Re: I absolutely cannot stand American women

[Fritz The Cat]

The man speaks the truth. Feminism has caused a very serious rift between the sexes and ignoring or sugar coating the problem is utterly unproductive. I fear that Islam will correct this problem if we Americans do not. The American family is dead due to Feminism and the whole nation is following it into the toilet. If we don't open or eyes and confront this greatest of all evils, it will surely destroy this great nation. Look at the horrendous gang problem that is spreading from the west coast to engulf the whole country. Don't you see it's root cause? It's kids being raised by single Feminists who, in desperation turn to gangs to give them the sense of family that singles moms can't give them. American women will ultimately pay the price but so will American men.

 

Please feel free to ban me. The truth needed to be said and it was.

[johan]

I think you're being a bit alarmist. I'd also not blame it all on feminism. Men cause these problems just as much as women do.

[porter218]

I read that thread that got locked. I think he is experiencing a NYC problem...not an American problem. Women in our other cities are far different then those in NYC.

[monkey00]

I read that thread that got locked. I think he is experiencing a NYC problem...not an American problem. Women in our other cities are far different then those in NYC.

 

I couldn't completely disagree with the guy. I haven't tried dating in other states, but dating in nyc isn't as easy as most would like. Having traveled abroad in other countries, foreign women do appear to be more receptive to men's advances..in my case anyway.

[D-Lish]

The man speaks the truth. Feminism has caused a very serious rift between the sexes and ignoring or sugar coating the problem is utterly unproductive. I fear that Islam will correct this problem if we Americans do not. The American family is dead due to Feminism and the whole nation is following it into the toilet. If we don't open or eyes and confront this greatest of all evils, it will surely destroy this great nation. Look at the horrendous gang problem that is spreading from the west coast to engulf the whole country. Don't you see it's root cause? It's kids being raised by single Feminists who, in desperation turn to gangs to give them the sense of family that singles moms can't give them. American women will ultimately pay the price but so will American men.

 

Please feel free to ban me. The truth needed to be said and it was.

 

So..... where are the dad's that fathered these children and left these horrible "feminist" women to their own devices to raise these kids?

[ed-205]

Being one of the lucky few, an unsupported low-income single Dad with full custody, people used to ask me how I managed to deal with the problems of raising my 2 kids all by myself.

 

"Easy...", I used to tell them, "I just remember that I personally know at least two dozen non-custodial fathers who would *still* jump into my shoes in a heartbeat."

 

In my experience, I have to say that at least 80% of the non-custodial fathers I know have little or no control over visitation or custody matters. Many of them have been driven out of their children's lives simply because our legal system no longer recognizes fathers as a necessary part of their children's lives, beyond providing support payments to the mother, and I have come across too many of them weeping in the men's room for that very reason. I have seen them brought up on false charges of abuse and molestation, simply because the wife's lawyer finds that to be the easiest way to "take the fight out of them" in court, with no regard for the restrictions it later puts on the father's visitation rights,.... But of course, that's just been *my* personal experience. YMMV.

 

My only point to all this is that if we can't blame bad behavior on the single mothers who influence the lives of their children on a daily basis, we can hardly put the blame on the fathers who, for one reason or another, aren't even there to influence them at all.

[stillafool]

It seems so easy to me. If you hate American women and think foreign women are much better then - LEAVE AMERICA AND MOVE TO A FOREIGN COUNTRY. DON'T STAY HERE BECAUSE OF YOUR JOB - MOVE OUT OF OUR COUNTRY NOW!!!!!!:bunny:

[BUENG1]

It seems so easy to me. If you hate American women and think foreign women are much better then - LEAVE AMERICA AND MOVE TO A FOREIGN COUNTRY. DON'T STAY HERE BECAUSE OF YOUR JOB - MOVE OUT OF OUR COUNTRY NOW!!!!!!:bunny:

 

Or just stay in America and date a foreigner. Its his country too, sorry.

[amerikajin]

I guess I don't really have a thing against American women across the board, but I definitely notice that there's a lot of ego in the American dating scene and it's annoying as hell. I think it's true with respect to both men and women, because we're a culture that promotes ego and getting as much attention as one can. I think dating women from other cultures is a more straightforward process in some respects.

[Tony T]

I think it's bizarre that even average educated people would generalize about American women or anything else. If you're going to generalize in such a heinous way, why don't you define American women and tell us exactly how they are and what your problem is with them. Would they be much better if your mind if they all came to your place every night and jumped your bones? Would you hate them in that case? Well, maybe, if you're gay but let's assume you're straight.

 

HATE is a strong word. Hating "American Women" in general is a pretty goofy statement. There are some here and there who are probably worth avoiding. But there are some very nice, delightful ones as well. The same could be said about American men.

 

What is the purpose of this thread anyway? How are we as a people...and as a forum...going to be better off for having generalized about American women?

 

Sorry, just wondering.....................................

[Fritz The Cat]

So..... where are the dad's that fathered these children and left these horrible "feminist" women to their own devices to raise these kids?

