DaisyBelle Posted September 18, 2008 Share Posted September 18, 2008 << ya - with the troll running off to hide now that she has been found out! >> *snorting with laughter* (And if by some chance it's real, well, they truly deserve each other.) Now back to my regularly scheduled life... Link to post Share on other sites
IfWishesWereHorses Posted September 18, 2008 Share Posted September 18, 2008 He's not a creep or controlling. He's a Lawyer for God sakes. That's the best lawyer joke I've heard in forever!:lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
Author dcgirl33 Posted September 18, 2008 Author Share Posted September 18, 2008 DoD works in shifts. they don't really ever close. Rod - You're the only one with any sense. I guess because you're not a female. Link to post Share on other sites
Lucky_One Posted September 18, 2008 Share Posted September 18, 2008 Daisy, Sunny and Horsey - At this point, I may just have to go to his house tonight at midnight wearing only a slip. I am going to get him back however. You can count on that. He's not a creep or controlling. He's a Lawyer for God sakes. You don't get to be General Counsel for an Armed Forces command by being passive. Of course, he's persuasive and aggressive. He's not over bearing, however. He's actually quite funny and easy going. I like him. I'm going to call him and fix this mess you all made shortly. Oh my god. But please, no matter what, keep posting. This is great reading. Link to post Share on other sites
Lucky_One Posted September 18, 2008 Share Posted September 18, 2008 Rod - You're the only one with any sense. I guess because you're not a female. DCgirl, I would think your name indicates that you are a girl? Wow - DoD Counsel who wants to bang a guy. "Don't ask, don't tell".... Link to post Share on other sites
DaisyBelle Posted September 18, 2008 Share Posted September 18, 2008 <<Rod - You're the only one with any sense. I guess because you're not a female. >> You definitely fulfill that characterization of females, Jane. And seconding Lucky_One (for about the tenth time in this thread). By all means keep posting. I can't wait for Luray now (or the slip at midnight - while your son is left home alone, I presume - or whatever it is we're forcing you to do now). Good times. Link to post Share on other sites
2sunny Posted September 18, 2008 Share Posted September 18, 2008 calling to FIX IT = desperate looking - go ahead... he wants you to fix it... that is why he canceled for sat. why not just let it sit the way it is for a while... you've waited 6 years already - what's the hurry? Link to post Share on other sites
rod_in_gtown Posted September 18, 2008 Share Posted September 18, 2008 Rod - You're the only one with any sense. I guess because you're not a female. Haha! Don't sweat it. He likes you. He might have to work. But don't feel pressured by all of the "advice" many people will give you here. most of the times, we project onto posters how we would like for them to live their lives. I was just telling my sister earlier how much of a "second chance" type of guy I am, and I know general counsels of a few companies on a personal level. He's good at his job, and they're good at being convincing, but a guy worth your time, will know how to respect your boundaries. It seems to me that you have a very wild sense of humour, and he may be playing off of that. When I meet someone like you, I tend to think that the toughness bleeds into all aspects of their personality but this is not often true. We use humour to shield ourselves emotionally and just shows how vulnerable we really are. I know I am. He said he's not playing games, he's older and has been out of the dating world for a while. He's just following his emotions and his emotions are telling him to spend as much time as possible with you... I know what this feels like and can be overwhelming. Remember: you attract more bees with honey than with vinegar, be sweet and light. Enjoy the whirlwind that is the beginning stages of getting to know someone and don't put 100% stock into what any of us say on here. we've all been hurt before, we all have our pre-conceived notions of the people from the opposite sex and sometimes we will project the behavio of the people who have hurt us onto the love interest of a poster. Follow your instinct. it has served you well, and please enjoy this. Link to post Share on other sites
scratch Posted September 18, 2008 Share Posted September 18, 2008 But please, no matter what, keep posting. This is great reading. This is the key point to remember when seeking advice on this, or any, internet forum. While most people may actually mean well in their attempts to help, not all do. The one thing that every poster has in common, though, is that they are here to be entertained. If they happen to provide useful advice along the way, that's a pleasant coincidence. Is this person a troll? I don't know, and I don't much care. It sure is fun watching the play by play, though. I feel fortunate that she was willing to provide the frequent updates, as they made for entertaining reading. And she actually kept you ritalin-starved monkeys on topic. DC girl, if you're on the level, stop taking advice from the internet and do what works for you (hooray for humorless irony), but by all means, do keep posting your entertaining updates. Link to post Share on other sites
Author dcgirl33 Posted September 18, 2008 Author Share Posted September 18, 2008 [sIZE=2]Darren, I didn’t mean to over-react about the motel thing. I'm not staying at a motel with you at this stage, but it's not that serious. I think this is why you "may have to work?" I'm sorry if I embarrassed you. I embarrassed both of us with my NO MOTEL reply. I'm a little out of practice and that was uncalled for. Please accept my apology and we'll go to Luray like we planned. What do you say? XOXOX, Jane [/sIZE] Link to post Share on other sites
