Smiles08 Posted September 10, 2008 Share Posted September 10, 2008 Hi, I'm new here! It was in the last week of July I met this adopted korean guy in Minnesota. Previously before that we talked on the phone and messaged each other on Facebook. We kept in touch everyday. I felt we knew each other longer then a week. We met in July and started off well. We connected well and of course had some type of intimate moments but no sex. He came to visit a week later. We stayed together and were very into eachother. When he left, I felt something was wrong. Some gutt feeling I had. I mean he had just broken up with his gf 4 months before. I wasn't sure if this was sure thing. When I visited him, I wanted him to be honest with me. So I came out and expressed my concerns. He did as well. His words were, "I've already told people I'm seeing someone but they don't know who. I'm private about my personal life." He also stated, "If you do find someone you like down the road by all means tell me and I'll let you go." I was shocked. After a whole month and a week, I thought we had a good understanding that sex wasn't just sex. We both agreed our intimate times were based on feelings. I don't know if I got cheated but I guess if I was I wouldn't know. He lives an hour and 30 minutes away from me. I don't know. I also don't understand this meaning of "seeing each other." Explain this to me and please let me know what your opinions are. When I'm with him, I'm happy. We go out in public holding hands everywhere we go. I don't know. Link to post Share on other sites
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