Kamille Posted October 10, 2008 Share Posted October 10, 2008 No, she trying to use sex by hios ED is getting in the way of that. LOL LOL. True dat - but notice how all the violence and drama happened around her getting some? I wondered at one point if his ED wasn't a result of the fact that he was turned off by some of her antics. Which might explain why he does manage to get it up if she really insists (by, for instance, talking dirthy at the door of his bathroom). But if that was the case, then he wouldn't be trying to salvage the relationship, which he seems to be doing right now. Link to post Share on other sites
2sunny Posted October 10, 2008 Share Posted October 10, 2008 I'm going to see if I can quickly see call you 2 some Dumb Broads before the host deletes it and sends me a warning. avoid avoid avoid - yep... this is productive to personal positive growth. oh ya - and divert attention - must not forget to divert attention - so as to avoid the real problem... :rolleyes: Link to post Share on other sites
Kamille Posted October 10, 2008 Share Posted October 10, 2008 Go right ahead and call me what you want . You said you didn't see how the relationship was manipulative - I pointed out an instance where I felt manipulation was used by both parties. Link to post Share on other sites
All Star Posted October 10, 2008 Share Posted October 10, 2008 I'm going to see if I can quickly see call you 2 some Dumb Broads before the host deletes it and sends me a warning. LOL I'm gong to see if I can quickly tell you to do right before you go home for the holidiay weekend and do wrong. Link to post Share on other sites
2sunny Posted October 10, 2008 Share Posted October 10, 2008 1. If I didn't care how he felt, I would not have gone downstairs. I could have gotten lunch myself if I wanted. If I wanted to get rid of Darren, it would be beyond his control. 2. He gets his way everyday mainly, because I like letting him get his way. 3. you didn't see that fool ask me to clean out his basement and I did it. You don't see me go to his house and do all of his housework either. I do. He's found a real fool in me. That's why he can't let me get away! 4. That's why he was about to cry. He doesn't want to have to clean his own house. 1. yes, you would go downstairs - because you knew he would buy you lunch - and you were prepared to stick it to him by ordering a huge meal AGAIN! SELFISH still! are you noticing a pattern here? 2. :rolleyes: 3. poor poor me! my god - can we throw you a pity party? if you don't want to do it - then DON'T! 4. he doesn't need you to clean for him- what do you think he's done all along without you before you met a few weeks ago? stop being the martyr! say what you mean and mean what you say! do things because you want to - not because you're planning to use them against him or hold it over his head! geez, women like you can certainly make life way more difficult and complicated than things need to be! most folks call this high maintenance and high drama... i find nothing attractive about either one. Link to post Share on other sites
Geishawhelk Posted October 10, 2008 Share Posted October 10, 2008 say what you mean and mean what you say! Hey!! That's MY line!! Link to post Share on other sites
Lucky_One Posted October 10, 2008 Share Posted October 10, 2008 Seriously - do posters here really believe this thread? All of this drama in a three week span? All of these overnights while she does God knows what with a jackass child? Throwing roasted chickens at each other? Having to hit him to get him to have an erection? True love? Marriage? Please. And for some other poster to think that negative responses to this dysfunctional tale of non-romance mean that other posters are jealous is ludicrous. Being jealous of a story such as this would indicate that one would want as silly a relationship, and for the most part, LS posters strike me as far too intelligent and self-aware to want such a thing. No wonder this epic thread has drawn so few responses from caring posters since it became so childish. Link to post Share on other sites
sultry33 Posted October 11, 2008 Share Posted October 11, 2008 That bastard wanted to inform me that if I didn't pay him for the books, he'd be suing me in small claims court for $300. He's fu_king high! The said the books are valued at $300. That would mean that he paid almost $50 each one. That's a damn lie! He's another lying ass lawyer. It's a good thing he told me what he wanted right when we sat down because then I knew to order the $23.99 Crab Cakes with asparagus and cole slaw. I had a house salad to start for $6.99 and key lime pie for dessert that was $7.99. The malt was the most expensive drink on the menu at $4.49, so I got that. I am stuffed right now. BUT, if I actually let him get me all the way to small claims court, there would have been no chance of me getting him back, so I gave him a check for the $300. I felt like he was standing over me with a bottle of rotten urine telling me to give him $300 dollars. Only his rotten urine was a threat of no contact. I've been robbed for the second time in 4 days. If he doesn't give me any tonight after I just gave him $300, there's gonna be a big ass problem! That's the other reason I paid - to ensure future s_x. Did I say "other?" I meant "only." 5-15 posted..plus was not ariving til 30mins arrived..5-45.. posted again 6-39 see page 27? very fast for a 3course lunch:laugh: just my 2cents but this looked like a pile of s hite.. kept me entertained for few hrs though, espically the email telling him she was giving him an examination for ED:lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