rod_in_gtown Posted September 18, 2008 Share Posted September 18, 2008 And she actually kept you ritalin-starved monkeys on topic. :lmao::lmao::lmao: OMG, that's the best line I've heard all day! :lmao::lmao: Scratch rocks Link to post Share on other sites
rod_in_gtown Posted September 18, 2008 Share Posted September 18, 2008 Darren, I didn’t mean to over-react about the motel thing. I'm not staying at a motel with you at this stage, but it's not that serious. I think this is why you "may have to work?" I'm sorry if I embarrassed you. I embarrassed both of us with my NO MOTEL reply. I'm a little out of practice and that was uncalled for. Please accept my apology and we'll go to Luray like we planned. What do you say? XOXOX, Jane Nice, sincere and to the point. I like it Link to post Share on other sites
Author dcgirl33 Posted September 18, 2008 Author Share Posted September 18, 2008 Yes, Jane. I'd love that and the only thing I'll be working on this weekend or any weekend is this relationship. Don't ever feel like you're being pressured by me to do anything. I would never do that. I just feel so comfortable with you that the suggestion of spending the night at Luray just "rolled off my tongue." I didn't realize that you would interpret it as something sexual. Later, Darren Link to post Share on other sites
IfWishesWereHorses Posted September 18, 2008 Share Posted September 18, 2008 Wow he said the "R" word already!!! Just Wow! Link to post Share on other sites
Shygirl15 Posted September 18, 2008 Share Posted September 18, 2008 Rod - You're the only one with any sense. I guess because you're not a female. I'm sorry, but what exactly is that supposed to mean if you don't mind explaining? Link to post Share on other sites
Lucky_One Posted September 18, 2008 Share Posted September 18, 2008 Wow, so he's a liar and a master manipulator, too! KEWL! You have proof that he IS a lawyer! DCgirl, don't worry about condoms, and don't take any cash or credit cards. Remember, you think that men should pay 100% of all dating expenses 100% of the time, and that you want to quit work and stay at home with the kids, even if people might consider that being a golddigger. Have fun! Link to post Share on other sites
Author dcgirl33 Posted September 18, 2008 Author Share Posted September 18, 2008 I'm sorry, but what exactly is that supposed to mean if you don't mind explaining? I think we all know how we females read too much negativity into things that males may do or say. Link to post Share on other sites
rod_in_gtown Posted September 18, 2008 Share Posted September 18, 2008 Damn!! let the catfight begin! Link to post Share on other sites
Author dcgirl33 Posted September 18, 2008 Author Share Posted September 18, 2008 Wow, so he's a liar and a master manipulator, too! KEWL! You have proof that he IS a lawyer! DCgirl, don't worry about condoms, and don't take any cash or credit cards. Remember, you think that men should pay 100% of all dating expenses 100% of the time, and that you want to quit work and stay at home with the kids, even if people might consider that being a golddigger. Have fun! How much do condoms cost thsee days? The last time I had sex, they were giving away at the 7-11. We should probably find a Motel that has free condoms. Do you know any, Lucky? Link to post Share on other sites
Lucky_One Posted September 18, 2008 Share Posted September 18, 2008 How much do condoms cost thsee days? The last time I had sex, they were giving away at the 7-11. We should probably find a Motel that has free condoms. Do you know any, Lucky? Why are you worrying about the cost? Men should pay for everything, remember? No, sorry to disappoint. I don't stay at motels with my BF (or with anyone, ever in my life, for that matter). He doesn't have a problem with me being in his home. Link to post Share on other sites
Shygirl15 Posted September 18, 2008 Share Posted September 18, 2008 I think we all know how we females read too much negativity into things that males may do or say. I would think it's because they're infact smarter? Don't you think? Link to post Share on other sites
Author dcgirl33 Posted September 18, 2008 Author Share Posted September 18, 2008 Why are you worrying about the cost? Men should pay for everything, remember? No, sorry to disappoint. I don't stay at motels with my BF (or with anyone, ever in my life, for that matter). He doesn't have a problem with me being in his home. AND he never takes you out of the state of Nebraska. Anyway, I need to focus on my man. We had a private email convo that I didn't share. He wants to see me tonight. We need to talk about some things. Link to post Share on other sites
rod_in_gtown Posted September 18, 2008 Share Posted September 18, 2008 I think this thread has taken a turn for the worst. Maybe it's time to let it die? Link to post Share on other sites
Author dcgirl33 Posted September 18, 2008 Author Share Posted September 18, 2008 I think this thread has taken a turn for the worst. Maybe it's time to let it die? Nah, baby. We're gonna keep it alive. Right up to the wedding day. Link to post Share on other sites
Shygirl15 Posted September 18, 2008 Share Posted September 18, 2008 Nah, baby. We're gonna keep it alive. Right up to the wedding day. Very Good. Just be prepared to receive both positive and negative feedbacks and don't dismiss others as reading too much negativity just because they're not telling you what you want to hear. Once you post your thread here, that's a compromise you have to take. Okay, people continue daydreaming. Link to post Share on other sites
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