How can I let Him Know i'm interested?

[All Star]

DCGIRL, Please keep posting. A lot of us are interested in this thread.

And those who are not can simply stop reading and posting.

[All Star]

I am not perfect. I came to LS because I know I have my issues with relationships. My relationships last years, my shortest being 6 years, but when they end I have trouble letting them go. So I found this site and it has helped me cope. I am an educator. I have no children. I don't want children because I know that I am not ready even at the age of 35. However, this woman is 40 years old and she is acting as others suggested...as a school girl. Her behavior is not appropriate. She does not seem responsible in any sense. The sad part is she has cared for her child for only 6 years. Six year is not a long time and already she is saying he is the "Jackass" not the men she is dating. He is her burden. She is not a strong woman, nor a strong parent and I feel so bad for her child. I honestly do. At 35years, I am so close to my parents, nobody can believe it. My brothers are close as well. My parents were loving. One of my brother has cerebral palsy and he no less loved than us. My parents give him so much, yet they treat him like the man he is. We are all loved. At 35 no matter how much I go through, I can say that my family would never, ever put me down, especially to strangers!!! Can you imagine if she post such ugly things, how she must talk to her child? How he must feel her attitude towards him? Children are smart. Challenged kids are smarter in their own way!

 

 

For you to conclude all of this shows deep emotional problems ON YOUR PART. Reading this thread, I don't see any of this. You're speaking about yourself on DCGirls thread and trying to transfer that to her. And that is my professional opinion. STOP READING!!!!! You're just upsetting your delicate self.

[Shygirl15]

Hey DCGirl.. by any chance, do you happen have friends in real life?

[dcgirl33]

Hey DCGirl.. by any chance, do you happen have friends in real life?

 

 

I have plenty of life long friends who are as crazy as hell. Jus tlike me. I'd ask the same question of you, but I know the answer already.

 

You're on LS attempting to argue with a stranger about the validity of something you've read tha that stranger posted.

 

But yet you won’t stop reading? I would kindly suggest that you do go out and meet some people and make some friends. You can't live thru me and then argue with me about the life I've chosen for us.

[Shygirl15]

I didn't argue though. Never questioned if it was real or not, just said it was simply annoying. It's called Freedom of Expression; ever heard of that?

 

Enjoy!

[dcgirl33]

Anyhow, when I was laughing at Darren, somehow he'd managed to get my underwear off and place himself on top of me. I told him to get off of me in a serious voice. He got off of me and leaned down over me and smiled. He tasked me, "What do you want, Jane? I'll do anything you want." That peeked my interest so I said, "Let's do it standing up." He agreed and we did. I slipped into my clog heels so that I could be level with him and it was great. No E.D.

 

For round two, I asked him what he wanted me to do and he said the something, "but this time, I want you to lean out of the window." I was wearing one of his tees and so he raised the window and I leaned out placing my elbows onto the fire escape.

 

All anyone could see is the I was leaning out of the window. They could not see that Darren was playing around behind me. He had lowered the window so that the window and shade were resting against my back. No one was out anyway.

 

It was about 11:30pm at this time and it was really cold out. I went along with it because I want him to get it all out of his system because the winter or I might have to start keep a coat and glovers by his bed. He really got a kick out of it. I thought it was dumb.

 

We did it that way twice Friday night. He need sto get over it and think of something else because I'm not going to be out there in the snow.

[Lucky_One]

I see you're back again. What's going on with you? Does DCGirl need a restraining order to keep you off this thread.

 

I see no reason why I can't post on any thread on LS at this point.

 

Curious though, that you are consistently the only poster who posts on DCGirl's threads. And you only post during her working hours, and never on weekends or holidays. How funny that you both seem so....alike...know what I mean?

 

And as for what is missing from my life to make me read this? Nothing. But I do work closely with clients in a DV shelter, and it does make me sick to my stomach to think that women will read a nonsensical thread such as this and actually believe that this is the sort of behavior that adults would need to engage in to have a healthy relationship.

 

So I have no problem in pointing out that IF this thread is real, then no sane or healthy adult would/should behave in such dangerous, ridiculous or dysfunctional manners simply because they are so lonely that they will latch onto any moron.

 

LS can be a tremendous learning tool, and it is irresponsible in my opinion to keep perpetuating adult behavior myths.

[dcgirl33]

On Saturday, we got up and headed to Luray Caverns. Skyline drive was beautiful and the caverns were amazing. Gray love it. We just stayed for a couple of hours and came back and took the boy to his 1st grade picnic that had started at noon.

 

Gray couldn't wait to introduce Darren to his 2 teachers. He said, "This is Darren. He's my best friend." I used to be his best friend. Ha! But I'm not as cool as Darren so I guess I'm back to mom.

 

After the picnic, he dropped us off and we spend the afternoon taking up my fake pansies from the backyard and putting them away for the winter.

 

We met up with Darren again at 4pm and went back to his house. I did his chores and lounged around for a while. Later on that night when the boy was asleep, Darren hung me out the window again. I'm glad we're doing this stuff in HIS neighborhood. No one can see anything, but I would not dare do that at my house. I'm on a busy main street.

