Cross roads

[Jazzy56]

Edit, i posted this in the wrong category. Sorry

 

My boyfriend broke up with me on Friday. We had a good relation, but he said we are having fun, but does not see me as the one mostly because of my parents and how overbearing they are.

 

So, I get a text message about 30 minutes ago asking how the weekend was. I didnt respond. He sent another, just wondering how I am.

 

I feel hurt, and want to hurt him as well I guess, and am thinking about sending a text back, lose my number. But I also have a lot of feelings for him. If I say that, he will probably lose my number.

 

He was a nice guy. My parents actually didnt get along with him for certain reasons, and there were a lot of clashes. I feel my parents are overbearing, and its not their business, and he is frustrated by them.

[hendersongirl]

Ok, first you need to decide: do you want him back/is there a chance of getting back together? Or is this a nope? If you know it won't happen/you don't want it to happen, then you can say lose your number if you want to - it will give you closure like you've proved to yourself that you are ok and you don't need him. Then just get on with your life. Grieve, obviously, but do so with an eye to the future.

 

If you do want to get back together, and you think there is enough of a chance to make it worth your while to try, then respond in a friendly way.