Tessa Posted August 15, 2003 Share Posted August 15, 2003 For those of you that read my last post, link here - http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t24063/ , you know that I hadn't spoken to my b/f in a few days. Well, he finally called. We talked for an hour. The conversation was about everyday things, nothing personal. He skipped yesterday and he called again today. This time I did not take the call. I have not called or emailed him at all. I don't want to. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Tessa Posted August 15, 2003 Author Share Posted August 15, 2003 Just another little update.......He called again last night and I did not pick up. I'm going out with a friend of mine for drinks tonight. I don't agree with playing games, but right now he deserves this... Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted August 15, 2003 Share Posted August 15, 2003 I don't think you are playing games, I think this guy is a total dud...at least not meant for you. People who are meant for each other are never at a loss for what to say to each other (even if it's only with their eyes) and they keep in touch constantly...at least intially. If you really cared about this guy, you wouldn't be going out with the girls tomorrow night. This doesn't sound like a romance made in heaven, but then again, I've been wrong before. Good luck! Do you mind if I join you and the girls tomorrow? Link to post Share on other sites
Leikela Posted August 15, 2003 Share Posted August 15, 2003 Originally posted by Tony If you really cared about this guy, you wouldn't be going out with the girls tomorrow night. Sorry, but I have to disagree on this one. I truly think she cares about him, but look at how he has been treating her. She deserves a night out on the town! Depression or not, that's no excuse to cut off communication for days. If he's that depressed and he truly cares about her, then he should be the one to let go and let her be free to find someone who can treat her the way she deserves to be treated. Have fun with the girls! Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted August 15, 2003 Share Posted August 15, 2003 Leikela WRITES: "Sorry, but I have to disagree on this one. I truly think she cares about him, but look at how he has been treating her." Yes, and I have to disagree with myself too. At second thought, going out with the girls is probably the best thing she could do. After all, I did say this guy was a dud. Why should she ever want to see him again. I guess I was just waking up when I wrote my post above. Sorry. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Tessa Posted August 15, 2003 Author Share Posted August 15, 2003 Very interesting responses...I do care about him, but I am tired of being treated like this. I want and deserve more. I have been nothing but, understanding, supportive and encouraging and this is the thanks I get. Forget it!(I want to say a 4 letter word).... Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted August 15, 2003 Share Posted August 15, 2003 YOU WRITE: "Forget it!(I want to say a 4 letter word)...." Well, I'll say it for you. POOP!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Tessa Posted August 15, 2003 Author Share Posted August 15, 2003 Just a note...He was supposed to find out today whether or not he got the job....I do want to know....but then again, if he did get the job, I guess he would have called to tell me.... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Tessa Posted August 16, 2003 Author Share Posted August 16, 2003 Just a little bit of an update...He did call as I was getting ready to go out...I did pick up and continued doing what I doing. I got into my car and started on my way. He could not believe I was in my car and I had something to do....He actually sounded a little scared(I mean the tone in his voice) not his words.... Link to post Share on other sites
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