htech70 Posted August 16, 2003 Share Posted August 16, 2003 I have been married for 9 months to who I thought was my soul mate. This is both of our 2nd marriages after 20 yr ones. My wife and I discovered we had different parenting styles. She babies her kids and I don't. My 2 kids are much more mature then her 2 kids. She recently locked me out of the house after I took my daughter home,and had her father and brother come over to be with her.The house is in her name so the police could do nothing and I left. We have gone out once since and it was fun but she was very cold. It is killing me to not see her or talk with her. She says she misses me but I cannot come home. Do I just try not to call or email her and wait for her to call or email me. I did this for about a week but then had to email her. I am going for counseling but she did not want to go after going twice. This is killing me from being bored and lonely. How do I handle this better? Link to post Share on other sites
midori Posted August 16, 2003 Share Posted August 16, 2003 It's impossible to get a real sense of what is/was going on without some more information. From what you've posted it sounds like one night, after a disagreement about parenting styles, your wife locked you out of the house and called for back-up. And now she doesn't want you to ever come home again. If that's all there is to it, my advice would be: get a good divorce lawyer. Your "soulmate" is clearly nuts, and even if you manage to get things resolved this time, what would lie in store for you down the road? She obviously doesn't know how to handle herself in grown-up discussions and disagreements. But I rather suspect there's more to the story than what you've provided.... Link to post Share on other sites
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