Author dcgirl33 Posted October 8, 2008 Author Share Posted October 8, 2008 Yeah, some people on Loveshack got me here with good advice. Now, I have to do the rest. He just sent me an email and said, "And who said anything's ending? You can't think that we're breaking up everytime I try to leave you in a park. I'm always going to try." Laugh Out Loud. And he's picking me up today. Link to post Share on other sites
You'reasian Posted October 8, 2008 Share Posted October 8, 2008 I know that I love Darren and I want to have a life with him. I just wanted someone to pass the time with at first, but he's really grown on me. He does whatever the hell he wants like me and I like it. I ultimately want to stop all of my bs and hold on to him for life. We both realize that my bs probably won't stop and he's ok with that. That's what I love about him. He can say "mums the word" about his ED all that he wants because the truth is that I'm stuck with him ED or not. I won't tell him that though. I'm so floored that he said he loves me or something. I'll take it. lol...I take it your English? Story set aside, atleast you've got someone to be with. Kudos to you for sticking it out. Link to post Share on other sites
Author dcgirl33 Posted October 8, 2008 Author Share Posted October 8, 2008 lol...I take it your English? Story set aside, atleast you've got someone to be with. Kudos to you for sticking it out. It's not hard. Being with Darren is easy and it's where I want to be. A few people were like "play all these games and be unavailable, don't see him everyday, etc." You've just got to follow your heart and do what it tells you to do. That's what Dareen told me he was going to do regarding this and I tried to do the same. It works better that way when you make it clear how much you like someone so they are not left trying to interpret things that you might do or say. A lot of interpretations that we make are just dead wrong. Link to post Share on other sites
All Star Posted October 8, 2008 Share Posted October 8, 2008 I agree that you should let people know how you feel and not be too afraid to take your chances. The only way you get your chances in life is to take them. Would you marry Darren if he asked down the road? Have you two ever talked about marriage? Link to post Share on other sites
Author dcgirl33 Posted October 8, 2008 Author Share Posted October 8, 2008 Darren has said that he would like to be married again, but the conversation was about how married men live longer. I don't know if that why he is interested in being married again. I could see myself married to him. We're not at that point, however. Link to post Share on other sites
All Star Posted October 8, 2008 Share Posted October 8, 2008 Darren has said that he would like to be married again, but the conversation was about how married men live longer. I don't know if that why he is interested in being married again. I could see myself married to him. We're not at that point, however. I wouldn't consider marrying him until he address' his ED problem. Link to post Share on other sites
Author dcgirl33 Posted October 8, 2008 Author Share Posted October 8, 2008 Oh, Hell No! Really, I shouldn't even consider letting him drive me home unless he addresses his ED problem. Link to post Share on other sites
All Star Posted October 8, 2008 Share Posted October 8, 2008 But you should consider allowing him to continue to give you oral sex whether or not he address' his ED problem. LOL Link to post Share on other sites
Author dcgirl33 Posted October 8, 2008 Author Share Posted October 8, 2008 Oh, Hell YES! He don't need a doctors note for that. He can stay sick all he wants. Link to post Share on other sites
All Star Posted October 8, 2008 Share Posted October 8, 2008 Damn Right! You can't help him until he's ready to help himself, but in the mean time......... Why even try to talk to him about intercourse anymore? Just tell him that he can just do the oral sex and he doesn't have to do anything else. Link to post Share on other sites
Author dcgirl33 Posted October 8, 2008 Author Share Posted October 8, 2008 [sIZE=2]Darren, I don’t want us to get into anymore fights about this subject anymore. Do you want us to just do the oral s_x and we don’t have to do the other thing? Jane [/sIZE] Link to post Share on other sites
Author dcgirl33 Posted October 8, 2008 Author Share Posted October 8, 2008 Damn Right! You can't help him until he's ready to help himself, but in the mean time......... Why even try to talk to him about intercourse anymore? Just tell him that he can just do the oral sex and he doesn't have to do anything else. All Star - You're trying to get me fired again. I hope he says yes. He's better at the oral than anything else. Link to post Share on other sites
All Star Posted October 8, 2008 Share Posted October 8, 2008 What's wrong with you? I was just joking. Link to post Share on other sites
Author dcgirl33 Posted October 8, 2008 Author Share Posted October 8, 2008 It's OK. It's a good idea. He might agree. Link to post Share on other sites
All Star Posted October 8, 2008 Share Posted October 8, 2008 Nooo, I see your as$ getting fired again. Maybe for good this time. I think it's Yahoo that has this new thing that delays emails. It for people who get drunk and send people ****. You need that. It delays the emails you send out for 12 hours. Link to post Share on other sites
