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Feminism and weakening religion are the cause of increasing divorce rates

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saiveca

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I've read many of the horror stories on this board and I am so glad I am married to my man. Most people who think that we are a conservative family. I believe that there's a pre-defined role for the man and for the woman. I do not feel like he is my superior, not do I feel the need to proove that I am his equal.

 

Despite the recent turmoil in my life (I was tempted to cheat on many occasions), I am proud to say that I have never been unfaithful to my husband. I know what my role is and how to keep my man happy. We've been married for many years now and I can't remember the last time my husband went to sleep without a blowjob. That's what he loves and it is my role and duty to satisfy him.

 

I know a lot of people would disagree with me but let me tell you that my man has his own duties too and I can appreciate the effort that he puts in to keep our family happy. I think that all of the women who are seeking for equality at all costs are killing their couple. And I think that too much liberalism has led to the disrespect of religion. That is another reason why there are so many divorces.

 

I think it's about time that the Western world realizes that some important changes are necessary. Women, know your role. And make sure religion is at the core of your lives. That is how you can achieve eternal happiness.

 

Caroline

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Jersey Shortie

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If he dipped his penis in some peanut butter I would lick it everyday. :lmao:

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Trialbyfire

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Yes, it's all non-blowjob giving womens' fault why there are so many divorces. Add strong religion to blowjobs and wifey will only think about cheating with her boss or her client but won't actually do it!

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Gee, thanks! I needed to be reminded of my place.

 

I'm going to stop working, get pregnant and stay home with every hair perfectly coiffed and the house perfectly cleaned, waiting for him to come home so I can give him the daily blowjob.... :sick:

 

What about my blowjob? I want my daily blowjob! You know what I mean? :lmao:

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We've been married for many years now and I can't remember the last time my husband went to sleep without a blowjob. That's what he loves and it is my role and duty to satisfy him.

 

:lmao::lmao::lmao:!!

 

I'm also conservative like you Caroline, but that's way too much. I can't afford living with swollen lips everyday.

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Life is about ups and downs. Sometimes you're happy, sometimes you're not.

 

Glad your daily BJs are workin' out for you and hubby, but don't try to push your agendas on others. People like you are EXACTLY why I left my former religion.

 

Know my place. Spare me!

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Let me ask you just one question: how many people on this board are unhappy? Too many if you ask me. Just think about it.

 

 

So true. Peanut butter for everyone!:love:

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Sounds like you are doing everything right to keep your husband happy and that's great and as it should be but what is missing in you?

I'm not sure I buy your contentment and subservient attitude because otherwise why this:

 

 

Despite the recent turmoil in my life (I was tempted to cheat on many occasions), I am proud to say that I have never been unfaithful to my husband. I know what my role is and how to keep my man happy.

 

 

Sorry but you are "proud to say you never cheated?" is pride something you should feel when expected to deliver the obvious when you marry? I mean it's like saying "I am proud to say I have never embezzled any money from any of the companies I ever worked for!?!?" Should I feel pride or is that not just a given, considering the agreement you make when someone puts trust in you?

 

 

There are many women who don't give as much as you may be giving but it has never crossed their minds to cheat on their husbands.

 

Seems like a no win situation really. While you think you are offering a great deal of insight to those women who do want a little more I think you kind of counter that sentiment with the fact that on many occasions you felt like finding someone new to love. Hmmmm. :confused:

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Let me ask you just one question: how many people on this board are unhappy? Too many if you ask me. Just think about it.

 

 

I know... I know... get the gun!!!

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saiveca

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People like you are EXACTLY why I left my former religion.

 

That's because you were never religious in the first place. When you truly believe, you don't stop believing overnight.

 

I may have a limited existence, a boring life if you will, but when I am old I can look back and be proud that I did the right thing.

 

There is nothing wrong with mandating yourself to make others around you happy. I never tell my hubby that I have a headache because I would never want to deny him the most pleasant thing in life. That is cruel.

 

And I think that people need some rules in order to keep things straight. I was always a believer and always will be.

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Thanks for sharing, Caroline! :bunny:

 

My turn:

 

I think that all of the men who are seeking for dominance at all costs are killing their couple. And I think that too much religion has led to the disrespect of people. Those are two additional reasons why there are so many divorces.

 

Who else has an opinion on why there are so many divorces?

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You must be related to FrankBlack.

 

I'm happy. And quite progressive.

 

She may be Caroline Black, you know, the lady we spoke with the other day? :laugh:

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Let me ask you just one question: how many people on this board are unhappy? Too many if you ask me. Just think about it.

 

 

If you were truly happy you would not be contemplating cheating on MANY occasions. That comes from within and something within you is not sitting right. Perhaps it's the fact that you have to over give in order to keep your marriage right and it doesn't feel as good as it should.

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Seems like a no win situation really. While you think you are offering a great deal of insight to those women who do want a little more I think you kind of counter that sentiment with the fact that on many occasions you felt like finding someone new to love. Hmmmm. :confused:

 

Temptation is everywhere. Denying temptation is a silly thing.

 

Whether I was tempted or not is irrelevant. We all are tempted at one point or another.

 

But I succeed where over half of the Americans fail. I have a strong marriage where we both know what are roles are.

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I agree 100% with Norajane. The things people do in the name of religion!

 

Actually, Caroline you should take this over on the religious thread if you ask me.

 

Last I checked, BJs aren't allowed by true Christians. Isn't that porneia, sinful, perverted love?

 

Tsk, tsk.

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That's because you were never religious in the first place. When you truly believe, you don't stop believing overnight.

 

I may have a limited existence, a boring life if you will, but when I am old I can look back and be proud that I did the right thing.

 

There is nothing wrong with mandating yourself to make others around you happy. I never tell my hubby that I have a headache because I would never want to deny him the most pleasant thing in life. That is cruel.

 

And I think that people need some rules in order to keep things straight. I was always a believer and always will be.

 

 

I'm happy that you've finally seen the Light... because with one BJ a day.. you will surely keep him happy enough that if he cheats.. at least he will not have any reasons to leave. ;)

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Temptation is everywhere. Denying temptation is a silly thing.

 

Whether I was tempted or not is irrelevant. We all are tempted at one point or another.

 

But I succeed where over half of the Americans fail. I have a strong marriage where we both know what are roles are.

Are you 100% certain your husband isn't cheating? Do you know this for certain?

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I agree 100% with Norajane. The things people do in the name of religion!

 

Actually, Caroline you should take this over on the religious thread if you ask me.

 

Last I checked, BJs aren't allowed by true Christians. Isn't that porneia, sinful, perverted love?

 

Tsk, tsk.

 

I don't think that I mentioned anywhere that I am Christian. That is personal.

 

I don't want to make this a religious conversaton. I just want to say that men and women don't know what their roles are anymore.

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