kimba Posted September 18, 2008 Posted September 18, 2008 I have a guy that i sleep with, I guess we are fwb, but i wouldnt say we are really friends. Basically its all about sex and sex only. We have known each other nearly a year, and slept together within an hour or 2 of meeting. The chemistry was that intense. It still is intense, except for a break of about 5 months between Feb and July where we didnt see each other as I grew emotionally attached. We started seeing each other again in july. Last time we saw each other was 2 weeks ago - sex was amazing, lasted for about 6 hours. But then about 10 days later i contact him to hook up again , and he just makes an excuse. And i think but hey the sex was great, and so whats the problem? Why does he alwaus back off each time, and its always 3 weeks or even 4 before we see each other again?
Author kimba Posted September 19, 2008 Author Posted September 19, 2008 Is t possible for me to erase this thread? because it has no comments.
2sunny Posted September 19, 2008 Posted September 19, 2008 i have a guy that is similar to yours. i made sure certain guidelines were to be followed so i can't say i blame him... it's the way i wanted it to be. so - recently i am not seeing him mainly because he has a habit of smoking weed every time. he doesn't drink - but he smokes... i just think it's not necessary for me to see that - so for now i'm keeping my distance.
paddington bear Posted September 19, 2008 Posted September 19, 2008 as you got emotionally attached before, he's probably trying to ensure that it doesn't happen again by keeping a long time in between your encounters.
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