Author dcgirl33 Posted October 8, 2008 Author Share Posted October 8, 2008 I agree that you should let people know how you feel and not be too afraid to take your chances. The only way you get your chances in life is to take them. Would you marry Darren if he asked down the road? Have you two ever talked about marriage? What's this junk that you said right here "and not be too afraid to take your chances?" I'm taking a chance like you said. What's wrong now, All Star? Link to post Share on other sites
All Star Posted October 8, 2008 Share Posted October 8, 2008 WTF? I'm going home. You're off your rocker! Link to post Share on other sites
Author dcgirl33 Posted October 8, 2008 Author Share Posted October 8, 2008 Yeah, you need to run because I'm tired of you F'ing up my relationship. HEEHEEHEE Link to post Share on other sites
Author dcgirl33 Posted October 8, 2008 Author Share Posted October 8, 2008 [sIZE=2]Darren,[/sIZE] [sIZE=2] [/sIZE] [sIZE=2]I don’t want us to get into anymore fights about this subject anymore. Do you want us to just do the oral s_x and we don’t have to do the other thing?[/sIZE] [sIZE=2] [/sIZE] [sIZE=2]Jane[/sIZE] [sIZE=2][/sIZE] [sIZE=2]Absolutely NOT! I love making love to you and being inside of you. You fit me like a glove, baby. I couldn’t imagine not feeling you all around me so warm, wet and tight. I would never give that up for anything. You drive me absolutely crazy and half the time, I find myself mad at the sun because it won’t hurry up and go down. We'll get it together - No worries. I'll be there around 4:30. I'm just getting done. Darren [/sIZE] Link to post Share on other sites
Author dcgirl33 Posted October 8, 2008 Author Share Posted October 8, 2008 [sIZE=2]Absolutely NOT! I love making love to you and being inside of you. You fit me like a glove, baby. I couldn’t imagine not feeling you all around me so warm, wet and tight. I would never give that up for anything. You drive me absolutely crazy and half the time, I find myself mad at the sun because it won’t hurry up and go down. We'll get it together - No worries. I'll be there around 4:30. I'm just getting done. Darren I know I'm getting some tonight!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author dcgirl33 Posted October 9, 2008 Author Share Posted October 9, 2008 Absolutely NOT! I love making love to you and being inside of you. You fit me like a glove' date=' baby. I couldn’t imagine not feeling you all around me so warm, wet and tight. I would never give that up for anything. You drive me absolutely crazy and half the time, I find myself mad at the sun because it won’t hurry up and go down. We'll get it together - No worries.[/i'] I'll be there around 4:30. I'm just getting done. Darren This stuff right here is what you call jive talking. Personally, I don't think a man with E.D. should be allowed to send this to a woman. It makes her jump to conclusions about what she might be getting that night. If you suspect the your E.D. might be flaring up that night, stay off the email with this stuff. He needs that 12 hour delay on his emails not me. I'll tell you one thing, E.D. is a jealous mistress! He could perform last night again. He actually getting mad at his ED and refusing to do the OS.This is affecting me at work because I can't come in her and do work knowing that I had been gypped the night before. He needs to do the oral s_x first thing out of the bag... before he tries anything else and finds out he can't do it. Here's some lyrics for you All Star to jive talkin' With all your jive talkin You're telling me lies, yeah Erectile Dysfunction That gets in the way Jive talkin So misunderstood, yeah Jive talkin You're di_k just aint no good Link to post Share on other sites
All Star Posted October 9, 2008 Share Posted October 9, 2008 Hell to the No! Don't let him get mad at HIS ED and then be too upset to do the oral sex. Make sure you get the oral sex FIRST as soon as you walk in the door. If he wants to upset his damn self, let him do it after he does the oral sex. I read that email and I liked him, but now I see that he was just sending **** out with that. Why are you putting up with this? Like you said before, "He needs to fu_k or fight, right?!" Link to post Share on other sites
Author dcgirl33 Posted October 9, 2008 Author Share Posted October 9, 2008 Actually, what the bit_h really said when I asked him about the oral s_x is that he had a toothache. Obviously, if he doesn't get to do what he wants, then I'm not going to get anything either. How did he have a toothache when he ate a steak for dinner? And what does his tooth have to do with his tongue? OK! Link to post Share on other sites
All Star Posted October 9, 2008 Share Posted October 9, 2008 LOL You need to flat out tell this guy that he needs to call you when he is ready to cooperate oral sexually speaking. Link to post Share on other sites
Author dcgirl33 Posted October 9, 2008 Author Share Posted October 9, 2008 [sIZE=2]Darren,[/sIZE] [sIZE=2]I'm not trying to send you anymore bs over the email, but sometimes it's easier to say thing in a letter. Last night, I felt angry and frustrated when we ran into a problem and then you refused to do the other thing. I had asked you earlier if you just wanted to do the OS and you said absolutely not.[/sIZE] [sIZE=2]I don't think that intercourse if the only way that we can satisfy one another. We both know it's not. Why can't you do the other thing consistently especially given the problem that we are having? I feel like that is selfish on your part. I feel like I don’t want to come over there anymore without a guarantee of OS. I feel like if you don't stop playing around with the OS, well then…. I just don’t want to say.[/sIZE] [sIZE=2] [/sIZE] [sIZE=2]Jane[/sIZE] [sIZE=2][/sIZE] Link to post Share on other sites
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