beautifulearth83 Posted September 21, 2008 Share Posted September 21, 2008 I'm 25 and I'm a guy. It seems like I fall in love easily. Or least I feel that I have a number of times. And every time it seems that I mess it up and perhaps I've developed a fear of doing so. Currently it is a friend. I've known her for awhile and have always had this hunch that there was something subtle and unspoken between us. Well now I'm starting to feel it more and more and she really has an effect on me. The problem is that I get so scared and in these situations I usually end up hiding and ignoring situations where I know that my heart will race and my palms will sweat. It's almost like romantic love is too intense for me. But maybe it's nothing to be afraid of? Maybe it's worth it? I have such a hard time with this and I've had so many broken relationships. And I'm afraid I have to admit that most of them are due to my reclusive behavior. I feel so vulnerable in the face of romantic love. Can anybody shed any light on this for me and perhaps make me feel more positive about it? Or help me help myself? I should also note that this past year or so has been ridden with anxiety and It's really hard for me to handle intense situations. Though I'm trying to expose myself to them more. Thanks, BE Link to post Share on other sites
nopainnogain Posted September 28, 2008 Share Posted September 28, 2008 Hey buddy. I just wanna say when i first came here in may of 06 I was a wreck. I remember reading a post of yours then and it made me cry and feel better. It was a long time ago .I enjoy reading your post. I can relate to you a lot lol. You have a good way of expressing your feelings. As for the whole romantic anxiety, try not to think about it too much. Just go with the flo. Be honest with yourself and the girl you like. Stay even keel. Link to post Share on other sites
Author beautifulearth83 Posted September 29, 2008 Author Share Posted September 29, 2008 Hey buddy. I just wanna say when i first came here in may of 06 I was a wreck. I remember reading a post of yours then and it made me cry and feel better. It was a long time ago .I enjoy reading your post. I can relate to you a lot lol. You have a good way of expressing your feelings. As for the whole romantic anxiety, try not to think about it too much. Just go with the flo. Be honest with yourself and the girl you like. Stay even keel. Hey thanks a lot friend. I'm gonna do my best. Good lookin' out. Link to post Share on other sites
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