padparadscha Posted October 11, 2008 Share Posted October 11, 2008 I was bored, so I stopped on to see why this post had so many threads. I found myself spending an hour reading this. I stopped around the twelfth page. I can only say that DC girl has serious problems. Seriously when I first joined LS, I thought I was insane. Problem was I knew I needed help and trust me I listened. I got the help people on LS had to offer. DC girl is not listening to some clearly intelligent women. Women who I applaud for their values and strong suggestions. However it was a waste of your time because this chick is psycho and desperate and has no self respect. To be honest any woman who calls a child who is with special needs a Jack... no matter what, is a disgrace. DC girl you dont need a man, you need a good beating for being such a lousy person to your son. You clearly have no common sense and if your son has ADD his mother is ten times worst! I really dont care if you post a negative remark back. It phases me not. I can tell you, that people are posting here because your tale is so unbelievable. You just dont seem human:bunny:! Link to post Share on other sites
sultry33 Posted October 11, 2008 Share Posted October 11, 2008 I was bored, so I stopped on to see why this post had so many threads. I found myself spending an hour reading this. I stopped around the twelfth page. I can only say that DC girl has serious problems. Seriously when I first joined LS, I thought I was insane. Problem was I knew I needed help and trust me I listened. I got the help people on LS had to offer. DC girl is not listening to some clearly intelligent women. Women who I applaud for their values and strong suggestions. However it was a waste of your time because this chick is psycho and desperate and has no self respect. To be honest any woman who calls a child who is with special needs a Jack... no matter what, is a disgrace. DC girl you dont need a man, you need a good beating for being such a lousy person to your son. You clearly have no common sense and if your son has ADD his mother is ten times worst! I really dont care if you post a negative remark back. It phases me not. I can tell you, that people are posting here because your tale is so unbelievable. You just dont seem human:bunny:! Yes thats what got me angry too My son has autism and whilst sometimes others may have seen him in that light..i would never agree..he has a medical condition ffs.. be a mother and protect him. Also i would never take him with me on a date or introduce him to any potential dates until 3 months at least..if its inconvient or awkward for my date then they can take the high rd..my children are my priority not a replaceable guy:laugh: Im shocked by the ops parenting and obvious life skills aswell as her ability to blame others..she acts on impulse and her life must be a big mess im betting its a big story as it seems uneal i like life without too much drama.. im 37 and the op is 40 not 16..weird Link to post Share on other sites
padparadscha Posted October 11, 2008 Share Posted October 11, 2008 you have no clue how much I admire your patience. You truly have hung in there commenting on this bullshi*. Someone should steal this material and write a novel. They should title the book, "YOU HEARD OF DESPERATE HOUSE WIVES-Now read DESPERATE INSANE TRASH." Truly, I take my hat off to you. You hung in there responding to all the crap this DCgirl threw at you. She didn't seem worthy of your post in my opinion! Link to post Share on other sites
padparadscha Posted October 11, 2008 Share Posted October 11, 2008 I am not perfect. I came to LS because I know I have my issues with relationships. My relationships last years, my shortest being 6 years, but when they end I have trouble letting them go. So I found this site and it has helped me cope. I am an educator. I have no children. I don't want children because I know that I am not ready even at the age of 35. However, this woman is 40 years old and she is acting as others suggested...as a school girl. Her behavior is not appropriate. She does not seem responsible in any sense. The sad part is she has cared for her child for only 6 years. Six year is not a long time and already she is saying he is the "Jackass" not the men she is dating. He is her burden. She is not a strong woman, nor a strong parent and I feel so bad for her child. I honestly do. At 35years, I am so close to my parents, nobody can believe it. My brothers are close as well. My parents were loving. One of my brother has cerebral palsy and he no less loved than us. My parents give him so much, yet they treat him like the man he is. We are all loved. At 35 no matter how much I go through, I can say that my family would never, ever put me down, especially to strangers!!! Can you imagine if she post such ugly things, how she must talk to her child? How he must feel her attitude towards him? Children are smart. Challenged kids are smarter in their own way! Link to post Share on other sites
nicki Posted October 11, 2008 Share Posted October 11, 2008 Padparascha, you are kind person who has been through a lot. You are self-aware and learning about yourself and how you want to navigate this world. It's obvious that you care about others. Don't believe this thread and try to help. Poster "Lucky One" is right. All caring posters like yourself have gone elsewhere. Link to post Share on other sites
Shygirl15 Posted October 11, 2008 Share Posted October 11, 2008 I will be the first one to admit that this is the most annoying and sickening thread I have ever seen on LS. I hope they close it for good come October 15. Thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
sloppyclam Posted October 12, 2008 Share Posted October 12, 2008 Try to get more info from him through more conversation instead of the hi/bye. He could be shy so u may want to spark the convo up to where e can give u feedback. find out what he does for a living. Talk about the train and how delayed it is...i don't know just say anything. Good luck Link to post Share on other sites
D-Lish Posted October 12, 2008 Share Posted October 12, 2008 I will be the first one to admit that this is the most annoying and sickening thread I have ever seen on LS. I hope they close it for good come October 15. Thanks. I actually don't believe a word of it...lol. I smelled a troll from the moment I read the contrived pick up line she claimed to use on the platform. I suspect this isn't her first time trolling with a fake story. It was entertaining though. Link to post Share on other sites
