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Hello, I'm new to this site..anyways a have a thing going on....there is this one girl who has a major crush on me, how I know this? well her sister has told me things she said about me after we have met two times. I could tell the girl liked me, but I did not know she liked me this much.

 

Like she said about me

"you're hot and you smell nice"

"she was all like fantasizing "What if we got married""

Those sisters had a sleepover and the one with a crush on me said my name twice while asleep.

 

Also sister said in a email "should kiss her on the cheek or forehead. She would faint."

 

 

So should I kiss her and see what happens?

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you sound really young... if your at school just walk up to her and say you want to show her something then lead her away from her friends or whatever to a corner where people cant see you guys and kiss her then

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But... do you like her back?

 

Hello, I'm new to this site..anyways a have a thing going on....there is this one girl who has a major crush on me, how I know this? well her sister has told me things she said about me after we have met two times. I could tell the girl liked me, but I did not know she liked me this much.

 

Like she said about me

"you're hot and you smell nice"

"she was all like fantasizing "What if we got married""

Those sisters had a sleepover and the one with a crush on me said my name twice while asleep.

 

Also sister said in a email "should kiss her on the cheek or forehead. She would faint."

 

 

So should I kiss her and see what happens?

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KMT's right - get her away from her friends. Once she realizes what you plan to do, she'll be shaking like a leaf; there's no need to add to her nervousness by having her friends watching. Besides, it'll be more romantic to her that way. Catch her after school if you can. That way, she's not rushed, there'll be less people around (as some will have left already) there's no pressure to be anywhere, and she can just bask in the moment ...and then she'll go running off to tell her friends.

 

Since her sister knows already, you can enlist her help in getting the other friends away. Girls, especially young ones, like to stick together, so having an insider herd them away will be 10x easier than you trying to break her off from the pack. Plus, it'll give them something to giggle about on their own, rather than trying to spy on you two every 30 seconds. It really kills the mood when you're trying to kiss one girl and 5 others are staring at you like you're a TV show.

 

If it were me, I'd go for the lips. To me, the forehead always feels like something an adult does to a child, and the cheek has that "I like you...as a friend" feeling. The lips are a whole other story. If her sister's right about an anticipated fainting from just a kiss on the cheek, that means she probably hasn't been kissed before, and almost certainly not on the lips. You'll be her first...and girls remember that kind of thing! If you make it magical for her, she'll remember it for as long as she lives. Plus, it's a huge showing of confidence, which will only make her even crazier about you than she already is (not that you need any boost in that department)!

 

If you have a nice cologne, wear it that day. If all goes well, that smell and you will be linked in her mind for the rest of her life. 30 years from now, she can be near some other guy, and if he's wearing the same cologne, guess who'll come back to her mind? Yep, you!

 

Of course, this is all contingent on you liking her too. If you don't, then don't mess with her heart.

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update:

 

so her older sister set it up for me to surprise her at a water fountain, I brought a red rose and gave it to her then hugged, then tried to kiss her on the cheek, but her hair got in the way lol...anyways then we walked around for awhile holding hands and hugging, until she kissed me on the cheek, then I kissed her on the lips, then after walking for a long time and kissing on the lips we decided to become boyfriend and girlfriend..YAY :D then we went to the movie theater and there I kissed her on the lips and she started to do the french kiss thing, which is kinda neat and after the movie I met her mom and we watched some tv at her house while we also cuddled and kissed alot, it was all great, we both changed our relationship status on myspace to "in a relationship" :D.......I like her a lot and she likes me :D

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