Feminism and weakening religion are the cause of increasing divorce rates

[Trialbyfire]

Then find that. At least the children will not suffer due to parents chasing matrerialistic wealth. But we all know you want a guy with "status", and most likely will not admit that on this thread.

Read my response again. This thread has changed my mind to a more extremist view. I like the idea of a SAHH who will take care of all my needs while I sacrifice my time towards bringing home the money so my family can run out and charge up my credit card to the max, perhaps going to the spa and things like that.

[vonerik012]

Listen hun, in my teens I lived abraod for a few years they had transfered my father to another country for work and we lived there for 4 yrs. Well in this neighbourhood where we lived all the women were stayhome moms so was my mother for the most part or at least during this period of our lives, and the kids that lived next door to us two boys were obese, all the kids in the neighbourhood used to make fun of them. Another girl three doors down was also chubby, I would eat at their place every so often we were friends their food was no different than what we had for dinner every day and their mother was a stay at home mom yet guess what, both she and her brohter were rather on the chubby side.

 

To say that kids are chubby because they have working moms is ridiculous. My sister is a working mom and so is my SIL and guess what, they don't have malnutirtioned kids, they have active, healthy kids.

 

I know that European attitude of "smart with money" when only one parent works, it's called "we don't give presents at birthdays because it is not accustomed in my house". Or we never went to see a play, or a concert, or a restaurant because mom can make just a good a dinner at home (which she does day in day out BECAUSE IT IS HER JOB), or to see a Disney movie as a family instead we stay home to watch Shindler's List is playing on the history channel,

"ohhhh yaaaay joy for me and my 7yr old brother"

 

Sure, that is called sacrifice. Would my life had been better if I had every video game? if my parents bought new furniture every 3 years? If we ate crap at restaurants 3 times a week? If they were leasing 2 new cars? Not at all.

 

However, from those sacrifices comes many advantages.

[Tomcat33]

Then find that. At least the children will not suffer due to parents chasing matrerialistic wealth. But we all know you want a guy with "status", and most likely will not admit that on this thread.

 

 

It's not chasing materialistic wealth it is sustaining a standard of life.

 

Me personally I don't need more I do howerver want to keep the level of what I do have. Is that so wrong?

[a4a]

Working moms have fat kids!!!

 

The kitchen chicken was a STAHM...... pop tarts and mac and cheese was the daily meal.....

 

Yeah...... working moms are evil.......bad parents!! And worst yet will never feel love or satisfaction.

 

V- you never answered the question: (or did I miss your reply?)

 

If the Wife has more of a earning potential or is currently earning more than the husband - shouldn't the husband stay home with the kids?

[vonerik012]

Read my response again. This thread has changed my mind to a more extremist view. I like the idea of a SAHH who will take care of all my needs while I sacrifice my time towards bringing home the money so my family can run out and charge up my credit card to the max, perhaps going to the spa and things like that.

 

Is that sarcasm? Maxing out credit cards? We never even had credit cards growing up, lol.

 

Just admit you want a "status" male so you can brag to your girlfriends, and live in a big house. Money is most important to many women like you.

[vonerik012]

Working moms have fat kids!!!

 

The kitchen chicken was a STAHM...... pop tarts and mac and cheese was the daily meal.....

 

Yeah...... working moms are evil.......bad parents!! And worst yet will never feel love or satisfaction.

 

V- you never answered the question: (or did I miss your reply?)

 

If the Wife has more of a earning potential or is currently earning more than the husband - shouldn't the husband stay home with the kids?

If that is the situation, then yes. Why not? however, not many women are up for that situation.

[a4a]

Just like my SAHH who gives daily oral would be happy? I think he'll be deliriously happy. He can change nappies all day, wiping up drool and poop, then make himself pretty for when I come home from work. I expect that he'll give daily oral on command, maybe a few times a day.

 

Bonus!! I want one of those...... but he can clean stalls instead of changing nappies.

I will give him a clothing allowance too...... why yes... perfection.

[Trialbyfire]

Is that sarcasm? Maxing out credit cards? We never even had credit cards growing up, lol.

 

Just admit you want a "status" male so you can brag to your girlfriends, and live in a big house. Money is most important to many women like you.

What are you talking about? I want a SAHH now. I'm willing to sacrifice my lifestyle for a man who will meet all my needs, taking care of every need of mine the minute I get home. Hop to and get pretty, dressing up in sexy clothing for me to enjoy. Making sure that the kids are taken care of so I don't need to lift a finger, sitting on the couch, sipping a glass of wine, while he slaves away in the kitchen, getting my dinner ready.

 

What a sacrifice! All for the good of the family!

[a4a]

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If that is the situation, then yes. Why not? however, not many women are up for that situation.

 

That is changing slowly as women are starting to earn as much if not more than men. Many women would go for it if it was more acceptable and society still didn't think women who work get depressed and have fat kids.

 

I will be damned though if I will stay married to a SAHH that packs on the pounds and doesn't want to get a nut sack lift when they start to droop.

[Trialbyfire]

Bonus!! I want one of those...... but he can clean stalls instead of changing nappies.