padparadscha Posted October 12, 2008 Share Posted October 12, 2008 I started a new thread. I need advice if someone can help. the thread is on the Breaks and Breaking Up forum. Link to post Share on other sites
BlueEyedGirl Posted October 12, 2008 Share Posted October 12, 2008 I actually don't believe a word of it...lol. I smelled a troll from the moment I read the contrived pick up line she claimed to use on the platform. I suspect this isn't her first time trolling with a fake story. It was entertaining though. When I read threads, I straight away get the feeling on whetever they are real or not. But yeah ever since that pick up line (which normal people just DON'T use) I had a gut feeling that this was a troll which steadily increased into 100% certainity. I'm just amazed that this person would put so much effort into this thread. Must have a sad life... Link to post Share on other sites
pretty professional Posted October 12, 2008 Share Posted October 12, 2008 I was rather entertained by it. It's a lot better than Gold Pile's piles of degrading crap. Link to post Share on other sites
Extract Posted October 12, 2008 Share Posted October 12, 2008 hahahaha "wheres that fool Gray" .. lmao this is obviously fake.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author dcgirl33 Posted October 14, 2008 Author Share Posted October 14, 2008 I was just catching up on al of the posts from the past few days and I have to say, Why keep reading? I have told you that this is just a diary of sorts for me. At this point, I'm not really looking for any advice. There is one or two of you that I have actually acted on what you have posted. As for the rest who believe that this thread is made up, the questions are for you. What is it about you that keeps you reading this what you call nonsense basically? What's missing from YOUR life that keeps you reading what is in your view nonsense? You need to ask yourself that question before you ask me anbything else. You may not believe that someone would share intimate details of their personal life with strangers, but you shoudl try it sometimes. It very therapudic. Link to post Share on other sites
Author dcgirl33 Posted October 14, 2008 Author Share Posted October 14, 2008 Friday Darren did pick me up and we collected the boy and went to Safeway and got some stuff to make individual pizzas. We went back to his house and made our pizzas and they played WII boxing. At about 8pm Darren told the boy that he wanted to show him something on his computer upstairs. They went up there a while and I was watching the Farmers Wife documentary on DVD. When Darren came back down at about 9pm, I asked him where was Grayson. He said he was asleep. At that point, I was annoyed because we had discussed the no sleepovers until Wednesday. I asked him why he had put him to sleep when we were about to leave. He didn't reply and a few minutes later he announced that he was taking a shower and "You can sleep in my bed." I went upstairs and got in his bed and started to go to sleep, but I couldn't because he was running the shower in the master bath. When he came out, without turning the lights on, he went to his dresser and sprayed a few things on him. He was only wearing a towel around his waist. I watched him take a tee shirt from his drawer and put it on. He then removed the towel from around his waist and GOT IN THE BED. I happen to know that this particular look with the tee-shirt and nothing else is his sex outfit. I asked him what he was doing. He said he was going to bed. I said, "Well, you need to put some underwear on and I thought you said that you were sleeping downstairs." He pointed out that he only said that I could sleep in his bed and that he did not say exactly where he would be sleeping. There's that slick lawyer. I told him to make sure he stayed on his side of the bed. He has a king size bed so I didn't see a problem. UNTIL he rolled over to my side and started pressing himself against me. I told him that we agreed that there would be nothing until Wednesday when he got his medicine. He said, "OK, but let me just get a little now and we'll save the rest for Wednesday." TO BE CONTINUED I HAVE A 9AM MEETING. Link to post Share on other sites
All Star Posted October 14, 2008 Share Posted October 14, 2008 When I read threads, I straight away get the feeling on whetever they are real or not. But yeah ever since that pick up line (which normal people just DON'T use) I had a gut feeling that this was a troll which steadily increased into 100% certainity. I'm just amazed that this person would put so much effort into this thread. Must have a sad life... She's right, why are you putting so much effort in trying to convince people (mainly yourself) that she is fake? Link to post Share on other sites
All Star Posted October 14, 2008 Share Posted October 14, 2008 I will be the first one to admit that this is the most annoying and sickening thread I have ever seen on LS. I hope they close it for good come October 15. Thanks. Did you know that you can actually stop reading any thread at any time? Youi don't actually have to wait until they close it. You'd be reading all day if that was the case. Link to post Share on other sites
All Star Posted October 14, 2008 Share Posted October 14, 2008 Seriously - do posters here really believe this thread? All of this drama in a three week span? All of these overnights while she does God knows what with a jackass child? Throwing roasted chickens at each other? Having to hit him to get him to have an erection? True love? Marriage? No wonder this epic thread has drawn so few responses from caring posters since it became so childish. I see you're back again. What's going on with you? Does DCGirl need a restraining order to keep you off this thread. Link to post Share on other sites
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