mortensorchid Posted September 13, 2008 Share Posted September 13, 2008 On the Dating threads I posted about a situation I was in a while ago. A man who I refer to as The Cake Man (because I had baked him a cake for his birthday only to have him blow me off and to have him break it off via email / text message the next day) I saw last night. He told me in his standard "I can't get back on the horse again because I was so hurt by those other gfs I told you about" speech. So I begrudingly accepted it. No point in arguing with him if he felt things were getting serious far too quickly after a few weeks / months. I see him quite a bit. We are somewhat friendly with each other, although I sense him being more standoffish than I am with him. Just last night, I see him at the bar with the trashy barmaid. Known for her dramas and hilarious things in life (although I have my share as well), I was angry to see this. He acts like he doesn't even know me, and he'd rather have trash like her and the other two gfs (who stole his credit cards, no less) than me. I feel jealous. I feel hurt, I feel angry. Was I a sucker? How can I get over this? Link to post Share on other sites
TigerCub Posted September 14, 2008 Share Posted September 14, 2008 I think its normal to feel hurt when you like someone and want something that they can't offer you. I think its normal to feel angry at the fact that you treated him well and he just didn't react in a favorable manner and he's proving he would rather be with "trashy" girls. The one thing you can take to make you feel better is the knowledge that some people would just rather have the drama and would rather have the 'trashy' girls that treat them like **** and use them rather than appreciating someone that is good to them - take comfort in the fact that at least you're not a trashy gal yourself, and in time you'll find a mature man that doesn't want the bull**** games and will appreciate you. Link to post Share on other sites
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