Feminism and weakening religion are the cause of increasing divorce rates

[Tomcat33]

I thought it was about this current thread. i did not know all of you were talking about her past posts.

 

So she said "know your place".. That is what the big deal is about? lol

 

"Men, know your place, and treat your woman well. Sacrifice and do things for her to make her happy, even if you do not feel good"

 

WOWOWOW how horrible! That guy suggested I know my place!!!!

 

 

It's actually about the big picture Von, here let me spell it out:

 

She ain't happy with what she is doing or with what arrangement she has had to work out. And no one here is buying otherwise except for you and a few other men that fail to see the big picture.

 

She hasn't even started to scratch the surface on what being happy in a marriage is and it's sad that you are too slow to catch on to what practically every other single person in this thread has seen.

 

 

So before she tries to tell me or any other woman what "our place" is why doesn't she figure out where the heck she is even standing, Capiche?

 

And yes it IS about the other threads too because she adimts that in her great arrangement she has had to resort many times to fighting off infidelity and when you dig a little deeper you can see just how "happy" she is.

[vonerik012]

So? Over 50% of American women actually do cheat. Who knows how many others "feel tempted". She is at least better than the other 50%.

[Tomcat33]

So? Over 50% of American women actually do cheat. Who knows how many others "feel tempted". She is at least better than the other 50%.

 

 

Where do you get your numbers from anyway? Seems really high to me, but if you say so must be true.

 

Yes but she is worse than the 50% that not only don't do it they don't have to fight it off, so depends on what type of guy you are, glass half empty or half full? I tend to compare up, not down.

[rainfall]

I can tell you the women I know that are stay at home moms are FAR more fullfilled by raising their offspring, then bringing home a paycheck.

 

But, not all women have that option, so if you feeling work defines you, and is why you are here on Earth, go for it.

 

I don't feel like I am here on earth to have children. There are far more important things to me then that. I know I would be more fulfilled by doing something I love everyday then I would by taking care of housework. If I wasn't working I would feel really bad taking any money from my SO. I would feel like I was living off of him and not doing my part.

[vonerik012]

There is nothing wrong with that rain. Not all women want kids or a family, and you should pay half .

[rainfall]

There is nothing wrong with that rain. Not all women want kids or a family, and you should pay half .

 

 

I have no problem with spliting the bills 50/50 with my SO as long as we split household work 50/50.

[ismellsogood]

Let me ask you just one question: how many people on this board are unhappy? Too many if you ask me. Just think about it.

 

I think we would all be much happier if we were giving nightly blow jobs to men we regularly think about cheating on.

 

Know your role, biatch!!!!!

[ismellsogood]

saiveca is a guy.

 

It must be a guy!

 

hey, I just realized this started a year ago. hahaha!

[Jersey Shortie]

I'd like to find a guy that wanted to take care of me. It sounds 1950s but there is something appealing about the idea for me. I would of course in turn want to take care of him, it would just be different. I like when the guy plans the date, asks me out, suggests an activity. If I don't want to do something I just say so, but for the most part I'm pretty easy going so I'm all like "sure, that sounds cool!". He can make more of the choices but he also has to recongnize my needs and desires and want to make me happy too. This doesn't mean I wouldn't mind having a successful career too. I actually would love to go back to school to become a professor. So maybe I want too much, or maybe I just recongnize that as a person, there are many different facets to me.

[almost famous]

Here's the deal, OP, you claim to not have a strong sex drive, however you want to f**k other guys, not your husband.

 

That's a problem.

[vonerik012]

I'd like to find a guy that wanted to take care of me. It sounds 1950s but there is something appealing about the idea for me. I would of course in turn want to take care of him, it would just be different. I like when the guy plans the date, asks me out, suggests an activity. If I don't want to do something I just say so, but for the most part I'm pretty easy going so I'm all like "sure, that sounds cool!". He can make more of the choices but he also has to recongnize my needs and desires and want to make me happy too. This doesn't mean I wouldn't mind having a successful career too. I actually would love to go back to school to become a professor. So maybe I want too much, or maybe I just recongnize that as a person, there are many different facets to me.

 

Yeah, asking a man to support you and put you through school might be asking too much.

 

So let me get this straight. You want a guy to take you out, plan things, take care of you, and you also might want to work, and he must make sure you are happy. he might even put you through school. Ok, so what does he get?

[Jersey Shortie]

Huh? I never said anything about a man putting me through school. What I said is that I have a desire for something more professionally. But I also don't mind traditonal gender roles.

 

I infact have had a man offer me just that, to put me through schoo, I declined.

[Dirk Diggler]

To me, and probably any other human being on the planet (besides you and Dick - er, Dirk that is), the bolded translates to "must." And she said "her duty." MUST

 

I MUST do my duties at my workplace. Or I'll get fired.

 

Given the nature of the thread i'm sure you got all giddy with that misplaced "c" now didn't ya! I seriously cant believe you ladies have jacked this thread up 10 more pages at least since i last replied. It's like you've gone lord of the flies over some girls boning up about loving to suck cock!?

 

This girl has not even come back to add any additional details here since before i first wrote, so i don't see the need to draw her vague responses into something they are not, or may never be. Nor did i feel the need to read her post history, and this is the first i have read anything written by this person. Remember my replies were based mostly on maintaining a very active sexual relationship with your S/O. I've already mentioned this.

 

While i have no beef with any of you, and as meat is the order of the day around here it's obvious many of you are just looking to sink your teeth into any male member whom has views on this contrary to your own.

 

I'm not interested in speculating what the OP is not providing, sure she could be very religious. Surely many of you are smart enough to realize how roles and duties get twisted in many religions and this could be a behavioral reflection of such?? But who really knows what the factors are here unless she elaborates on them more herself.

 

The OP and the resident war party here are polar opposites that's a given. Outside of that she's all about sucking cock, and if she's made it a duty (for whatever reason she's thinks) she's putting forth the effort and enjoyment of doing so. If they are happy and the marriage is working all the power to them. If she has potential infedelity problems well then she should suck it up and get some help.

[Trialbyfire]

If she has potential infedelity problems well then she should suck it up and get some help.

Apparently she has been sucking it up!

[serial muse]

What if a male poster posted something stereotypical telling men how to treat their wives..

 

"Men know your role, work hard, take good care of her, respect her, buy her things, support her" etc. Would many men be posting and bashing him? No.

 

Um, wrong. Of course they would.