marni Posted August 17, 2003 Share Posted August 17, 2003 Hi everyone, im a newbie here, so let me tell you my situation. im an irish girl living and working in poland, and was engaged to the most beautiful polish girl till last week. on thursday on my way home she called to ask me where i was and when i told her i'd be home in 5 minutes that was ok, she told me she was at her parents(who live across the road) and would be home in 2 minutes, i opened the apartment door to find the place empty of her stuff. She wouldnt talk to me on any of the phones and wouldnt open the door to her parents apartment. since then i have slept over at her parents(only sleep) and when i ask her what she wants i get the typical "i dont know" and lets be best friends, i know she has alot of stress at the moment as she has an exam in a few weeks that she needs to pass,but it seems like i'm being left to hang on until she decides what she wants. I miss her and my brain and heart are going crazy and cant stop crying or smsing her and took an overdose of insulin, but she just seems so cold, she says she cares and has emotions for me and loves me but not in the same way anymore, is there any sense in waiting for her?and will this pain ever stop? marni Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted August 17, 2003 Share Posted August 17, 2003 Move on, and stay away from her parents home as well. She has given you absolutely clear signals that she no longer desires the relationship. He behavior in completely avoiding you shows she is incapable of the kind of communication required in a healthy relationship. It will hurt for a while but you'll be fine. Cut all contact with and begin the healing process. And don't screw your mind all up for weeks wondering if she's going to come back or not. You don't want somebody in your life who's going to clear all their stuff out without talking to you in advance. That's not the kind of relationship most people value. Did I read correctly what you are an Irish girl living in Poland who was engaged to a Polish girl? Do they allow same-sex marriages in Poland? We are having a bit of controversy about that subject in America. President Bush doesn't seem to want those kinds of things to happen. Your ex doesn't know President Bush, does she? Link to post Share on other sites
Paul Posted August 17, 2003 Board of Directors Share Posted August 17, 2003 Hi marni, Originally posted by marni I miss her and my brain and heart are going crazy and cant stop crying or smsing her and took an overdose of insulin, but she just seems so cold You are currently in a crisis situation. Please contact your local emergency number or health services for assistance as soon as possible. Most communities offer services to assist persons that are feeling suicidal or that have attempted to commit suicide. Be sure you let them know about the Insulin overdose. Best wishes, Paul Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted August 17, 2003 Share Posted August 17, 2003 I did not interpret that this person took an overdose of insulin on purpose....I think this was an accident because he had so much on his mind. Accidental overdoses occur often, especially with people who are in stressful situations. Obviously he is now fine, having been able to post this...at least, I hope. I do agree it is a good idea for him to seek help immediately in any case. Link to post Share on other sites
Ryan Posted August 17, 2003 Share Posted August 17, 2003 Ahem....she and her. Link to post Share on other sites
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