Disappointment to myself, my mother....what to do?

[longlegzs80]

This has been something that has always bothered me. I don't know if it is in my head or what. But I always feel like I am a huge disappointment. Not only to myself but to my mom and to my family. Nothing is ever good enough and I have no where to turn. I don;t have anyone positive in my life, and when I say no one, I really mean it. IT is almost like I have myself and that is it. And even that I am sick of.

 

Does anyone else feel the way I do? Just feeling like nothing is ever good enough and that your a big waste of life?

[Curt]

Are you seeing anyone right now? If so, I'm sure you're not a disappointment to him.

 

Also, sometimes it is difficult to measure up to anyone else's standards. The best thing we can do is to try and be the best and most successful person we can.

 

We all have those times when we are a waste of skin, but it is usually a temporary thing that comes and goes, depending on what stage of life we are in.

 

Oftentimes, when we try to live up to someone else's standard, we lose our perspective on where WE want to be, and how we want to conduct ourselves.

 

Don't know if this helps.

 

Curt

[Patty]

This has been something that has always bothered me. I don't know if it is in my head or what. But I always feel like I am a huge disappointment. Not only to myself but to my mom and to my family. Nothing is ever good enough and I have no where to turn. I don;t have anyone positive in my life, and when I say no one, I really mean it. IT is almost like I have myself and that is it. And even that I am sick of.

 

Does anyone else feel the way I do? Just feeling like nothing is ever good enough and that your a big waste of life?

 

 

 

 

 

 

Dont be so hard on yourself cause you will only feel worse.Everytime you think theres nothing good about yourself just think of what you do have and the people that are worse off then you.You have some people in your life,and they are right here at LoveShack and care about you! Why do you feel like your a dissapointment? Has anyone in your family put you down? I hope not. Just remember you do have some people that care about you right here at LoveShack.

 

((((((hugs))))))

 

Patty

[Tony T]

Read this ------> http://www.ameritech.net/users/macler/desiderata.html , have a few drinks and you'll feel a lot better. There are many people who feel the same way as you do. But, as Ricky Nelson sang in his song "Garden Party," "...But it's all right now, I learned my lesson well.

You see, ya can't please everyone, so ya got to please yourself." Don't look to other people to give you a boost. Most of them are just plain too unhappy with themselves to find the greatness in others.