Cartman1970 Posted September 12, 2008 Share Posted September 12, 2008 I've been seeing a lass for a month and we have met and gone out a few times since the first date. We have kissed but not gone all the way. We talk a lot on the phone and she says she misses me and I am really great and she can't believe I've not been snapped up. What I am wanting to know is if you think that we are an item as neither of us has said anything ? Thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
TigerCub Posted September 12, 2008 Share Posted September 12, 2008 You've just been dating for a month and you haven't even slept together, I'd say you're not an item - If you want to be, you'd have to have the 'exclusive talk' Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted September 12, 2008 Share Posted September 12, 2008 You might be an item (see below for the communication part) if you both are waiting until you're married to have sex, but, otherwise, you'll need a combination of sexual intimacy along with clear communication about the nature of your relationship and a mutual agreement regarding exclusivity before putting that "item" advertisement in the newspaper Link to post Share on other sites
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