[All Star]

I see no reason why I can't post on any thread on LS at this point.

 

Curious though, that you are consistently the only poster who posts on DCGirl's threads. And you only post during her working hours, and never on weekends or holidays. How funny that you both seem so....alike...know what I mean?

 

And as for what is missing from my life to make me read this? Nothing. But I do work closely with clients in a DV shelter, and it does make me sick to my stomach to think that women will read a nonsensical thread such as this and actually believe that this is the sort of behavior that adults would need to engage in to have a healthy relationship.

 

So I have no problem in pointing out that IF this thread is real, then no sane or healthy adult would/should behave in such dangerous, ridiculous or dysfunctional manners simply because they are so lonely that they will latch onto any moron.

 

LS can be a tremendous learning tool, and it is irresponsible in my opinion to keep perpetuating adult behavior myths.

 

 

Can't fool you Sherlock. You cracked the case. I only post at work. I work for a state government and i don't work on evenings or weekends. I don't have internet service at home. I happen to like DCGirl.

 

And we all know who's lonely and who's not. I Read because it's very hilarious, but you hate it and still continue to read. So I'll ask you who's lonely and a moron?

[dcgirl33]

I see no reason why I can't post on any thread on LS at this point.

 

Curious though, that you are consistently the only poster who posts on DCGirl's threads. And you only post during her working hours, and never on weekends or holidays. How funny that you both seem so....alike...know what I mean?

 

And as for what is missing from my life to make me read this? Nothing. But I do work closely with clients in a DV shelter, and it does make me sick to my stomach to think that women will read a nonsensical thread such as this and actually believe that this is the sort of behavior that adults would need to engage in to have a healthy relationship.

 

So I have no problem in pointing out that IF this thread is real, then no sane or healthy adult would/should behave in such dangerous, ridiculous or dysfunctional manners simply because they are so lonely that they will latch onto any moron.

 

LS can be a tremendous learning tool, and it is irresponsible in my opinion to keep perpetuating adult behavior myths.

 

Atr this point, I'm guessing that you are severely mentally ill. But that's going to be your problem because I told you.

[All Star]

She'd have to be.

[dcgirl33]

I see no reason why I can't post on any thread on LS at this point.

 

 

LS can be a tremendous learning tool, and it is irresponsible in my opinion to keep perpetuating adult behavior myths.

 

 

This is LOVESHACK!!! If this is your only or one of your tremendous learningtools, then you are a IDIOT!

And we've already established that. Soon i'm going to show you my idiot. and she's an IDIOT!!!

[All Star]

Keep posting and ignore her. Don't let their ignorance mess up MY entertainment.

[dcgirl33]

I see no reason why I can't post on any thread on LS at this point.

And as for what is missing from my life to make me read this? Nothing.

 

I would offer that you are clearly messing some MAJOR shi_t in your life. You need to quit that job because

A. You are surfing LS instead of helping them and

2. You're in no condition mentally to be trying to help such women.

 

I don't believe for a second that you are a counselor. I counseled woman and children for many years when I graduated and you're no counselor. You may in fact be a victim of domestic violence. How could you possibly counsel anyone with all that anger. It's so consuming that you unleash it on strangers on internet LS further inviting violence against youself.

[All Star]

Can we stay on point please?

[dcgirl33]

Can we stay on point please?

 

 

I just want to take an unselfish moment to help her see the real issues.

[All Star]

You can't help everyone so let's keep on topic, shall we?

 

Is he picking you up today?

[dcgirl33]

Yep. I've gotta figure out how to send you a private message and we can exchange emails. You now, I used to live in Bexley. I see in your profile that you're in Ohio.

 

I was there for a conference back in July.

[All Star]

Yep. I've gotta figure out how to send you a private message and we can exchange emails. You now, I used to live in Bexley. I see in your profile that you're in Ohio.

 

I was there for a conference back in July.

 

 

Bexley is 15 minutes from me.

[All Star]

Back to the topic.......

 

Are you going to hang out of the window tonight? LOL

[dcgirl33]

No, let's talk about this.

 

It's really kind of funny because I get the feeling that I like you too and it seems that the feew people that I have an instant connection with are from Ohio.

 

When I came to Washington, I lived in a huge apt building and one of the people I met was my buddy cindy and we immediately hit it off. Later, I learned that she was from Ohio. There's something about people from Ohio that draws me to them. Darren lived in Columbus for 6 years back in the 90's.

[dcgirl33]

I might hang out the window for him tonight, if it's not too cold.

A gal can't catch a cold now.

[All Star]

Can he hang out of the window? That would turn me on.

[dcgirl33]

[FONT=Arial][sIZE=2]Darren,

The just called the wearther line and it said that tonight is going to be 55-60 degrees.

I don’t know if we want to do that window thing. What do you think?

 

XOXOXO,

Jane

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[dcgirl33]

[sIZE=2]I can turn the heat up? I'm leaving in a couple of minutes.

 

Love ya,

Darren

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