I know far to many women who divorced the dads for no good reason to consider your statement to have any validity. It's women who are destroying the majority of families, not men. Granted, there are some bad men out there who abandon their kids but the majority of broken homes, around here at least, it's the woman who kills it. And for stupid reasons like "I don't love him anymore", or "we grew apart", or some other crap. My point is, if you have kids, you owe it to them to keep the family together until they are grown, when you you destroy the family for your own selfish reasons without considering the harm done to your children, you are human garbage, plain and simple.

 

I realize that nothing is cut and dried, not all women fit into the above category. But enough of them do to make for an alarming situation.

 

If a woman can't see the role the father play in the formative years of a child, she's seriously sick.

[wareagle]

This is coming from a guy with an a cat as his avatar? WTF!! SERIOUSLY!!!

[Trialbyfire]

I'm a Canadian woman and I still divorced/walked away from my marriage. Don't just hate American women, hate us all!

[stoopid_guy]

I LOVE AMERICAN WOMEN!

 

(American girls can be obnoxious, but they generally grow up.)

[Citizen Erased]

See, you lost me with the whole gang thing.

 

If feminism is to blame then you should despise women from most countries. I live in Australia and our divorce rate is the same as yours. If Islam is the solution then it can kiss my arse.

[Nemo]

kiss my arse.

If only more American women did arse to mouth.

[Green]

American women do ATM's. Any ways AMERICAN WOMEN are the best in the hole world. Sure we have alot of ugly bichy anoying women in this country, buttttttt we also have some really entertaining, sexy, exciting beutiful women. Because of technology women have finaly become more equal to men, I mean for most of history all the jobs have been pretty horible and required lots of muscle... and who knows what went on in pre-history... point is just recently some cool jobs and stuff have appeared and now women get a chance. I think its petty attitude to just throw out that you cant stand the best women in the world... American women

[Nemo]

Great post, KMT. I trust your judgement, because there's nobody with more experience on this issue than yourself.

[monkey00]

I'm at a true loss for words as of now...

[stillafool]

I know far to many women who divorced the dads for no good reason to consider your statement to have any validity. It's women who are destroying the majority of families, not men. Granted, there are some bad men out there who abandon their kids but the majority of broken homes, around here at least, it's the woman who kills it. And for stupid reasons like "I don't love him anymore", or "we grew apart", or some other crap. My point is, if you have kids, you owe it to them to keep the family together until they are grown, when you you destroy the family for your own selfish reasons without considering the harm done to your children, you are human garbage, plain and simple.

 

I realize that nothing is cut and dried, not all women fit into the above category. But enough of them do to make for an alarming situation.

 

If a woman can't see the role the father play in the formative years of a child, she's seriously sick.

 

Are you kidding? Men have more affairs than women. Why are you picking on us? What American woman did you love that wouldn't give you the time of day? It's so obvious!

[kchiapet95]

I did not want my parents to stay together for the sake of the family. I wish they had separated long before they did. Staying together for the sake of the family...I won't say it never works, but it doesn't work often. It definitely didn't in my case and I'm still suffering the effects.

[FadedSign]

Great post, KMT. I trust your judgement, because there's nobody with more experience on this issue than yourself.

 

LOL.

 

I grew up in Europe but live in the US now. I have not found there to be any significant difference between women here and back home.

 

Entertaining thread though :-)

[Fritz The Cat]

The OP must be yet another guy who can't get a decent woman to give him the time of day. Man, you guys are bitter!

 

I doubt that I'll ever find the one I'm looking for because I suspect she doesn't exist. She's a woman who possesses a strong sense of morality and who considers whoring to be a bad thing. She believes that abuse and infidelity are the only two things that justify divorce.

 

Two people can hold it together and give their kids a good start in life even if they hate each other. My neighbors are doing that. They've both told me that they are working together for their sake and when the last one leaves home, the marriage comes to an end. It's all about acknowledging responsibility. Approach it like a business relationship and it can work. Children from broken homes are damaged goods and rarely do as well in life as those that grew up in whole families.

[Shygirl15]

lol..Funny. Just recently I overheard some American guys in my office complaining of the same. I hope you were not one of them, Fritz.

[Angel1111]

I would've loved to have been with a man who wouldn't resent the fact that I stayed home with my kids. Never met such a "man". In order to stay home with my newborn son, I had to take out $5,000 from my 401k so that I could be home with him for 10 mos. I cried the first 2 wks I went back to work. Such a feminist, I know.

 

I begged my husband to quit his job and finish college (he was about halfway through) so that he could get a good job and I could be home. You would've thought I was asking for the moon. And just in case you ask, he was raised by his mom and dad. The men I've known want the woman to be 'equal' and 'pull her weight'. A euphamism for 'I can't take care of my family and I like it better when my wife works at work and at home. Plus I feel like I can respect her more.'

 

My teenage son - raised by his single mom - has more sense and drive than most men I know. I wonder how that happened.

 

The real problem? People are not taught the most important things in life; what I refer to as "The Big 3": money (how to handle it, how to make it, and how to stay out of debt), relationships (how to be in them and how to choose the right person), and children (how to raise them to be quality people). So the dysfunction builds on itself. If people were wiser about all of these things, there would be much fewer problems in our country.