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I don't think he is interested anymore!


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I've been in a LDR for a few months now. We only live 100 miles apart. The relationship started off really good (as they usually do). I didn't want to rush things but seems like they did. Our first date lasted an entire weekend and it was great. In the beggining we spent a couple hours every night talking, we emailed, and sent text messages. I don't think I have ever laughed with someone so much. I mostly drove to see him. I'd usually drive to see him because he had something go on every weekend, so I would tag along. He has only come to see me once. Our communication seemed to slow down a little bit but I figured that it was because he was busy.

The last few weeks have left me with a broken heart. The last time I went to see him, I surprised him. Originally I had plans that weekend, but he begged me to come up and see him. I told him I couldn't but ended up driving to see him. He seemed really happy until we got up the next morning. I knew something was wrong. I went home and didn't hear from him for four days. I finally sent him a text and told him I just wanted the truth. If he didn't want to see me, I wanted him to just tell me. He called me and said nothing was wrong. I didn't believe him so I pressed the issue. He finally tells me that it seemed like the both of us had to much of a busy schedule for a LDR and he couldn't stand the distance anymore. So we broke up. He sent me an email the next day apologizing, telling me he didn't want to hurt me. So we had no contact for a week and a half and then he started to email me. Just little emails saying he hoped I had a good weekend or my day was good. I didn't really respond much. Then he called. I talked to him for a bit and over the next few days we talked an he told me he missed me like crazy and wanted me back. I really missed him too. So I thought we worked things out. We made plans to spend the upcoming weekend together. When I made metion of our plans a couple of days later, he said we would see how things played out. Then the next day, he said he was going to spend the weekend with his parents at their lake cabin. And after that I hadn't heard from him for four days. So last night I sent him a text telling him that I couldn't believe I fell for his crap and that I felt like a complete idiot. He sent one back asking me what the hell I was talking about. Then I got nothing after that.

Can someone shed some light on this for me. I really liked this guy and I really miss him, but I think I might just be a complete idiot in this relationship.

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