rod_in_gtown Posted September 18, 2008 Share Posted September 18, 2008 Nah, baby. We're gonna keep it alive. Right up to the wedding day. That'll be an interestingly long thread It would have to be some kind of record Link to post Share on other sites
rod_in_gtown Posted September 18, 2008 Share Posted September 18, 2008 I would think it's because they're infact smarter? Don't you think? I don't like what you're implying about my smarts... no sir, I don't like it one bit! Link to post Share on other sites
The Collector Posted September 18, 2008 Share Posted September 18, 2008 If this is a troll, what needs to happen next is for 'Darren' to find this thread and storm in. And throw in the ADD kid for extra comedy value. Link to post Share on other sites
Shygirl15 Posted September 18, 2008 Share Posted September 18, 2008 I don't like what you're implying about my smarts... no sir, I don't like it one bit! Well, I'm so sorry ma'm! Link to post Share on other sites
Author dcgirl33 Posted September 18, 2008 Author Share Posted September 18, 2008 If this is a troll, what needs to happen next is for 'Darren' to find this thread and storm in. And throw in the ADD kid for extra comedy value. All, Hell No! You ain't gonna refer to 'the boy" as ADD Kid. I told everyone he is an "Inattentive Child." Know the difference. And he can read. If he ever read about you calling him ADD, that would be your a$$. Link to post Share on other sites
rod_in_gtown Posted September 18, 2008 Share Posted September 18, 2008 Well, I'm so sorry ma'm! Ma'am? I do have that Y chromosome thankyouverymuch! Link to post Share on other sites
Lucky_One Posted September 18, 2008 Share Posted September 18, 2008 (She did me wrong Now I aint sayin she a gold digger (When I'm Need) But she aint messin wit no broke niggaz (She did me wrong) Now I aint sayin she a gold digger (When I'm need) but she aint messin wit no broke niggaz get down girl go head get down (I gotta leave) get down girl go head get down (I gotta leave) get down girl go head get down (I gotta leave) get down girl go head Link to post Share on other sites
Lucky_One Posted September 18, 2008 Share Posted September 18, 2008 All, Hell No! You ain't gonna refer to 'the boy" as ADD Kid. I told everyone he is an "Inattentive Child." Know the difference. And he can read. If he ever read about you calling him ADD, that would be your a$$. That's right - its "ADHD-i Kid". Keep up with the DSM-IV! Link to post Share on other sites
Shygirl15 Posted September 18, 2008 Share Posted September 18, 2008 Ma'am? I do have that Y chromosome thankyouverymuch! Well I don't so don't call me sir, thankyouverymuch! Link to post Share on other sites
DaisyBelle Posted September 18, 2008 Share Posted September 18, 2008 ::waving arms:: People! Let's focus here: so are we goin' to Luray? Link to post Share on other sites
Author dcgirl33 Posted September 18, 2008 Author Share Posted September 18, 2008 Oops! I'm going to have to hit ya'll back in the a.m. because my man will be out front of my office building in a couple of minutes. He's picking me up from work. We need to hug after that bull$hit ya'll pulled on us today. Link to post Share on other sites
DaisyBelle Posted September 18, 2008 Share Posted September 18, 2008 If we "ba$tards" are "making you" do "bull$hit" things (all your own words) why do you continue to post on this thread? (Purely rhetorical, btw.) I'm just here for pure amusement now until this tale reaches its inevitable explosive conclusion, but I originally thought you were really seeking input and advice. Silly me. Link to post Share on other sites
Author dcgirl33 Posted September 18, 2008 Author Share Posted September 18, 2008 If we "ba$tards" are "making you" do "bull$hit" things (all your own words) why do you continue to post on this thread? (Purely rhetorical, btw.) I'm just here for pure amusement now until this tale reaches its inevitable explosive conclusion, but I originally thought you were really seeking input and advice. Silly me. Let me answer this and then I'm going to run. At first you all were good with the advice. That was good to tell me to approach him and to pick up the phone. I wasn't going to do either. BUT today, ya'll just fell the hell down and rolled around on the damn floor, shouting up stupid stuff! Tomorrow, I hope to get something more intelligent out of all of you. Link to post Share on other sites
Lucky_One Posted September 18, 2008 Share Posted September 18, 2008 We ask the same in return. Link to post Share on other sites
Shygirl15 Posted September 18, 2008 Share Posted September 18, 2008 We ask the same in return. Please Lucky get real. She needs a step-by-step guidance on how to deal with "her man", can't you see you're asking for the impossible here?? Link to post Share on other sites
