carhill Posted September 22, 2008 Share Posted September 22, 2008 I see relationships, especially intimate emotional ones, as separate planes of existence, or perhaps parallel realities. So, for me, a woman's prior (and future) lovers do not exist in my perception. They occupy physical space in the world, but do not exist within that particular plane of thought and spiritual energy. You might see some of this yourself when another man or woman (depending on your perspective) seems like "the only one in the room" and all other people seem to fade into the background. It's like you move out of the real and into a construct all your own. Probably makes as little sense as most of my ramblings but I'll throw it in anyway Link to post Share on other sites
rod_in_gtown Posted September 22, 2008 Share Posted September 22, 2008 That doesn't say a lot of good stuff for you, though. His inner qualities shone a lot brighter than yours, and that's what's important. I won't go into details of what happened and how or why it ended but I got the short end of the stick during the entire relationship. Breaking up was very rough on me and my friends saw that. My comfort came from my friend's support, not whether or not the guy she's dating is unattractive. If she (25) wants to date a crusty greasy 51 year old after breaking up with me, that's her choice. I feel bad for the guy because of what I know about her. Since I don't know the guy, I can only make a comparison based on physical appearance, however, given the types of guys she usually attracts (I'm the exception), I can't really think very highly of this one. Either way, it helped me move on, and I feel no guilt on sharing a laugh with my friends as long as it allows me to get over her and how poorly she treated me. Link to post Share on other sites
rod_in_gtown Posted September 22, 2008 Share Posted September 22, 2008 That doesn't say a lot of good stuff for you, though. His inner qualities shone a lot brighter than yours, and that's what's important. Oh! I almost forgot to say: "I'm sorry that you feel that way" :lmao::lmao::lmao: :lmao::lmao::lmao: PS, here's the picture, blurred out to protect the innocent: http://i394.photobucket.com/albums/pp24/rod_in_gtown/MossaicDouche.jpg Link to post Share on other sites
vivrantflo Posted September 22, 2008 Share Posted September 22, 2008 Loving the "Im a douchebag sunglasses" .. Your boys are jokes.. Link to post Share on other sites
almost famous Posted September 22, 2008 Share Posted September 22, 2008 Yeah, lol. Ok well, my ex's fiance is very unattractive but hey, if that's what she wants, lol! She's the one who has to wake up next to that ugly mug every morning, not me Again, that isn't saying too much for your inner qualities. Maybe this guy is fun and exciting and with you it was like watching paint dry. She left you for him, no? Obviously whatever he's got outweighs however good looking you think you are. Looks are in the eye of the beholder anyway. Link to post Share on other sites
almost famous Posted September 22, 2008 Share Posted September 22, 2008 Oh! I almost forgot to say: "I'm sorry that you feel that way" :lmao::lmao::lmao: :lmao::lmao::lmao: PS, here's the picture, blurred out to protect the innocent: http://i394.photobucket.com/albums/pp24/rod_in_gtown/MossaicDouche.jpg It's becoming pretty obvious why she left your ass for his. SHe was obviously looking for more depth than a catty, superficial loser who thinks he's all that. Link to post Share on other sites
rod_in_gtown Posted September 23, 2008 Share Posted September 23, 2008 It's becoming pretty obvious why she left your ass for his. SHe was obviously looking for more depth than a catty, superficial loser who thinks he's all that. Yes, you're absolutely right. I'm a horrible person and should be neutered. Thank you for helping me realize the painful reality of what an ******* I am. Link to post Share on other sites
almost famous Posted September 23, 2008 Share Posted September 23, 2008 You're welcome. Link to post Share on other sites
rod_in_gtown Posted September 23, 2008 Share Posted September 23, 2008 It's becoming pretty obvious why she left your ass for his. SHe was obviously looking for more depth than a catty, superficial loser who thinks he's all that. The way I see it it's no different from the way girls help each other out by saying what a "skank" the new gf of the old bf is. However when guys do it, we're despicable. Right? You're obviously very grounded and have a keen insight into human relations. Link to post Share on other sites
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