velvetrage21177 Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 Last night he told me that when he moved here, he had in fact slept with 15 girls in two months, not the 5 that he previously told me about. This hurt me. We are getting married and not only did he lie to me, but he is a player on top of it all. He bragged to me about picking up chicks and having sex with them every time he went to the bar. how do I get over this? I am so disgusted with him. I dont know what to do or how to make him stop bragging to me about being with 21 year olds. Link to post Share on other sites
norajane Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 He's probably a huge liar. And if this is what he's bragging about to you, he's nowhere ready for marriage. Why do you want to marry him? Link to post Share on other sites
porter218 Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 He's probably a huge liar. And if this is what he's bragging about to you, he's nowhere ready for marriage. Why do you want to marry him? Couldn't agree more!!! This man is nowhere near marriage material! Link to post Share on other sites
smalltownsingle Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 Did u tell him it hurts u when he "brags". Are u sure he really means to brag? My boyfriend used to talk a lot about his past relationships and I told him how I felt when he did that. He appologized and said I am like a good friend to him and he sometimes forget that stuff like that can hurt me. He now tries to do it a lot less. Sometimes he still slips but its really not that often. Eventually, He proved to me that those past encounters werent important to him. Link to post Share on other sites
ladyintights Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 Do you actually expect the sex with other women to end? Player indeed, i wouldnot trust him one bit. he's bragging about sleeping with 21 year olds? he likes older women? imsorry but he sounds like a teenager himself. Link to post Share on other sites
AAlike Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 Wow - yeah you really need to wonder WTF people are thinking when they do this stuff. What were the circumstances in which he mentioned this to you? Link to post Share on other sites
EnigmaXOXO Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 Well, if that isn’t your first sign of a complete relationship numpty, I don’t know what is. Pounding your chest for your fellow cavemen is one thing ... but it’s a surefire way to unimpress the lady you intend to sell yourself to as good “marriage material”. Yeap. We’ve gone way past tacky and right into the insanely obnoxious with this particular brand of ... foreplay (???) :confused: [scratching head] I don’t know, Velvet. I’m pretty disgusted for you and I can see how this would set you right back to square one as far as establishing ‘trust’ goes. And I hope you sat him down and told him exactly how this kind of adolescent posturing makes you feel. Meanwhile, I wouldn’t run off and marry this guy any time soon. At least not until he grows up a bit (if ever). Most of the time, what you see is exactly what you’ll get. Don’t fool yourself otherwise. Link to post Share on other sites
TigerCub Posted September 10, 2008 Share Posted September 10, 2008 Yeap. We’ve gone way past tacky and right into the insanely obnoxious with this particular brand of ... foreplay (???) :confused: Haha..that's so funny! but yeah I agree, the guy certainly doesn't seem very mature at all, and most likely a liar as well...sorry... I really don't get why some people go into details about their past sexual experiences with their current significant other - all that current person needs to know is "are ya clean? have you been tested?" ok, then that's that, we all have our sexual pasts and our numbers may vary, but nobody really needs to know the details. Link to post Share on other sites
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