex back. Do they work? Anyone ever tried them>? What do they guarantee with? Money back? I'll give you free advice on how to get your ex back, if you're female. Find a new boyfriend and write off your ex. If he loves you, he'll come back crawling. If he doesn't love you... well, would you still want him? If yes, spend the money on therapy. Link to post Share on other sites
ahhhchooo Posted September 26, 2008 Share Posted September 26, 2008 For some reason I never read the replies to this thread, but yeah I agree now, I never should have thought that way. And I do want to say I found her just as beautiful inside as out. But I'll admit I've thought that way about all my ex's - a couple of them I knew were very physically attractive, but I found them all physically attractive to myself at the time. I don't know what's brought this on, but I'm definitely looking up and ahead right now. I will find someone I consider better, and this time I'm not going to put them on a pedestal as being out of my league. It's stupid to even think that way when I 'had' them in the first place, it's too contradictory to have someone who's "out of your league", right?! Link to post Share on other sites
Jackee Posted November 6, 2008 Share Posted November 6, 2008 Thank you for a nice post...Things look a lot brighter when you have someone to hold your hand through the rough times, and getting your ex back can be one of the most confusing and difficult things you ever try to achieve in your life...but only if you don't know what you're doing. ---------- Magic of making up Link to post Share on other sites
DealingWDrama Posted November 6, 2008 Share Posted November 6, 2008 Alright I admit it - I was a sucker and purchased the get your ex back deal on line and read it when my H and I were separate...it gives good advice. I will pass it on here for any and all to read because then I will at least feel like I didn't get duped! #1 Don't call them...don't call their friends, family members, or co workers. #2 Start working on you! MAke new friends...get a new hobby...be happy and show that you are an interesting and loving person and are not devasted beyond belief at the ending of your relationship.... #3 Once you begin to work on yourself and improve yourself...your ex may notice...but by the time that you find happiness within yourself you may not even want to be with the ex in the first place. There ya go...I accept mastercard, visa, and american express.... Link to post Share on other sites
lofi_tokyo Posted November 6, 2008 Share Posted November 6, 2008 I nearly NEARLY just bought a book out of curiousity after reading this thread. But then... what the hell is the point? Manipulating my ex to come back? No thank you. He's with another woman, who he left me for, and as far as I can tell, quite happily so... whats the ****ing point? ;p I don't even want him back. Because I think the guy I loved was mostly imagined. At best what I want issss.. him to break up with that crazy woman. Yuck. Link to post Share on other sites
EmperorR Posted November 7, 2008 Share Posted November 7, 2008 Forget that you will neer find anyone as pretty etc. its CRAP, I uthought that once my ex left me and oyu know what? then I realized hey wait before Her I talked to girls who were sexier than her, and plus the way she treated me she is just like a robot with a ugliness inside. Love transcends just the physical, love is disposition, behavior, attitude, thoughts, likes, dislikes, these are what makes someone beautiful to me . Link to post Share on other sites
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