I will give him a clothing allowance too...... why yes... perfection.

Imagine if he can erect on command! "Honey, I need to get laid. Put the kids to bed and lie down here so I can hop on and take a ride".

[vonerik012]

What are you talking about? I want a SAHH now. I'm willing to sacrifice my lifestyle for a man who will meet all my needs, taking care of every need of mine the minute I get home. Hop to and get pretty, dressing up in sexy clothing for me to enjoy. Making sure that the kids are taken care of so I don't need to lift a finger, sitting on the couch, sipping a glass of wine, while he slaves away in the kitchen, getting my dinner ready.

 

What a sacrifice! All for the good of the family!

 

Yes, that is perfect. Cooking is rather easy. How is that slaving away?

 

And yes, if you work all day, you should be able to relax. Division of responsibilities is a beautiful thing.

 

Being a man, if I have to work, and clean, and cook, and still do half of everything else,(exactly like my life now) I might as well stay single and enjoy many many women instead of just one.

[vonerik012]

He could if you got one of those hydraulic jobbies installed by a good surgeon. Hey, guys demand their women get fake boobs all the time! I say if a guy is lucky enough to be like the OP of this thread and all he has to do is take care of the house and kids and do his "duties" for his hard working woman at the end of her work day, then he should be more than HAPPY to do this small thing for her. This one, little sacrifice.

 

 

If a woman was supporting me, I think i could definitely give her oral every night without complaining, lol. Even with a headache.

[Trialbyfire]

He could if you got one of those hydraulic jobbies installed by a good surgeon. Hey, guys demand their women get fake boobs all the time! I say if a guy is lucky enough to be like the OP of this thread and all he has to do is take care of the house and kids and do his "duties" for his hard working woman at the end of her work day, then he should be more than HAPPY to do this small thing for her. This one, little sacrifice.

Jump to the pump? Absolutely. A good man would be happy to want to make his wife happy, particularly a wife who sacrifices her time to earn a living for the family!

[a4a]

Is that sarcasm? Maxing out credit cards? We never even had credit cards growing up, lol.

 

Just admit you want a "status" male so you can brag to your girlfriends, and live in a big house. Money is most important to many women like you.

 

:lmao: I guess it is ok to have a big house and nice cars as long as the MAN wanted and earned those things...... :lmao:

 

Yes I want a bigger house....... and some new cars..... a expensive vacation would be nice too.... but I earn it. I don't expect a man to give it to me.

 

Do you have a problem with financially successful people too??? Male and female?

 

I see someone with more than me and I think..... Wow good for them.... how'd they do it? Let me learn.

 

and cuddling and love don't put taters on the dinner table... but guess you would know that not being able to afford a pizza growing up.

[Tomcat33]

Sure, that is called sacrifice. Would my life had been better if I had every video game? if my parents bought new furniture every 3 years? If we ate crap at restaurants 3 times a week? If they were leasing 2 new cars? Not at all.

 

However, from those sacrifices comes many advantages.

 

 

well I call tell you something and listen closely because I don't come from a wealthy background but I do come from a middle class one or parents that did not DEPRIVE of anything in the name of sacrifice for a better future. On my 16th birthday I was given a car, and on my 19th I took a year off to travel because I was not ready for university, and my parents support that, and guess what MY LIFE WAS FRIGGIN FANTASTIC. I have the BEST memories of my chidlhood and 20's no word of a lie I had it SO DAMNED GOOD. I was instilled a lot of culture and entertainment was a very vibrant part of my upbringing and guess what I went to university got my degree learned life's values just as much as the next guy, made some wise choices with my own money and my ambition never ever outgrew my spirituatlity.

 

Spare me on the Eurpean sacrifice where your parent's living room is covered in cellophane and sectioned off like a museum which you will never set foot in because it's there for compnay, company which will never actually even come because no one ever visits your home, and the money under the matress while you are 14 yrs old and still having to wear "Darth Vader" shoes your poor mother who thinks it's "cool" bought you at K-mart because she thought you loved starwars when you were "8" yeah sure you did but you are 14 now and both she and your father are completely incapable of understanding that other teens in school are going to beat the crap out of you if you don't get a little with the times, but of course for the sake of "sacrafice and your future" you must wear the $8.99 shoes that were given to you because you don't need more.

 

That would explain the great need for validation some people have as adults when as children their feelings were brushed off like this for the sake of "sacrifice"

[Trialbyfire]

Yes, that is perfect. Cooking is rather easy. How is that slaving away?

 

And yes, if you work all day, you should be able to relax. Division of responsibilities is a beautiful thing.

 

Being a man, if I have to work, and clean, and cook, and still do half of everything else,(exactly like my life now) I might as well stay single and enjoy many many women instead of just one.

I personally don't care what you do, all I care about is that I can now have a SAHH, who can and will want to make me happy by doing everything in his power to meet all my needs while I sacrifice my time to work. This is only fair.

[Kasan]

This thread is becoming ridiculous, and I really don't know why we keep trying to argue the points of working moms.

 

I am so very happy Vonerik012 that you have been fortunate in your life choices that you can be the "breadwinner" and your wife is content to stay at home with the kids. Good for you as you have found something that works for the both of you.