Author dcgirl33 Posted September 19, 2008 Author Share Posted September 19, 2008 Darren picked me up from work yesterday and he had a nice talk on the drive home. He was telling me that the only reason he even suggested the motel at Luray is because his legs fall asleep if he drives for long periods of time. I still feel bad for acting like a fool about the entire thing. We picked the boy up from after-care and went back to Darren's house and he made some spaghetti for us. He gave me a napkin for my hands, by the way. The boy fell asleep in the couch and Darren got on the subject of the sexual tension between us. That is when he revealed to me that he sometimes suffered from Erectile Dysfunction or ED. I'm not so sure because each time he hugs me, I can clearly feel him "saluting" me. If this is true, how does he always seem to be "at attention" (if you know what I mean) each time we embrace? Guys, how does the whole E.D. thing work. Would someone with E.D. be able to salute a woman simply by hugging her? I didn't want to ask him anything about it. I just let him have HIS conversation. I told myself that he wasn't even talking to me. Link to post Share on other sites
The Collector Posted September 19, 2008 Share Posted September 19, 2008 Perhaps you could have asked him about that when he brought the subject up? He is probably better qualified to explain his condition than any of us. Link to post Share on other sites
Author dcgirl33 Posted September 19, 2008 Author Share Posted September 19, 2008 Perhaps you could have asked him about that when he brought the subject up? He is probably better qualified to explain his condition than any of us. If he even has a condition. I'm not having any conversations with him about his peni$ at this stage even if he told me it was missing. I would not ask him what happened to it. Link to post Share on other sites
The Collector Posted September 19, 2008 Share Posted September 19, 2008 Fair enough - it was inappropriate for him to mention it really. Link to post Share on other sites
Author dcgirl33 Posted September 19, 2008 Author Share Posted September 19, 2008 I think he was telling me that to say, "Hey, you don't worry about me because I have E.D." If he doesn't have E.D. and just said then he's diabolical. Link to post Share on other sites
The Collector Posted September 19, 2008 Share Posted September 19, 2008 He said it sometimes affects him? That could mean he can get erections while kissing, etc, but sometimes fails to get it up in the bedroom, perhaps due to the stress - and was preparing you for a potential let-down. Link to post Share on other sites
rod_in_gtown Posted September 19, 2008 Share Posted September 19, 2008 Well, there are several degrees of ED, and there's a rating system when it comes to it. You rate your erections from 1-4. one being flaccid and 4 being hard enough for penetration. Most guys that have early symptoms of ED have erections between 2 and 3. 3 being hard but not hard enough for penetration. You also rate the frequency when your erections are not hard enough for penetration during a healthy intercourse session. There are many factors that affect an erection when you're about to have sex and many are psychological as well. If a man has had mild ED in the past it's likely that his confidence has gone down on whether or not he will be able to get an erection. compounded with the fact that you have not had sex with him yet, it raises the ED coeficient. Outside factors to ED include alcohol, excercise (it's very difficult to get an erection if you've been working out or excercising recently, even if you do not suffer from ED), stress, etc. If he's aware of this problem he should talk to a urologist about ED pills like viagra or cialis. If he hasn't been sexually active with a partner in a while, it's possible that he hasn't addressed this issue yet. but if you're going to do it, he should look into it. Be kind to him, this is a problem that is NOT easy to discuss with your partner and it takes a lot of guts and a lot of trust to start that conversation. Link to post Share on other sites
Author dcgirl33 Posted September 19, 2008 Author Share Posted September 19, 2008 Well, a child with ADD and a man with E.D. might be too much on me. I'm just one woman. Link to post Share on other sites
rod_in_gtown Posted September 19, 2008 Share Posted September 19, 2008 Also, ED doesn't mean you can't get an erection at all, it just means that it's hard to get a full erection and maintain it through intercourse. He's going to get erections but it's possible that when it comes down to actual intercourse, he won't be able to fully perform. So just because you feel his erection when you hug, that doesn't mean he doesn't have ED. Link to post Share on other sites
rod_in_gtown Posted September 19, 2008 Share Posted September 19, 2008 Well, a child with ADD and a man with E.D. might be too much on me. I'm just one woman. It won't be an issue if he talks to a doctor and gets some ED medicine like viagra or cialis. Most of the times we breach the subject to adjust the expectations of the first sexual encounter because we don't want you to think that the reason we can't perform is because we don't find you attractive, but rather there's a physiological reason behind it. At 40 you'll be hard pressed to find a man who doesn't have some mild form of ED. Unless you start dating 30 year olds. Link to post Share on other sites
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