 

Being a working mother doesn't make any woman selfish or greedy, as there could be many reasons why they "have" to work.

 

I am very happy that I was able to work and help to provide my kids with opportunities to experience many different things, that they wouldn't have been able to do if I didn't work.

 

To each his own................And...........does it really matter who stays home and who works?

 

And for the record, we have never gone to Disneyworld.

[vonerik012]

:lmao: I guess it is ok to have a big house and nice cars as long as the MAN wanted and earned those things...... :lmao:

 

Yes I want a bigger house....... and some new cars..... a expensive vacation would be nice too.... but I earn it. I don't expect a man to give it to me.

 

Do you have a problem with financially successful people too??? Male and female?

 

I see someone with more than me and I think..... Wow good for them.... how'd they do it? Let me learn.

 

and cuddling and love don't put taters on the dinner table... but guess you would know that not being able to afford a pizza growing up.[/quote]

 

LOL, We were not fat lazy slobs eating garbage because it was quick and easy.

 

Financially successful people are great. All I am saying is family should come before chasing materialistic things you do not need.

[a4a]

Yes, that is perfect. Cooking is rather easy. How is that slaving away?

 

And yes, if you work all day, you should be able to relax. Division of responsibilities is a beautiful thing.

 

Being a man, if I have to work, and clean, and cook, and still do half of everything else,(exactly like my life now) I might as well stay single and enjoy many many women instead of just one.

 

Do these children in this household have a "off switch"? Are you married or have kids or are you just full of crap and spewing off about things that you think are the realities of life?

[Trialbyfire]

And he can just kick start that power-licker and get on his knees as soon as he hears your car in the driveway!

A much better use of his tongue, than for nagging me when I get home. Wow, we're building the perfect SAHH!

[a4a]

And he can just kick start that power-licker and get on his knees as soon as he hears your car in the driveway!

 

I demand that my SAHH also gets a large chin implant!!! I will pay for it of course.

[vonerik012]

well I call tell you something and listen closely because I don't come from a wealthy background but I do come from a middle class one or parents that did not DEPRIVE of anything in the name of sacrifice for a better future. On my 16th birthday I was given a car, and on my 19th I took a year off to travel because I was not ready for university, and my parents support that, and guess what MY LIFE WAS FRIGGIN FANTASTIC. I have the BEST memories of my chidlhood and 20's no word of a lie I had it SO DAMNED GOOD. I was instilled a lot of culture and entertainment was a very vibrant part of my upbringing and guess what I went to university got my degree learned life's values just as much as the next guy, made some wise choices with my own money and my ambition never ever outgrew my spirituatlity.

 

Spare me on the Eurpean sacrifice where your parent's living room is covered in cellophane and sectioned off like a museum which you will never set foot in because it's there for compnay, company which will never actually even come because no one ever visits your home, and the money under the matress while you are 14 yrs old and still having to wear "Darth Vader" shoes your poor mother who thinks it's "cool" bought you at K-mart because she thought you loved starwars when you were "8" yeah sure you did but you are 14 now and both she and your father are completely incapable of understanding that other teens in school are going to beat the crap out of you if you don't get a little with the times, but of course for the sake of "sacrafice and your future" you must wear the $8.99 shoes that were given to you because you don't need more.

 

That would explain the great need for validation some people have as adults when as children their feelings were brushed off like this for the sake of "sacrifice"

 

 

LOL..

 

Yeah it is a good idea to neglect the kids so you can buy the $200 nikes. What a sucker to capitalism. I am sure Nike loves you. I am sure all large corporations love suckers who feel they have to buy happiness.

[Trialbyfire]

This thread is becoming ridiculous, and I really don't know why we keep trying to argue the points of working moms.

 

I am so very happy Vonerik012 that you have been fortunate in your life choices that you can be the "breadwinner" and your wife is content to stay at home with the kids. Good for you as you have found something that works for the both of you.

 

Being a working mother doesn't make any woman selfish or greedy, as there could be many reasons why they "have" to work.

 

I am very happy that I was able to work and help to provide my kids with opportunities to experience many different things, that they wouldn't have been able to do if I didn't work.

 

To each his own................And...........does it really matter who stays home and who works?

 

And for the record, we have never gone to Disneyworld.

Kasan, he's not married and has difficulty with dating, just recently being deserted by his brazilian LDR, who couldn't get up in the morning when she stayed with him for a month or so. She also couldn't cook, clean or get a job, since she relied on her father to support her.

[a4a]

With a built-in cleft so the juices can be directed to a little cup that dangles beneath from his ears.

 

:lmao:

 

I also expect him to get up immediatley post my satisfaction after a long days work and get me a glass of wine and make me a sandwich!

[Kasan]

Kasan, he's not married and has difficulty with dating, just recently being deserted by his brazilian LDR, who couldn't get up in the morning when she stayed with him for a month or so. She also couldn't cook, clean or get a job, since she relied on her father to support her.

 

Are you kidding me? Why are even bothering with this???? Instead of posting we could be out making money to buy more material things, or giving blowjobs to our dear hubbies...................:rolleyes: